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"WOAH" - hasn't actually happened to me, just saying it would make moving on a heck of a lot easier. :)

Find out your ex used to be a dude...

You are 17. Here is the best advice you could ever receive: get the thought of marriage -- with anyone -- out of your mind. Live, grow as a person, resolve your underlying trust issues, get an education. Get married only after you become a man and that won't be until you're nearing 30.

There are lots of girls. There is only one of you.

Is what she did respectful or disrespectful to you? It is disrespectful. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect. What should be going through her mind is "If I hang out with this guy at the bar and flirt with him how will my BF feel? Oh, that would be disrespectful so I won't do...

Don't talk to her. Act like nothing has changed, be aloof, and start spinning plates.

This isn't going to end well. What she is doing is disrespectful and shows she doesn't value you or your relationship all that much.

Nah, it has nothing to do with BPD; it's a major red flag warning that her interest is dropping big-time.

Her: "You are too good for me." You: "That's the same thing my other girlfriend said last night!"

If you can't get laid with shots of alcohol try a club. Oh wait, that's known as r@pe, strike that.

Negativity is the reason the site exists, it's what drives males here -- AFCs should feel negative. When they finally take the pill and grow into men that negativity will dissipate.

PU being different than DJ, right? I don't do PU but I've tried to ingrain the DJ mindset which I think is good for a man's emotional health.

You need to understand that the lies/falsehoods are typical female behavior. Your situation is not unusual. To help justify how they feel, women will alter reality to fit how they feel, even if that new reality could not possibly be true. You cannot do anything about that. If you confront...

A cold approach shouldn't be canned with "you're beautiful". As a complete stranger you need to somehow come across as funny and entertaining.

Want an indication of who someone really is? Figure out what her family life was like growing up.

When it comes to approaching a woman in real life, one thing that inhibits doing so is the thought of what will everyone around think if I just start DJing this stranger? Will it be embarrassing for her. I don't want to be under everyone's eye. But you know what? All the women will be...

Avoidant Personality Disorder. Extreme feelings of inadequacy, emotional isolation, social anxiety, emptiness despite wanting to be with others. In my case the girl had started making significant strides in her therapy -- certainly a good thing -- but soon after we started dating she met some...

Never dated a BPD but did date an AVPD. No hellfire at all, in fact the exact opposite, like an emotional void.

"Eh, I'm going out with this guy I met down town. Don't worry, he's just a friend I met at a bar the other day - he says he wanted to show me this awesome club near where he lives, so I figure I'd check it out." I think this is more akin to competing interests more than lack of interest, but it...

bigneil -- even that doesn't necessarily work. I was dating a girl and could sense things were deteriorating based on her behavior. I told her "Look, if you're not interested that's fine, I'll leave and I won't call you anymore, no worries." Her response "I am interested, I don't want you to...