This cute girl in my class.

[Onegoal]

So I'm talking a summer class at college and there is this really cute girl in my class. I never really have talked to her before though. The teacher put us in small groups for one of our projects and she happens to be in my group. Anyways because of that I was able to get her cell number. We have texted back and forth about class stuff, but that is it.

How do I get to know her better so I can ask her out? Hopefully the teacher has us start working on our project in class so I can have more interaction with her.

 

[ARrocket]

Flirt with her a little bit next time you see her...find out how her weekend was, tell her a crazy/funny story from your weekend. Keep it up a few days, towards the end of the week get her and some of her friends to come out to the bars or whatever with your friends (or a party, etc), and then game on!

 

[f283000]

Flirt with her a little bit next time you see her...find out how her weekend was, tell her a crazy/funny story from your weekend. Keep it up a few days, towards the end of the week get her and some of her friends to come out to the bars or whatever with your friends (or a party, etc), and then game on!

I like this. Also make sure you initiate kino to get her chemicals going and to get her thinking about you as more than just a classmate/friend. Light touches on the arm, shoulder, whatever, Do this every time you see her. The last thing you want to do is talk to her throughout the semester and ask her out at the end without having touched her once. Get her used to your touches.

 

[MurdocIsGod]

So I'm talking a summer class at college and there is this really cute girl in my class. I never really have talked to her before though. The teacher put us in small groups for one of our projects and she happens to be in my group. Anyways because of that I was able to get her cell number. We have texted back and forth about class stuff, but that is it.

How do I get to know her better so I can ask her out? Hopefully the teacher has us start working on our project in class so I can have more interaction with her.

Okay not sure how to advise on getting to know her it seems with women there's always an initial attraction of some sort. But anyway I'll have a think on what to advise you for that part.

But as for asking her out I've never had problems with it, just steer the conversation to the right topic. So you want to take her out to see a movie? Speak about movies. Simple, then when you're on the topic you can mention one you've been wanting to see. Uhm as for asking her, something like "you could come with me but I think it's a bit too scary for you " (if it's a horror, for example). She'll usually be like "no it's not!" unless she actually is too frightened of those sorts of films but yeah you get the idea....

Hmmm now for getting to know each other... Can't really think to be honest, you're in the same class etc but if I was you I wouldn't focus on school AT ALL. I wouldn't mention it, except maybe to make fun of the teacher or whatever, but apart from that no. Try to speak about other things, and be playful with her. The ultimate "point-scorer" is when you tease her in a playful way, the kind where she laughs and hits you. For some reason that seems to be an "insta-on" for women.

Actually I just thought of something for you. Invite her over to work on the project. Get bored of doing it after like, 10 minutes and put on a movie. Done deal. :yes:

Just realized you've "text back and forth about class", gah. Move away from that topic immediately, it's boring as hell. Connect with her on a different level. Go with the classic "wubu2?" and when she returns the question (assuming she says "nothing" or whatever) you can fire off into something interesting.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Just tease her and have fun with it! But don't be completely rude or condescending toward her. Tell her funny stories about your past weekends going out with friends or ask her what she was up to this past weekend. Chances are you two will have at least 1 thing in common, then based on that connection you can set up an initial date.

EX:

You: Hey ____ what's up
Her: Same ol things how about you?
You: Not too much, had a pretty great weekend though!
Her: That's nice, what was so great about it? (... If she does not ask what was great about it, then ask her how her weekend went.)
You: Well I did ____, _____, and ______ (This will establish the fact that you're a fun person to be around)
Her: Oh that's cool!
You: So how'd your weekend go?
Her: Well I did ____, ____, and _____. (If she did not have a good weekend or just worked all weekend ask her what she normally does.)
You: That sounds pretty damn fun, we should chill sometime!
Her: Ok, well just let me know when you're available next weekend!

This normal conversation has worked out for me in school situations so many times. Give it a go man. Just be social and sure enough things will work out for you!

 

[MurdocIsGod]

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You seem to give good advice on this forum...

But yeah what he said is cool too, but if I was you I'd go with what I said. You've got the PERFECT angle to get her over to your place, for schoolwork. She might turn down your offer to "chill", but when she's at yours and you have your arm around her watching a movie, she'll be wet for you. Women are weird like that. Invite her over for project-work ASAP! You WILL tap that I guarantee!

 

[PapiChulo]

That working in project thing doesn't fly with chicks very well, unless you happen to be in the same group sorely by chance. It's a covert way of gaming somebody. Also good luck getting her to your place, everybody knows what that means. Women are not that stupid.

 

[Fred_Scuttle]

You seem to give good advice on this forum...

But yeah what he said is cool too, but if I was you I'd go with what I said. You've got the PERFECT angle to get her over to your place, for schoolwork. She might turn down your offer to "chill", but when she's at yours and you have your arm around her watching a movie, she'll be wet for you. Women are weird like that. Invite her over for project-work ASAP! You WILL tap that I guarantee!

I think you're getting a little ahead of yourself here. He said they are in a group at school doing school work. No guarantee she is going to go over to his place for school work when they are doing group work in the classroom. She will think he is up to something. She will say no. Why do you think she would just sleep with him if he goes over to his place? She will think he is just out for sex then she will turn him down for good. I would continue to talk with her and get to know her better. You are going to see her in your class so there is no need to ask her out this soon. When you get to know her better then ask her out so it doesnt look like you are trying too fast and too hard to ask her out. Wait and make her want to go out with you. That is how you do it. You want girls to want you and to go out with you. Asking too fast could get a no then you wont have a shot.

 

[MurdocIsGod]

I think you're getting a little ahead of yourself here. He said they are in a group at school doing school work. No guarantee she is going to go over to his place

Oh, that sucks I thought this was a project they worked on at home too. But tbh he only has to talk to her a few times before she'll hang out with him.

Uhm... Okay instead steer the conversation to sexual topics. You gotta lead into it naturally. If there's resistance you need to have more casual chats first.