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Jitterbug: "If having a successful career and making good money were the definitive answer to women, this site (and similar ones) wouldn't exist." No one said definitive answer. It is, however, reality that women look at the total package when choosing the guy they date. There are many...

What this girl did was in no way unique. I would say it is common -- she wasn't getting everything she wanted in her relationship but stayed in it because she hoped it would progress and because there were no other branches of higher value available for her to grab. Then, while the...

In 1999 I moved into a group house; the landlord, age 29, lived there with us. One day he, myself, and a girl who lived there were sitting on the deck talking about relationships/dating. The girl, who I believe was probably 27, commented re: the landlord that he owns his own home and that this...

So she has only met you two times in her life? You did fine, many girls will not have sex on a second date without otherwise knowing you over a period of time. She knows you are interested, she knows you are man enough to make sure she knows that. She gave you plenty of signs that she is...

First date, she is someone you've only recently met: if she invites you in, she wants to make out with you. You MUST initiate. If you don't she will think less of you. First date, she is someone you've known for a while (work, mutual friends, etc.): if she invites you in, she at least...

Ignoring her birthday was not a jerk move, it was a d*uche move. That was really dumb and can certainly cause her interest level to drop.

[Today I send her a text asking what's up and I get the typical "been busy" excuse, so when she said she would text me after work, I sent her a reply saying to not even bother. I said I felt like she was tryin me like a punk, and to delete me number and find another sucker.] *** Never text that...

What do you like to do? What are your hobbies? These things can put you in social situations where you meet women and share an interest that you can both relate to and discuss.

Yes. Remember the following (which I rarely do): don't say anything, don't do anything, just spin plates. Keep your mouth shut. You are ready to end things because you want to preempt her doing it to you to avoid being the loser. Don't do it! Just spin plates and go NC -- get your heart...

Spang, Do a search for threads on solipsism. This is how women view the world around them: not rationally, but via how they feel at that particular time. This will help you understand why you MUST alter how you communicate with them. Here is an example of how solipsism can alter a woman's...

Remember women don't care what you say, they care how they feel. Here is an example: You: So what do you do for work? Her: I am an X and work at Y doing Z. You: Do you like it? Her: It's pretty good. You: Would you rather do something else? Her: If I could I would be an A. Vs. You...

Got back a little while ago from a first date tonight. Consider for yourself what I am about to write: Was I nice? No, that's not the right word. I was friendly. Funny. Occasionally sarcastic. Did I bust her chops? When appropriate, such as saying, with a slight smile: "So, would you...

Yes, solipsism. Last girl I dated had major emotional/psychological issues and thus presumed that so too does everyone else. She constantly looked into everything as having an underlying emotional problem. I once mentioned that, as a young teen, I cried when my favorite football team lost the...

Bigneil - I have always wanted to date someone who is an endurance athlete. In part because training together can be cool. Also, when you do something like ride for 70 miles or run for 20 and pretty much all you can do the rest of the day/night is lay on your ass, it is nice to be involved...

She doesn't have short term memory problems. She is at best a disingenuous person; at worst a liar.

Magui: pay attention to mixed signals - they are a major ref flag. Example: a few months ago I'm dating this girl and things seem really good. We are at her place and she suddenly starts giving me mixed signals -- won't let me touch her or kiss or anything and we've made out heavily a few...

Forget lines. Game is 1) how you feel about yourself and 2) having that be portrayed to women. Top tier game can be described as: natural, confident, funny, intriguing, slightly ****y (due to confidence), even-tempered, strong-willed, assertive, challenging. This has to describe YOU, not the...

BB yes I know that, and thus far have been unsuccessful in finding one while riding, running, or at the gym. As an example, last week I caught up with a triathlete chick and started talking with her, giving her playful sh*t related to her training, got her number, then later after riding...

I am talking about companionship, not co-dependency. The kind of GF I want is pretty specific -- she shares my interests in cycling, running, lifting and is also nerdy. Sure, I make things pretty difficult for myself but I know what I want in someone and it isn't just a decent face. I really...

The other day I was bored out of my mind after exercising a bunch, doing some work, then having nothing to do since the vast majority of my friends are married or have a GF. So I called a friend (who is married) and told him I needed to get the F out of my apartment and do something with a...