If I may - from what you'd written I'd say.....
In my experience 5 days is no where near long enough to play it cool. Reverse the roles a second. If you were interested in a girl and she blew cold on you - such as you did - but then 5 days later you saw her and she came on a little to you...
HER: "Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah"
Whatever.
Don't worry about what she SAYS - concentrate on what she DOES.
She was there with you - that's enough.
When she pulls the "I've got a BF" line - it's improtant that you not say what you said - i.e. "That's OK". It's important not to...
PRL...
You are funny....
Hmmm now that is a DJ attitude.
Most guys who come here do not have the DJ mindsett with women. So rules or guildlines if you like - are there for guidence of what to do and what not to do.
I think you'll find that all of these "rules" come to the same end...
If I may....
* Your trying to apply logic - where logic has no place - i.e. women.
* Your hiding behind a wall - namely you throw up the smokescreen of "Over Analyize" - that sounded like I did several years ago. You've been hurt in the past - and now your on the defense. Sorry - there si...
Are you guys physically active?
Pounding the iron regularly - running - you know the deal.
I find that heavy exercise tends to relieve me mentally and physically.
Friends are important in life. You need to get some good friends.
This guy is into doing his thang...
He hasn't had sex with you....
Has he pushed the issue?
Because what I wonder is, if he's not getting it from you, who is he getting it from?
I suspect he just see's you as a cool chick to hang with and whatever. But I don't think he see's you as...
Then it's your fault.
I've read a number of post's lately about women losing interest in the guy's they are dating. Whether it's been a few weeks or a few months - their IL has dropped off - and now the young DJ's are wondering what is going on.
Here is a reminder to everyone - and it can...
I travelling towards my mid 30's....
I'm stronger than I've ever been. Looked better (I think) than I've ever been. I'm a man - where once I was a boy. My mentality is set....
But I went through something similar.
As far as the women thang goes - EVERYBODY at some point get's tired of...
There your answer then. She's trouble. Why are you risking your current relationship by having this ex of yours in the picture.
History has a tendency to repeat.
I have a problem with your 2 statements. Because if it didn't bother you, why post? and why care about any hidden agenda?
First things first - It's not good to fvck chick's you work with - if she's in a different department and you have no communications with her on a weekly basis - that is fine.... But that aside (because you will not care)....
* You've got to be cool and calm around her. If you see her talk...
That's the beauty of it.
Because now she is guilt free of what happens - and can tell you that she was honest from the start - so you have no one to blame but yourself.
You in the meantime think - hey this chick is honest and upfront - that cool. She must be different..... In reality she's...
So I have some questions:
"What the f&%k is the matter with her?"
She's a woman. She was fvcked over by the guy SHE MOVED there for. She wants him all the more because he dumped her. Good luck. And really, why do you give a fvck? is it because you can't have her?
"What the f&%k is the...
I Work out arms 3 times per week in a split routine.
Moday and Friday - Bi's
Wednesday Tri's.
Seems to work well for me - although I'm not doing a lot of sets - or exercises. But I lift heavy - 5 or 6 rep range.
Was having the same problem - but have not gone on a neder for the last month.
It came down to several things.
1) The hangover was gettign worse.
2) It was fvcking up the work I was doing in the gym
3) It was fvcking up my weekends - could do antything
4) I stopped going to Kung Fu on...
You've 1987 posts.
If you want her back - forget speaking to her everyday.
You are available for her - even though she is not there for you.
Cut of contact and don't be available.
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