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I'd say the exceptions are: when she specifically counter offers, as in "...but next Wednesday's good for me" or says, "When are you available next?" When they say, "...maybe another time?" My reply is usually, "What day do you have in mind?" because I'm trying to flush her out and see if...

>> And just to clarify- its not as if I was sitting there insulting people for an hour>> At least you're admitting that you were insulting them by talking sh!t. >> where you mock others in your presense to, in "PUA" terms establish dominence in the local group >> You have to belittle other...

It happens that sometimes a person posts something, then when after a handful of responses tearing it apart, that OP posts a "clarification" of what they claim the REALLY meant, which is nothing like the original, or adding details that change the entire story, and you have to wonder: "is this...

You're going to find, that in life, even those you think are reliable and in whom you can trust, may be double agents. That ex of hers doesn't want to talk to her? Really? But you wrote in your first post that he had just messaged her saying: "how come we dont have convos at 2am anymore?" If...

Feedback: Being Alpha doesn't mean you have to be an insulting assh@le.

I think a guy oughtta be able to not become chumpish without the aid and assistance of other women as options: AFC or not, the guy is getting his inner strength from other women. Well, people say things for reasons, you know? So what would be the reasons she'd mention it to you? My thinking...

Sounds like her boyfriend may not give her all the attention she craves and she's looking for her next victim. She sounds like high maintenence. Either that, or she's looking for a chump to be seen out with so as to make her BF jealous. If you're smart, you'll note her modus operandi, should...

>> she says she doesn't want to continue if there's no emotional attachment from me. I say there have been some doubts>> Don't talk seriously about your feelings. And don't tell them you have "doubts". Whatever you tell a woman goes on a permanent record and will be used against you at some...

So, you're saying that sex is worth paying for? Hey, a buck seventy five spent on a coffee for sex is a good deal in these tough economic times! But wasn't chivalry the invention of men? It seems to me that those men valued behaving in accordance to a "higher road", as it were, a code of...

She may have already been in a threesome with them and is now seeking to expand on that. Dude, in a long distance relationship, each partner has to wait and wait until schedules permit travelling to get together. You think odds are that people in those circumstances stay at home like vestal...

And we shouldn't live in homes because there's so many instances where they burn down. Men don't get into emtoional anguish because they have girlfriends. Men get into emotional anguish because they make mistakes: they get emotionally invested in women who are not that much invested in them...

I would think the correct answer to an ex asking, "how come we dont have convos at 2am anymore?" would be, "Because! I'm crazy in love with slickaz, silly! And I hope one day you find someone that makes you as happy too. Take care and have a great life!" Because she now knows you're onto her...

Well, she's right that you don't "hold things against" your relationship partner and bring up grudges. But her saying "you're holding that against me" can also be used as a way to get you to not bring a valid point up. I'd suggest that if she's always going to react by saying that, that you...

>> there is no doubt she is into me. >> Are you joking? She left with two drunk girlfriends. Girls that are into me don't leave without me. >> we dated for one year exclusively then broke up for couple months >> So this is already a flawed relationship. >> the best response when she said...

Let's get this right: In this day and age we need to weed out the Golddiggers and Users, and that's easily handled by not offering expensive nights out, but inexpensive quick dates. They will insist on upgrading your date choices or refuse to go out for anything less then a three course meal...

Let me point to a most excellent post by our brother, Jeffst1980. In particular, where he makes this excellent observation and states a relevant truth: "we are fully capable of AVOIDING being put in the value-compromising positions that many of the first time posters that frequent this site...

I was in a LTR a girl for a few years, she was 33 I was hitting 40, and she kept mentioning wanting a baby. I didn't want a baby. I told her so. When she got a new apartment, she wanted me to move in with her. I didn't want to move in with her. These were just my personal preferences, it wasn't...

Now you're reading her mind? You realize that's all assumption? It's a great question. No. Because I'm not. I'm fair, I don't attempt to control what others do at ALL (I can only control myself), but I do have reasonable boundaries. So you're saying, that if you were a woman, one...

No sir, that's not a controlling attitude and I'm certainly not a wuss. There's nothing controlling is not accepting that she's was setting him up to be her personal chauffeur. In fact saying "what's so hard to understand?" is more of a control tactic. As is the shaming tactic, "You guys give...

That's what she told him AFTER she had asked him to stick around in order to drive her home. IOW, she flaked.