Good Looks?....YOUR rules!

[Styles]

The other day I went to Khol's and seen this absolute DIME from school who worked there. After getting a jacket and shirt and making small talk while she was checking me out, I walked out of the store....

OH HELL NO

I wasn't even about to go out like that, so walked back in. "Oh La La" I thought as I returned to save face. I thought, "I'll just go get some water, if she's there, she there...if not oh well." Well sure enough I recognized her sexy stride as she was walking beside of me toward the water fountain. More small talk. After awhile I got to the point. "So how about letting me get your number so we can hang out sometime?" I mean, she was crazy, sexy, different and geniunely cool. I wanted to hang out(and hit eventually ).

Then she slapped me with it, just like I read on Sosuave...

"Well let me get YOUR number".

I was obviously nervous, and replied with a smile,

"I don't like giving my number to girls, because they like to have guys numbers stacked up in a long list and stuff."

"Well, that's just not me."

I caught her eyesight, sort of evaluating the truth of her seemingly bull**** statement.

She motioned to walk away and put up the paper and pen she had ready to write my info down.

"...wait, wait. Alright."

I gave her my sh!t and we went our separate ways...

You think I got a call?

Nope.

Have I even seen her where she usually hangs out at school?

Nope.


Now, I really never wanted to give my infos away to her, but I thought that it would be over if I didn't...

Well you know what?

I reduced my power from a potential suitor to a personal pet. I thought that I could appeal to her requests until we got together and then she'd see the masuline me.

The lesson is not be an AFC, don't give away your number, etc., stuff that has been repeated over and over.

The lesson is this: even though she is FINE

I mean with an ASS you'd harness yourself to

a FACE to die for, and nice vuluptous(spelling) breasts,

don't be afraid to say forget it. Good looks aren't a get out of jail free card, where she doesn't have to do something as harmless as give out her number.

It's not being selfish or picky. It is being strong, having a backbone, and solid beliefs.

Could the average guy turn down a DIME, with the above description?

That is where the true power of Don Juan lies; the FREEDOM to turn down some of the best looking women if need be.

This is easy to do once you get a consistent, reliable booty call, but that's another post

EDIT: I can't stress the importance of experience. This website can only give one vague outlines of the game, and therefore, it is essential that we turn the PC off and try some ****. No one can read some stuff and go out and convince four women to have an orgy, having never talked sexually to girl before. It's all about experience.

I would've never got the confidence to get that booty call I mentioned if I didn't mess up with the Khol's girl.

So even if it's just an average nice girl, once you get some, other girls can tell. It's like you've been pvssy marked. And then the next will come. And the next. And then two will come. And then you'll wish for peace and silence from them hos!

 

[Krassus]

Haha yea. I've had this happen a couple of times and simply told them that i'm not gonna do it, without explaining my reasons. The reactions were absolutely... haha, i can't think of a word right now. Long story short, they were definitely caught off-guard. BTW, here's a tip. You gotta be more picky. I mean seriously, WHY do you want her after just having some small-talk. Yes i understand that you wanna fvck her, but so does every other guy. What sets you apart? You come off as someone with no standards when you go for a girl after just making small talk and without finding out anything about her. She thinks that the whole point of your small talk was to allow you to 'sneak in' a request for her number, to almost trick her into giving it to you. I used to do this back when i started out and needless to say, it didn't work. Which isn't surprising. Nowdays, i make the chick qualify herself and only once she's given me sufficient reasons, do i go for the number. As an alternative, there is always direct game. If you open with a direct opener that clearly demonstrates your opener... yes, you do show that you want her for her looks, but you also show that you've got the balls to admit your desires, that you're comfortable with interacting on a sexual level, etc. But yea, props on going back. I often find myself doing that too - i miss an opportunity, realize that i'm being a pvssy, kick my own ass and turn around.

 

[I-am-someone]

Okay, a pretty good post.
The problem that you had, was that you didn't have any authority over this girl. If a girl says that to you, you simply say "No, I want your number..." with authority and a bit of a ****y smile, and 90% of the women will do as told.
The other 10% that doesn't, consists of masculine, dominant women, so you don't want them anyway.

Everything you do in regard to women is just so much different, if you just do it in a way that radiates power, without doing anything special. Just feeling that you have power over everything is what makes girls (and plenty of other people) flock to you, as well as that which makes you have power over people, because they recognize that you have power in your being, and respect it.
Strange, but all true. Working out also helps in this very same process.


Anyway, Krassus, my man. I think you're a great guy and you've obviously learned a great deal over the last year or so, but I also see that you're spending a fair bit of time on this board.
My question to you is; why? There's so much more fun out there, I suggest you enjoy it instead of trying to help the poor saps on these boards. Get out there, get off these boards...

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Nice one, live and learn.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by I-am-someone
Anyway, Krassus, my man. I think you're a great guy and you've obviously learned a great deal over the last year or so, but I also see that you're spending a fair bit of time on this board.
My question to you is; why? There's so much more fun out there, I suggest you enjoy it instead of trying to help the poor saps on these boards. Get out there, get off these boards...

I wouldn't say that i'm spending a lot of time here. I average at about 3 minutes a day But i don't think i'll be leaving anytime soon. I owe it to these guys. If it wasn't for sosuave, i wouldn't have never gotten into this.

 

[I-am-someone]

Hmm... okay

 

[NewMan]

Yep - that is a deal breaker...

But something every new DJ should know.

 

[SheepSter]

Rapport my man, rapport. You had none. It's like that DYD stuff. Get the email as fast as possible. Can work with some girls, but the SHB's will not be swept away by this "bold" approach.

And yes get used to the fact that these model like types don't give there number away. This post is in the Tips section but the actual tip: The ability to turn down a SHB. Really sucks. Because it doesn't contribute to actually getting that SHB. If a SHB is willing to take your number, but you only want hers, she will NEXT you the moment the interaction stops there.

As you said, get out there, gain experience. I can tell you that the majority of knockouts have a lot of options. They love that power. And are not going to give it away, by giving you there number.

Unless they feel that they could miss out on something. Small talk creates NOTHING. It's a means to get into rapport. The key is rapport and venue changing (isolate). Get sexual tension build up and that number will be yours without trouble.

Being nervous, not leading, not dominant, giving a sh*t what she thinks, all very beta. I'm not even going into bodylanguage, tonality and kino here. Just don't post this kind of limiting sh*t.

 

[Engetsu]

I would suggest making an addition. If a girl opens convo and is OBVIOUSLY interested, and asks for your number, feel free to turn it down, especially if she's only a 7 and you want 9's.

I gave away my number a couple of times and ended up being paranoid every time my phone rang, because I didn't want to talk to the girls I gave out my numbers to...

Otherwise good tip.

 

[jiza101]

Interesting. Met some chick on the tram today, had some small talk fluffy stuff, she was walking with me, i stoped looked her in the eyes and said "chuck your number in" and handed her my phone, none of this mind if i get your number, can i please have your number. YOU TELL HER TO GIVE IT TO HER, you are the dominant one, so she put it in and we said our goodbyes. Easy, dont give her ANY power, you are the man. :cheer:

 

[Styles]

Originally posted by SheepSter

Being nervous, not leading, not dominant, giving a sh*t what she thinks, all very beta. I'm not even going into bodylanguage, tonality and kino here. Just don't post this kind of limiting sh*t.

I feel you kid

and that's exactly why my tip was what it was

If a woman can't give her away her number, or do anything similarly as harmless

then she probably isn't interested

and should be dropped ASAP


And my Don Juan approach is much simpler than yours

1. I do what I want to do
2. not being a *****
3. I am the best I can be


usually when I follow those 3 rules everything just falls in place.

PEACE

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by I-am-someone
Anyway, Krassus, my man. I see that you're spending a fair bit of time on this board. Get out there, get off these boards...

Ok punk, your post count is 2.57/day.

Krassus' post count is 1.27/day.

Do the math, and stop giving out advice where it ain't wanted.

 

[I-am-someone]

Hmm... I hadn't been on this board for nine days when I posted that... Everybody has had their ups and downs man, I'm not only giving him that advice to help him, I'm stating it to indirectly tell myself that I need to get my fvcking ass off these boards...