Search results

  1. M

    Reading between the line

    Isn't that what an older brother might say? If she was bemoaning her circumstances to me, I probably would've said something sarcastic along the lines of "well no wonder you can't find anyone they way you moan and groan about things..." Dude, the girl touching the guy's arm IS a clear signal...
  2. M

    date women 10yrs younger than me?

    As a rule, as long as you stay fit, interesting and attractive, I find the older you get as a man, the wider the age range of your appeal.
  3. M

    Mail Order Brides & Arranged Marriages

    Sounds like you may be on the deferred, "pay later with interest" plan. Reminds me of a story I recently saw on NBC Dateline (see the story here http://www.care2.com/news/member/970133549/1033946). American guy marries a south american woman from a wealthy family. They have a son, everything...
  4. M

    new study: men think of sexy women in clad bikinis as objects..

    No, no, no. You're so wrong. Several male researchers get bored day in, day out of the routine of examining the testes of African mosquitos or mapping the memory sequences of rats, and one of the guys says, "Hey, fellas, I have an idea! Let's sell the University on researching how men react to...
  5. M

    Bad advice

    I'll tell you how: you didn't go about it in the same way the article describes. You had game. I think that's what the writer meant as being "exceptional", as in not like the typical male drone.
  6. M

    Bad advice

    I didn't get that sense at all. It's about what a guy faces when he hits on a female bartender, and it sounded pretty spot on to me. I've known lots of female bartenders and what this one wrote sounds like the common scenarios. There's a reason there's a high, wide wooden bar between the...
  7. M

    Cute face, great personality, but...

    Then why should the responsibility of telling someone that they're overweight be passed on as my responsibility at all and not their own? The onus isn't on me to tell people what they ought to weigh to suit me. I can relate to that, I was about 50 pounds overweight years ago. But what got me...
  8. M

    Cute face, great personality, but...

    You wouldn't. You would deal it with it in an stand-up way. Yet you wouldn't also invite it to happen nor escalate events to that degree. And knowing you're delivering a sting, why slap her face when this can be handled a different way? I wouldn't call it "weaseling". It's not about avoiding...
  9. M

    argue with female colleagues today

    That's what I'm talking about. Now you're on her sh1t list. God forbid she ever becomes your supervisor. Or dates your boss. Or you need her as a reference. Or she works on a project with you and undermines you, or influences a higher up against you, or... Maybe a combo of what I and Alexander...
  10. M

    Cute face, great personality, but...

    Or is it that you don't care for being alone and would rather put time in with a woman you don't find that attractive rather then be alone? Again, so, you'd rather be in the company of a woman you don't find that attractive, and get involved to the point where it becomes awkward to go...
  11. M

    Cute face, great personality, but...

    Oh, become distant, just don't call her. If she asks, say you're busy. She'll get the hint. You only went out three times, it's not like you owe her an explanation. Guess third time's not so charmed after all... :) Telling her specific reasons will likely raise her defenses and just make her...
  12. M

    argue with female colleagues today

    >> Never argue with women in the first place... Next time ask her why she didn't do anything special for him.>> That sounds like an argument would brew out of that. Yeah, I suppose I should state that I'm not saying be an emotional tampon when you listen, soaking up sob stories all day...
  13. M

    Cute face, great personality, but...

    Duffdog, why must you tell her what you're into? That's none of her business. thirdtimecharm, are you needing a response for something she specifically said? Or what? Is she asking you out? Ask her if her girlfriends are coming along, you'd like to meet them.
  14. M

    argue with female colleagues today

    You also were trying to offer her a solution to her problem, when really what she wanted was merely to have a listening empathic ear to vent her feelings to. That's one way women are wired differently then men. That's why the other female thought what you said was inappropriate too. You could...
  15. M

    Yahoo article wonders why hot young women go for old, ugly rockers

    It's more then just status. These guys are celebrities. They get to go to the best places, best parties. They get treated royally. It's FUN by association. And POWER. These guys walk into a room, everyone knows who they are. They command audiences. Also, these women run in their social circles...
  16. M

    It is truly amazing how quickly women can move on

    As revealed as way back as post #16. I see it more like the fact that we tend to remember our "first great love" (not so much the second or third, or fourth, you ever notice?), scientists don't know exactly why, but believe it has to do with "imprinting" on our brains. That can put him (her...
  17. M

    no luck with women on net within the 4 years-any guys experience this

    Joe, I've got nothing to sell you. But skimming through several of your past posts, I'm getting the sense that you simply don't have any game. That and your appearance may need improving some. But it's not because of your car, your job or your height, or because you're Chinese, as you've...
  18. M

    Situation with GF - does she have a valid point?

    Couched in her question, it sounds like your GF was fishing to see if you're the one that wants HB7. You should not be discussing HB7 with your GF at all. Bad form. You don't discuss other women with your GF. It can create a fissure in your relationship. Maybe it already has. Did she bring up...
  19. M

    Best way to break up with someone who thinks your a bf

    re: plans A & B: How elaborate. All that bother. re: plan C: Tell her directly that you want to break up? But you're not "a couple". There's nothing to break up. Of course, if you just don't want to see her face anymore, you tell her, it's not working for you, it's not her fault, it's you not...
  20. M

    How do you explain this couple?

    Again guys, it's a spoof. The photos have been manipulated.
Top