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Knock it off guys. You are making sex into some sort of religious event or something. It is two people making each other feel good, got it? What is this BS about losing respect for a girl because she wants to feel good and make you feel good? If you want to keep a girl you need to bond with...

There are many kinds of relationships. The one you're describing is known as friendship. A "dating relationship" is a sexual relationship.

What does that mean? IMO if you're not having sex you're not in a "relationship".

Do not tell a 9/10 that she is pretty. She knows that and all you're doing is verbalizing what every guy thinks. Don't be every guy. Do not bring her pizza or any other present, other than yourself. Here is how you should be thinking: "Pizza? Dude (yes, to an HB 9/10's face you should...

I am banging my head on the wall after reading this. Temporary insanity? More like chronic temporary insanity. They really do believe the lies and false reality they create in their heads to justify their feelings after the fact. It's weird. I recently dealt with this, trying to show how...

I'm on a date with an HB 7.5. She invites me in to her home. We're standing in her kitchen talking and she looks me dead in the eyes and says "I'm tired are YOU tired?" after talking about how she has a guest room but some people can sleep in her room. I reply, "no, I'm pretty much a night...

The main thing I've learned when it comes to women and any sign of negativity/gut feeling, and keep learning over and over and over, is KYFMS (Keep Your F*cking Mouth Shut). Instead, be wary, let her have her space, and play it cool.

Amante: You are in fact right on the button. After saying what I said I went no contact and ignored her texts that weekend. The next week, when I got back in touch with her, she demanded that we communicate more often, every day in fact, since it is important in a relationship. The following...

The reason it is often futile to ask is that asking will rarely get you the truth. I actually did that and got the "No, I know this guy but he's just a friend I'm not attracted to him" BS. If a girl mentions a guy, for any reason, she is either sh*t testing you to see if you can be cool and...

Yeah I would never invade someone's personal stuff like that. I agree bigneil I often fall too fast -- am too ready to commit to a particular girl -- too soon.

Curious how you guys, especially you Master DJs, would handle the following situation: Things have been going well for a couple weeks with a girl you've started dating. But she starts acting different, say less affectionate, more erratic, and you have a feeling something is going on but you're...

IMO your lack of communication is a red flag. Can you see another 50 years of this? You are an extrovert; she is an uber introvert. It seems to me that you should have enjoyable discussions about all sorts of stuff with your best friend -- movies, current events, personal issues, politics...

If you hit a woman, even in self-defense, there is a good probability you will be going to jail. Even if she kicked you in the nads, punched you, spit on you, tried to gouge out your eyes, if you leave a mark on her and she calls the police YOU are the one who is going to be hauled away. You...

Disagree about Alpha, though I suppose it depends on one's definition of the word. To me, Alpha means living your life how you want, being the man you want to be, projecting that assuredness and confidence that innately comes from being self-actualized and happy with yourself.

It's more than that. In my case we had been broken up for a month and a half when I last spoke with her. You can be "over" someone but still be friendly, kind, or compassionate. These girls (and apparently most women) were not just lacking in these categories, they were stone cold, like they...

Wow. The last time I spoke with my last oneitis girl I told her that we should get back together. I didn't ask her, I didn't plead, I didn't beg, I *told* her. She said no. We talked, argued, asked questions for a short while and I realized no matter how much sense I made nothing was going...

Many of you put too much emphasis on money as the end all be all. I have a lot of money and no debt at all yet I find it rather difficult to get women. Part of that is my lifestyle, part is being rather short and lithe (honestly I can't argue with women about this I'm essentially their size...

IMO, men should not get married until they near 30, say 28. First you get your education and/or career down. Then you get married. Beyond education/career, in your 20s your opinions, interests, etc. will evolve, potentially in a significant way. Don't marry someone until you are finished...

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Following was necessary because of the slight possibility he was wrong, especially since deep down he wants to be wrong and will agonize over this potential. What he did gave him closure.