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    I always hated fill-in-the-blank questions...

    Him: Well we have been planning a trip together - we are going to see XYZ for a weekend - It should be really fun. But enough about that. Well, if things change with you and Dr. Jekyl, give me a call K. Bye Something to that effect would be my response. But you can insert whatever you feel...
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    fukk buddy relationship escalating

    Pull back from her. Seh will wonder what is going on and then you will have the "conversation". Tell her that you feel as if she is getting to attached to you - and you don't want to hurt her. That that is the last thing that you want to do. But that you are not in a position to move this...
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    broke up and i need help

    Cut off contact with her now, and give her that freedom she so wants. she will use you in the meantime for emotional support as long as you keep in contact with her. you do not want to be used.... your young so you will eventually figure this out.
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    A string of broken dates all in a row...wtf?

    No one is saying your a UG. But "Vibe", "Game", "GameFace" - whatever it is you want to call it, is all important. The minute she knows your into het in a big way - you've lost. Then that's the DJ part of yourself that you need to work on. Because - if your obsessed with a woman -...
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    Thou shall Mind ?

    It's not the fact that her parents are divorced that you have to look out for.... Look out for other problems - such as, low self esteem (lack of fatherly love), look out for her replacing her father figure with you (daddy syndrome), drug/alcohol abuse, etc. etc. etc..... I've dated women...
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    Friend setting me up

    From someone who is in a situation of dating a woman with a kid. You can ignore the kid for the short time, but it will not go away - nor will your feelings on the subject. If you don't want to be a surrogate father (and you know that now) - then do not start anything with this woman -...
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    A string of broken dates all in a row...wtf?

    So then what do you want? There is no magic solution to this issue. You must be resding women incorrectly. These women your asking out are obviously not attracted to you or into you. If they were, they wouldn't be ditching your dates every time. You say your not desperate - but here...
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    Firstly, just wanted to point out, that I didn't bring back this post. A few people have asked me this - so just wanted to put it out there. Secondly - you are all right. for a while there, I was still pinning after this chick - but that is all in the past. having said that, Slikster...
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    The same old story - always looking

    I have not meet him.... And recently my girl has wanted me to meet her son, since we've been dating for a yr. I told her from the very start that I really didn't want to meet him... but that if this was going to turn into a long term thing then I would consider it. Yes, she has many, many...
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    For the more experienced DJ's (advice)

    Advice is right on here. you've got to let her do all the work in this one. Let her set the pace and just roll with it. As someone else said, if your not pushy your going to do well here.... As a caution, make sure your not to friendly... don't want to fall into the friend zone...
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    Well you've nothing to worry about there. For sure I was a dope on a couple of occasions... but that's all done and gone now. I know for sure she's engaged and getting married this summer. She lives out of town, but I happened to run into her, her fiance and he Gran - looking for wedding...
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    No sh#t.... Well she's called and IM'd me on a few occasions since... and each time I've just told her that I'm off to a meeting - or going to lunch etc. etc. etc. she's tried to pin me down and find out why I'm not calling her - and I just had to tell her that there is no point in...
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    when to end a great LTR

    It's all about you. You wouldn't be asking this question if all right. She maybe a wonderful girl - but you have things that you need to do for yourself (so it sounds). You need to be ready if you are thinking of sticking this out. Sounds like you are not. I did the same thing -...
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    is this the end of my relationship? A mature response welcomed..

    I've got 2 words for you. Passive Agressive. Your both being passive agressive - and it's your's as much as her fault. Bottom line is - it's not going to work out. Anyone can see that. All of your actions to her are negative and agressive - and her's to you. Look, how hard would of...
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    You would....

    What do you expect her to do? If her having guy friends is not cool fo you then move on. Otherwise deal.
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    Busted

    I wouldn't get to excited if I were you - but I hope it works out. It probably will initially - but just wait for the resentment.
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    So my sister won't give any info about my ex.

    Get over it..... She's your sisters friend. You should respect your sister and not even put her in that kind of situation.
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    If she says "Do You Love Me?"

    sure, just before I bust my nut.
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    The same old story - always looking

    Same old story. A year past dating the same woman. Great woman. Total giver. Not materialistic. Good looking. Physically the s#x is awesome. low maintenance. At the same time doesn't put up with any sh#t. Never one time have we argues or fallen out.... and she also is...
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    Busted

    * hand clap* Good job. Whatever you do, don't cave in now. You are doing exactly what I should have many years ago....
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