So my sister won't give any info about my ex.

[FM 3321]

Well I ended up dating one of my sisters friends a while back and we're not together anymore but I was talking to my sister yesterday and I asked about my ex and she told me she dropped the guy she left me for. So I asked her "what's their story?" She told me that I would have to ask my ex about it and I was like, are you kidding? I don't talk to her anymore, just tell me the story, I'm your brother. Well she insisted not telling me and I left it like that.

I was talking to my best friend later and told her that my sister won't give me information about my ex and he said that my sister should tell me. I talked to another friend about it and she suggested the same thing.

So maybe I have a feeling that I can learn from this other guy's **** ups from my sister but she won't tell me. Do you think she should tell me or should I just leave it alone?

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by FM 3321

So maybe I have a feeling that I can learn from this other guy's **** ups from my sister...

I'm SUUUUUUUURE that's why you're asking.

Dude, get over it. It's none of your business and you shouldn't even CARE.

 

[Keeper]

Hmm... didn't know sosuave deals with Brother - Sister issues now...

But yeah. She's being a prick. She should tell you.

 

[NewMan]

Get over it.....

She's your sisters friend. You should respect your sister and not even put her in that kind of situation.

 

[FM 3321]

Re: Re: So my sister won't give any info about my ex.

Originally posted by squirrels
I'm SUUUUUUUURE that's why you're asking.

Dude, get over it. It's none of your business and you shouldn't even CARE.

Yeah I shouldn't care but I truly thought that information would gve me a better understanding of why my ex left me for him....and then dropped him.

So maybe it seems counterintuitive to NOT know what happened and keep improving myself in the way I think I should.

I know if I was sleeping with 10 hotter chicks already I truly wouldn't care, so you have very good point on that one.

 

[Desdinova]

Your sister's the smart one, not wanting to be a "middle-man" when it comes to information about your ex.

Move on and forget about her.

 

[FM 3321]

Cool, thanks for all the responses.

I shouldn't put my sister in a weird situation between me and her friend.



Anyways, what a way to be insecure huh? Requesting information about someone elses relationship. I need to work on getting new relationships for myself. Thanks again for the input.

 

[MacDiddy]

There is nothing to learn from a breakup.... If you were to apply all the lessons learnt then you will end up acting like an AFC....

What if your sister said she broke up with that guy coz he was a jerk... So what would the lesson be here and what would you do to address this... not be a jerk???

I've said this many times before, you cannot rely on a females evaluation even if its coming from your sister....

 

[FM 3321]

Originally posted by MacDiddy
There is nothing to learn from a breakup.... If you were to apply all the lessons learnt then you will end up acting like an AFC....

What if your sister said she broke up with that guy coz he was a jerk... So what would the lesson be here and what would you do to address this... not be a jerk???

I've said this many times before, you cannot rely on a females evaluation even if its coming from your sister....

Point taken. It looks like listening to women, even our moms and our sisters gets us men in trouble in the first place.

 

[topher]

Originally posted by FM 3321
Point taken. It looks like listening to women, even our moms and our sisters gets us men in trouble in the first place.

oh man, my mom constantly tells me i have to be super nice and take the b*tch to dinner and such, buying her things, being a suckup asskisser, sad thing was i listened to her until i found this website 5 months ago.

 

[MacDiddy]

sad thing was i listened to her until i found this website 5 months ago.

Amen brother!!!