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    Dating to BF/GF

    Well, I know from experience not to do this. If you have to inquire it means she isn't sure what she wants, and the moment you inquire she will see you as being less of a man than she thought, which will push her further away from the "I want him to be my BF camp". Remember that even if you're...
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    Dating to BF/GF

    Yes. You *DO*. You do not *ASK*.
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    Dating to BF/GF

    Take it even further: you don't ask to be BF/GF, don't ask to be in a relationship, don't ask to be exclusive, don't ask what she thinks about the two of you, don't ask anything about anything related to the two of you. Same for telling rather than asking -- don't tell her you want to be...
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    Girlfriend suddenly very distant

    You know in your gut that she is cheating. Everyone here on SS knows it too. Next time she comes back to your house she should be greeted by all her belongings on the front porch. Done.
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    Advice needed on protein. Shakes or Wholefood?

    Protein powder is also expensive. Buy: canned solid albecore tuna in water; boneless/skinless chicken breast; tilapia fillets; egg white (toss the yolks). After working your legs HARD (e.g. 5 sets of leg presses, 5 sets of squats, 5 sets of leg curls) either run or cycle -- this will give you...
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    No Fap Challenge Progress

    You guys are nuts. Last week I fapped 7 times in a 36 hour period. If I had a GF I'd be up on manslaughter charges.
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    Help Interpret This Txt Message

    "Me: Last night was nice btw Her: Haha im glad you had fun Me: Yea.. did u? Her: Yeah. It was cool. Me: Cool. We should do it again sometime" That should never have occurred. Last night was fun? WTF? Do not text her that she should be telling you that shyt. You came across as weak and...
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    the @@@@@ balloon payment plan

    I often write about having legitimate friendship with someone I date because we share common interests (that would exist even if we hadn't met) and can converse and banter because our personalities gel. Can't count the number of criticisms I've received for this.
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    Truth About Sexuality

    Why does this whole thread sound like a long, drawn out advertisement?
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    Guy who can't think for himself...

    They'll be rolling around in bed within 24 hours.
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    What does "tight game" mean to you?

    Having game means living life by your own rules. Maintaining a relationship means your girl lives her life by your rules.
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    Saw this on Facebook

    Women who are uber focused on dancing often have serious emotional problems. They need it to feel good about themselves and are big-time trouble.
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    Hitting a low on NC

    headFirst - it seems pretty clear that not only does this girl not care about you, more importantly, she is trash. I can see wanting a girl who doesn't care about you to care about you, but trash should simply be discarded. You certainly can't have an LTR with this c*m dumpster so why do you...
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    Debate on Dealing with emotions

    "I am with a new chick and I let her gain control and struggling to regain my composure and get back to how good I was doing. But I am down right now and having a hard time getting back up." How so?
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    are all women the same?

    Yep, dominant doesn't mean a**hole. It means you lead. You come up with ideas of what to do don't leave that open to her. You initiate physical affection. You are strong when the sh*t hits the fan, whether it's her being emotional or a situation being dangerous.
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    Date update + you must escalate here is how

    Fly: I suppose, but the fact that I am still thinking about my mistake with oneitis and kicking myself daily for it sucks. Every. Damn. Day. Sometimes I get angry, sometimes I get sad. Regret is almost always the result of not taking action -- always take action, always try to escalate.
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    Date update + you must escalate here is how

    Had a first date with a girl last week. Met online; very good email rapport. We meet in person and she is smiling. We stand fairly close to each other as we wait for a table at the restaurant. Convo is easy and bantering; I playfully neg her at various times -- she likes it. While eating...
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    Is this disrespect?

    It is always a positive sign when a girl shows you off to her friends -- she is boasting.
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    Opinions; is she worth my time

    Your entire focus should be making out with her at some point next time you see her. If you don't do that you have failed. Period. And I don't mean a peck on the cheek -- full on mouth to mouth heavy kissing (and grope a bit with your hands while you're at it).
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    Show anger or stay calm and silent?

    Not referring to sex, what kinds of things/activities were you two doing before going to bed? Dinner? Movie? Hanging out at a bar? Other things? Maybe the reason for her behavior stems from something at that time. Also, are you aware of any issues or emotional hangups she has? Could also...
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