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Well, judging by how a few minutes later she tells him 'never mind, I'm leaving with my friends', I'd say I read it just right. ;) But speaking about reading between the lines, what I get is that he's not dealing with a girl that's really into him. She says, for example, 'I'm going to a dinner...

I know you gents just LOVE to make these short notice plans, but the pitfall is that when doing so, she probably already has plans (as in this case) and you're signaling you don't really and that you're available, and that's the stuff that helps takes the shine off you, Mr. No-Other-Options, if...

That's pretty much true of either gender. We tend to discount our own behavior while magnifying that of others. But women know when they're pulling stuff. What you're seeing as the "what is right to them is that which achieves their objectives" is them rationalizing their actions...

I'm just gonna pipe up one more time here as a guy who when I was about 22, had a girlfriend that seriously tried to get me to marry her, which I didn't. But here's what I'd like you to consider: The very fact that you haven't agreed to get married keeps her wanting it. IOW, you're being a...

Damn, now I have to watch what I post. Just give her a big smile, give her a kiss and say anything like: "Sure! What day in 2014 do you have in mind, honey?" Deflect with humor. Don't let yourself feel pressured by them. They're not responsible for your life. Just smile and nod your head...

My man, I know you know what that was about. So let me ask you: she does this today, what do you think she's gonna do in all your tomorrows whenever she wants to poke you in the balls? What she did was unacceptable behavior. She's OUT. No woman treats you like that and gets to keep you. Of...

What's the rush? She wants to have babies? Why get married at all? I agree with you that time spent as friends while she was in another relationship doesn't count. Since she wasn't in a relationship with you during that time, you didn't have the kind of interactions where you discover who the...

BB, I'm not certain if your post qouting me is aimed at me or not (it seems not), as I agree with you that there's a wide range of opinion on this forum, but I AM trying to help you in your developing an understanding of women, I see you mentioning your desire for that, and with your futrther...

So what does she call telling you there's "a one call rule" in force? A "suggestion"? Fact is, it does look like her interest/love is diminished some over two years and it could be partly from her feeling that you're bossing her around. She's obviously fighting back a bit about that, you don't...

It's your mind trying to keep you safe and protected from that which you fear.

Apparently, more then she likes you. So she's on the bottom of the relationship seesaw keeping you stuck up in the air. You know how to bring that power back, doncha? Jump off the seesaw. This ain't just about making a phone call.

You shouldn't call her at all. In fact... She should be calling you. She should be wondering how you are. She should be missing you. So, yeah, don't call her until she calls you, and then let it go to VM if she does and call back the next day. And if she doesn't call you at all, then you can...

There's a few companies in NYC you could audition for, but it's difficult to get into. You do have to be able to get and maintain an erection on set with the crew there, stop when they need to stop shooting, f#ck in many awkward and uncomfortable angles and cumm within a couple of minutes of...

I'm saying it doesn't send that message, or that even if it does, that message is trumped and snuffed out by what she receives via the wave: "But I'm not going to make the approach. That's HIS job. Let's see if he has the balls to follow up or does he really expect me to go over to him? Ho hum...

That's the problem right there. You seem anxious or concerned about this happening in your life, as if you may need it like air to breathe, and your focus on it makes it larger, more important, then it should be. First off, life is just not going to agree to your schedule of things...

I don't think, in this regard, they're actually actively "shaming" anyone. I think what we're hearing is simply a reflection of their own mind set. Their paradigm, as I stated above, of how they envision they way things must go. Case in point: An ex of mine had her future predicted that she...

Are you saying these are really in the tone of serious public service announcements coming from these girls? Or maybe is it their way of negging/ribbing you? I think it's all about the womens' tendency to state how they envision the Paradigm, "The World According To Them". Good casting: Jack...

"i care a bout you, i always have..." Uh huh, sure, sure. This is the one where things got bad, then worse, right? "I care" kind of conflicts with that, no? And no details given - then there's nothing there. You make your own decisions based on how you're treated and don't talk about your new...

Exactly. It's HOW you make them FEEL. She's looking to FEEL "safe & protected", she's looking to FEEL like a WOMAN when she's next to A MAN. Superficially, she figures, as many do, he therefore needs to be taller and stronger then me. What she's REALLY looking for is someone who comes off as...

Like I wrote about french guy, "I hope he doesn't listen to this pure nonsense you've posted. Guys like him are in vulnerable situations where they really want to hear what they wish to hear and will disregard everything else that's valid for the hope, the dream, the fantasy, of making their...