It happens.
Monday was my ex's bday of 5 yrs and I called her to wish her happy b'day.....
It brings back memories for a little while then you get over it again.
Don't be so hard on yourself - it sounds like you are doing just fine.
Lack of sex is usually a sign that other things in your relationship are not good.
Sex is the first thing to go.
Review your relationship and see what has changed.
Talk to her about things OTHER than sex that she is not happy with.
Also, part of being a man is taking. You perhaps...
So you think he's better than you? or she was into him more than she is you?
I've got news for you - it's highly likely that she was mroe attracted to him than you. That's life.
But she didn't pick him now did she? why? because there are things that are more important that physical looks...
"Manning" up, so to speak does not mean you don't care - and does not mean you will not get hurt.
But, what it does mean is, that you are willing and able to take the pain in the short term - for success in the long term.
The pain in this case is losing that FAMILIAR woman.
Because...
If you have to ask yourself the question - then the answer is obvious.
You do not love her - you just don't want to see her with other guys.
If you hang out together it will be hard for you. This is a good reason why you should not mix freinds and lovers (dipping your c#ck in the friend...
I'm white.
Let me relate a few stories to you.
I have a good friend who is black.
Me and my friends went away for the weekend to the beach, north of LA - out towards the boonies.
Friday night when we arrived we figured we'd go out to the local bar. Grab a few drinks.
We walk in at...
Very good points Gravy.
We both laugh at the same things. We love Seinfeld kind of humor. Actually - I don't think I've ever seen her upset, mad, or angry. She is always happy. Always has a skip to her walk. She never seem's down or sad (except the one time I broke it off when she cried)...
Yes she can cook :) and she'd actually rather cook than go out to dinner - she actually likes to cook new kinds of foods - and oftentimes she's bring food to my appartment for my roomies and I.
As for the arguements and agreements.
I find she lacks some desire. She doesn't have a great...
That's exactly it - I'm really not that into her - even though she's a great girl.
Almost like she's to accomodating and I need someone with a little more edge...
Isn't that the truth.....
I'd like to say I would not.... But when it comes to sex with a hot woman - I am but human and at times weak.
I've cheated before with women that have not been hot...
So being honest - I'd probably have to say I'd do it......
So I'm dating a great woman for over a year now....
Never been in an argument.
Great sense of humor
Giving
Low Maintenance
Attractive
Young
Physically a very good relationship
Non demanding
Pretty much - on paper - exactly the kind of woman you'd want...
That's your problem right there.
Your getting 6 hrs maybe - then being woken up b an alarm.
You've got to set-up a routine (much like everything else in life) and stick to it.
Try getting to bed by 11:45pm every night. Then gradually adjust your bed time after a week until you hit a...
Perhaps he's not interested?
I'm assuming you've dropped all the hint's that your are interested.
If that is the case, there is nothing more you can do - since you will not get off your high horse and put yourself at risk.
Sounds like she's used to being the centre of a guys attention....
Perhaps a high maint. chick?
How about this reply...
"The reason why I don't find the need to do these things, is that you've not proven to me yet that you are worthy enough... I am a traditional guy - but not a...
I think the majority of sleep problems are caused because people force themselves to stay awake.
I've done it.
It's 9PM and your kicking back watching a little TV. You feel tired..... What do you do... force yourself to stay up...
I've changed.
When I'm tired I roll into bed and...
To repeat.
You cannot contract a std from someone who doesn't have one.
Fvcking on a period is fine. just messy.
Make sure you use birth control every time. Don't take any risks.
Personally, I would agree.
Then the hard part comes into effect.
You then treat her like your 3rd favorite. Your not as avialable to go out (you have other dates right) and you continue to seek and date other women aggressively.
Now, she wants to know that you will be there for her...
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