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Too bad the OP isn't the recipient of it. He's reactive, lacks self-control and keeps repeating the same patterns. He rationalizes his actions and discounts them and dismisses consequences but every now and then he has a moment of lucidity, a speck of clarity, but it never seems to last. He...

By waiting until she asks you. "Where is this going?" "What are we?" That's how they say it in their women-speak way. You've only been with her for a couple of weeks, so it's early in the game. When you don't go for it, after a while, she'll start wondering why not and she'll set out to make you...

On those occasions when women do experience regret, it seems to me that the way they commonly process it is by mass emailing everyone in their frickin' address book some affirmation type prose piece such as "People Come Into Your Life For A Reason, A Season Or A Lifetime".

And ladies, please, do keep being yourselves (so we guys can easily weed out the bad ones) - and keep wearing those push up bras.

People are complex. Just ask Phil Hartman what his wife is capable of. Oops, too late. I do think that on/off switch has to do with IL. That's why they'll laugh at your jokes - when they're interested in you - and you're thinking inside, "That was REALLY a stupid lousy joke. I can't believe I...

I think the answer is simple. As reported in the NY Times back on 8/2/2006: Why Do Beautiful Women Sometimes Marry Unattractive Men? By Stephen J. Dubner "A new study by Satoshi Kanazawa, an evolutionary psychologist at the London School of Economics, suggests it may be a simple...

Last post around, you wrote that those posts were really all about semantics, but now you're calling them rants... I read that definition of "rant" that you posted, and nowhere in it do I see "long winded" as part of that definition, let alone leading to the conclusion you draw. Not that I...

Well, rare, because it was only used to describe a real mysongist. Real mysongists are not many, nor commonly found. It was that crusty, salty dog who'd yell, "What be doing a... [makes a face]... WOMAN... aboard me ship?! Get the hell off me ship, damn you woman, before I throw ye overboard...

Then don't keep going to the gay bars.

And many times, the girls are attractive, so if you're the only straight guy in the theater class, guess who has a shot with the girls? Besides, women LOVE actors. The only drawback is that they're actresses. If you haven't dated an actress, trust me, they're nuts.

When someone labels other people, such as calling them "Misogynist" or anything else, it's an over-generalization. Misogynists truly hate women simply because they're women. They can be cruel to women. But more and more, misogyny has come to mean any guy who holds any view that's not the mass...

Basically, rapport is a comfort zone feeling that you are associating with someone who's just like you. It's feeling affinity with the other person. So, rapport building techniques have to do with mirroring body language and establishing agreement and consensus, signaling you're both on the...

"I'm confused" usually means "I don't love you, but I want to keep you on a string. Unknown to you, I have another sucker on a string too."

Lishy, your BF does this passive-aggressive thing and when you call him on it, even though he says he's not doing anything, he is, and you talking to him about how it bothers you is his reward letting him know that he got to you. So, to hell with calling him. Don't. And act like it doesn't...

From the rhetoric I hear out of women's mouths here around NYC, it seems to me these are women who look to *compete* with men. Any guy that they'd consider has to earn as much or most times, more, be everything on their list of wants, cater to them, and then be content being on their back burner...

From the article this important nugget of universal truth: Now I want to show its application here: When you see threads on sosuave where a guy's talking about how his woman is complaining or nagging him, and a chorus of alleged DJs are telling him to stand firm in his resolve to do his own...

The point is not about the specific question asked but that the topic in general is mundane. No sir. Not unless you attach some stigma to doing things independently. In fact, if anything, it's strong because you don't need anyone else to go do something. It signals that you're living your...

"I didn't ask her what she eat for breakfast" Why are you crediting me with a typo I didn't make? That's just weird. Okay, so you didn't ask her what she ate, you just asked her what her routine is in the morning. Point is: it's a mundane topic. They encounter these types of conversations most...

Don't lose sight of the fact that you're still dealing with a low interest woman. Just because she called now doesn't negate that yesterday she didn't when she said she would. You have to keep it ALL in mind. This is why I say you have to see how it pans out and how a woman acts consistently...

As I've mentioned, it's going to be different for everyone anyway because of the way we were raised and our own personal preferences and the influences in our lives that shape us regarding these things. So finding a "match" when it comes to this isn't a requirement for a happier relationship...