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Did you try to take her home that night? That's always a winning idea. If not, I would have got her to meet up with you at a bar or club or wherever on a different night, and try to pull her home from there. Can't be scaring her into ish like dinner, she doesn't even know you!

That's a good way to go, something I also do a lot: Her: I'm fat! Me: *Pokes her stomach* Her: My hair is so ugly! Me: Smirks and messes up her hair

Then stop inviting her on some lame-@ss walk and just invite her inside your house!

Why wouldn't you? Anyway, this is a crazy scenario, so your guess is probably as good as that of anyone else as to what it "means." So contact her if you want, I don't think it really matters (I'd wait a bit though...). You have an easy opening, ie "You know, you still owe me that lunch ;) "...

What the young Norwegian up there said is absolutely correct. If you truly have many, many options, you truly won't give a fvck, and that will be quite obvious to her. PS: Plies is weird as fvck

Why would you want to show disinterest? Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.

1) You just graduated college, right? So these are college-aged girls you're dealing with? So, how are you meeting these girls? 2) What do these dates consist of? 3) What's your social circle like?

You could get your friend to make sure she comes...

You're telling me that if you take one of your attractive female friends, have a couple drinks with her, perhaps you're pretty horny that night, and she starts making moves on YOU, you won't have sex with her? Doubtful.

Asexuals! :rockon: I hate to further hijack this thread but just make sure you're all aware that there's a HUGE difference between "I want to fvck my female friends" and "I WOULD fvck my female friends." Active pursuit and giving a damn being the key differences!

I like where mahoney went with this. Sure, she COULD be wanting to reassure herself that she can have you at her beck and call, but really, she's probably too busy for all that. No playing games. She asked to see you; let her. Invite her over, invite her for drinks, invite her wherever...

This has gotten me thinking... The girls that play games and are hot/cold are the ones that pique our interests. Yet we men sit around complaining about this behavior. The guys that are aggressive and semi-@ss-hole (aloof, whatever you wanna call it) are the ones that pique the interests...

Well that post was clearly deleted, as it is no longer there. Any confusion could have been cleared up long ago if you had just stated that from the start, or if you utilized the "reply with quote" button down there that is oh so helpful. Anyway, I'm satisfied now, thank you.

I hate to detract from the discussion on this post, but this is starting to annoy me now. Please enlighten me, At a loss. In your original post, you included the following: [sic] The post I referenced included the following: So either 1) You are completely contradicting yourself and...

Looks like your comment to me...

This. +1

Flirt with her a little bit next time you see her...find out how her weekend was, tell her a crazy/funny story from your weekend. Keep it up a few days, towards the end of the week get her and some of her friends to come out to the bars or whatever with your friends (or a party, etc), and then...

Escalate, isolate, escalate. Probably not relationship material, but if you wanna hit it and quit it, you have to plow through and isolate her.

You are bashing forum users for treating the majority of women like crap, but you yourself are claiming that the majority of women are crap. You treat crap like crap; otherwise, crap has no incentive to change (not that the crappy women are changing...). When you find that needle in a...

Glasses are cooler :cool: But seriously dude, you're wondering how to "rekindle" when you haven't even spoken to her (since class)?!? STEP 1) SPEAK TO HER STEP 2) ???????? STEP 3) PROFIT As for the gym game in particular, I don't have any experience, but just try to start a...