How to handle being cheated on like a boss!

[Solomon]

originaly from BB

Been with this girl 5 months, always had this feeling that she was cheating on me with some guy. Has been acting kinda sketchy lately, so I'm on edge and tonight she comes over saying she can only stay until 11 because she was going to hang with her "girlfriend" who was getting home from wherever she was at 11 (who by the way, blew her off for dinner earlier in the night, so it was a bad lie)....so 9:55 I see she gets a text from the guy, she says its her "girlfriend." 5 minutes later she says she has to leave so I just say goodbye. She lives the EXACT opposite direction when leaving my street then the way I saw her turn out the driveway, knowing the other way is where the guy lives. I get in my car follow her right to his driveway, call her out dump her on the spot. I'm single, feelsgoodman

Cliffs:
GF acting really sketchy lately
Leaves my house early tonight to see her "girlfriend" after getting text
She says she got a text from her "girlfriend" when I clearly saw the guy's name on her phone
I follow her, dump her

mandatory pic
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First of this guy handled it like a boss, the guy is build better then 99% of people but that slore still cheated on him. Goes to show you that being "alpha" doesn't mean shyt to a slore!

second, I know there several members here who swear their wives and g/f's would never cheat cause their in control and holding the frame in the realtionship :crackup:

The reality is, that you may think your banging your girl good, that she is happy with you. But the truth is, women are naturals at being decptive and manipluating. If a woman could cheat an get away with it, theyll do it! You think your relationship is dandy while she is at Uncle Solo's house making a new porno Kim K style (no golden showers though)

my point is you have to qualify, qualify and qualify these women constantly the biggest problem most of you guys make is, you rather deal with a stripper then a girl next door type cause your to busy wanting validation from other men how hot your wife/girlfriend is.

 

[gspshields2]

originaly from BB



First of this guy handled it like a boss, the guy is build better then 99% of people but that slore still cheated on him. Goes to show you that being "alpha" doesn't mean shyt to a slore!

second, I know there several members here who swear their wives and g/f's would never cheat cause their in control and holding the frame in the realtionship :crackup:

The reality is, that you may think your banging your girl good, that she is happy with you. But the truth is, women are naturals at being decptive and manipluating. If a woman could cheat an get away with it, theyll do it! You think your relationship is dandy while she is at Uncle Solo's house making a new porno Kim K style (no golden showers though)

my point is you have to qualify, qualify and qualify these women constantly the biggest problem most of you guys make is, you rather deal with a stripper then a girl next door type cause your to busy wanting validation from other men how hot your wife/girlfriend is.

That chick is amazing, I wouldnt leave her even if she cheated, hows he gonna find another girl like that.

 

[MisterD]

That chick is amazing, I wouldnt leave her even if she cheated, hows he gonna find another girl like that.

This can't be a serious post?

Edit: Just checked username. Nevermind.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I wouldn't dump her either, you guys are too emotional... really. I would not spend another dime on her. I would immediately game other women until I found an upgrade. And most importantly I would keep banging her as long as I could and only call her to bang. I would offer no emotional support to her, no texting, no long phone calls at night. /d!ckmode_on.

Of course no more oral for her, only kiss her after you know she has brushed her teeth. If she's dry spit on your hand, rub it in there, pump and dump. She no longer deserves any consideration from you.

 

[Iceberg]

I honestly don't think following her to the location and dumping her was "handling it like a boss". He should have dumped her as soon as he suspected something. As soon as she began to cause stress in his life.

I'm not one for mind games, but at least that way she's unceremoniously dumped like the trash that she is instead of forcing him to dump her by catching her in the act of cheating. Leave her wondering why instead of knowing why.

 

[perseverance]

Leave her wondering why instead of knowing why.

Callous. Ruthless. I love it, that would be an excellent way to end things. She wouldn't know what hit her would she?

In his defence he handled the situation a lot better than a vast majority of people.

 

[floydb25]

I would never get with a girl who looks and dresses like that (again), anyway. Never met or dated one who didnt cheat, and wasn't all that great in general. Ever. 5 months sounds about right, but I bet she cheated earlier, and he didn't know about it. Can't trust *****es like that. Sex is all they're good for. These girls are ESPECIALLY experts at manipulating and being deceptive. Their life is just one big shallow game, and everyone is their pawn. Their lifestyle revolves around this player mindset.

 

[Solomon]

I honestly don't think following her to the location and dumping her was "handling it like a boss". He should have dumped her as soon as he suspected something. As soon as she began to cause stress in his life.

I'm not one for mind games, but at least that way she's unceremoniously dumped like the trash that she is instead of forcing him to dump her by catching her in the act of cheating. Leave her wondering why instead of knowing why.

Breaking up with someone on "suspicion" meeeeh. I mean to each it's own. If the evidence was strong enough then I guess however I don't fault the guy for what he did. You go with your gut always, but if you can find out for sure why not? I don't fault him for that and I probably woulda did the same

I wouldn't dump her either, you guys are too emotional... really. I would not spend another dime on her. I would immediately game other women until I found an upgrade. And most importantly I would keep banging her as long as I could and only call her to bang. I would offer no emotional support to her, no texting, no long phone calls at night. /d!ckmode_on.

Of course no more oral for her, only kiss her after you know she has brushed her teeth. If she's dry spit on your hand, rub it in there, pump and dump. She no longer deserves any consideration from you.

You wouldn't dump her? you serious? sorry but now your *****ing yourself and pedestalzing the puzzy, all for what a lay? this is the same scarity mindset that most whiteknights/AFC have. If it's a FB that's one thing but a girlfriend? that's another

I would never get with a girl who looks and dresses like that (again), anyway. Never met or dated one who didnt cheat, and wasn't all that great in general. Ever. 5 months sounds about right, but I bet she cheated earlier, and he didn't know about it. Can't trust *****es like that. Sex is all they're good for. These girls are ESPECIALLY experts at manipulating and being deceptive. Their life is just one big shallow game, and everyone is their pawn. Their lifestyle revolves around this player mindset.

Sadly, 90% of the board would deem her a catch and what gpsshields says it's right. Most guys wouldn't care if she cheated as long as they get the puzzy!

 

[Iceberg]

Breaking up with someone on "suspicion" meeeeh. I mean to each it's own. If the evidence was strong enough then I guess however I don't fault the guy for what he did. You go with your gut always, but if you can find out for sure why not? I don't fault him for that and I probably woulda did the same

I think my issue is this - if I went through all that stalking, and researching, and sneaking through her stuff and found out that i was wrong.....it'd be hard to look at myself in the mirror the next morning.

Not because I doubted my girl...i mean, who cares about that. But because I lowered myself to acting like some jilted housewife, stalking her husband to see if he's banging the secretary.

With that said, I don't fault him either. It's a big kick in the balls to think that a girl you dated....that you care about....is trying to outsmart you and being a skank.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

So following her is dumping her like a boss??

No it is not. You already knew what was going on. There was no need to follow her. Shoulda just dumped her and moved on.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

I wouldn't dump her either, you guys are too emotional... really. I would not spend another dime on her. I would immediately game other women until I found an upgrade. And most importantly I would keep banging her as long as I could and only call her to bang. I would offer no emotional support to her, no texting, no long phone calls at night. /d!ckmode_on.

Of course no more oral for her, only kiss her after you know she has brushed her teeth. If she's dry spit on your hand, rub it in there, pump and dump. She no longer deserves any consideration from you.

If this was reddit, I'd upvote you. If this was fakebook, it would be a "like" for this post.

Detach and bang the sloot until she leaves you, meanwhile game other chicks for all it's worth.

That's game if you aren't in it to reduce your options to "THE ONE"

 

[DonJuanabe]

Following was necessary because of the slight possibility he was wrong, especially since deep down he wants to be wrong and will agonize over this potential. What he did gave him closure.

 

[spang]

i would have dumped her ass too. cheating is unacceptable and unforgiveable in my book period. she prolly went in and fvcked the other guy after anyway.
but i guess if you were just bangin her, you can keep using her until you found someone else.

 

[d!ckmojo]

Too many guys respect the concept of "relationship" these days. I mean, it obvious from all the cheating that our generation of women do that they don't respect the concept of "relationship", and men must *ALWAYS* care LESS about the "relationship" than women do.

Therefore it follows that if women don't care about "relationships", then must must give EVEN LESS of a f*ck about them.

So, in this context, following a girl to another guys house and then "dumping" her just seems beta to me.

A true alpha dog, imo, wouldn't give a f*ck if she was "cheating" on him. I mean, its not like a true alpha dog doesn't have other females to sex with, is it? To a true alpha dog, all that a woman sleeping with a rival man indicates is that the women in question is particularly stupid (since she doesn't realise how inferior the other guy is in comparison), and therefore not worthy of investing any further resources in.

But I think guys have to get over this concept of having a "girlfriend" and being in a "relationship". That's just matriarchal bull$hit designed to keep true freedom loving libertarian alpha dogs down.

 

[cablecow15]

Following was necessary because of the slight possibility he was wrong, especially since deep down he wants to be wrong and will agonize over this potential. What he did gave him closure.

exactly , I like to have as much knowledge as I can give myself .

I would have followed her , and if i could have kept my cool id have waited to dump her , not letting her know i followed her or caught her or anything , just be done with her randomly , or go after one of her friends or something .

 

[cablecow15]

Too many guys respect the concept of "relationship" these days. I mean, it obvious from all the cheating that our generation of women do that they don't respect the concept of "relationship", and men must *ALWAYS* care LESS about the "relationship" than women do.

Therefore it follows that if women don't care about "relationships", then must must give EVEN LESS of a f*ck about them.

So, in this context, following a girl to another guys house and then "dumping" her just seems beta to me.

A true alpha dog, imo, wouldn't give a f*ck if she was "cheating" on him. I mean, its not like a true alpha dog doesn't have other females to sex with, is it? To a true alpha dog, all that a woman sleeping with a rival man indicates is that the women in question is particularly stupid (since she doesn't realise how inferior the other guy is in comparison), and therefore not worthy of investing any further resources in.

But I think guys have to get over this concept of having a "girlfriend" and being in a "relationship". That's just matriarchal bull$hit designed to keep true freedom loving libertarian alpha dogs down.

you think the male of any other species would be ok with their woman taking another D!ck? If you approach every situation with "how would a alpha handle this ?" youll be be alone at 40 banging old saggy broads

and those "Alphas" dont care about their relationships because their not relationships , they just date girls to have more accessible sex if thats all you want more power to you , but most of us are evolved enough to need a little more to be satisfied.

 

[d!ckmojo]

In any other species, the male would kill the other male for having sex with his female, he would not punish the female.

Females are just property to males of other species. The males fight with each other for the right to own that property, and then the alpha male f*cks all the females, whilst the beta male f*cks none.

Since its not really appropriate to physically assault another man in our society anymore, I don't see value in your analogy.

As for the rest of your comment, you're just rambling nonsense. Alpha males f*ck much younger and hotter women than other men do, that's a fact.

 

[Burroughs]

I would never get with a girl who looks and dresses like that (again), anyway. Never met or dated one who didnt cheat, and wasn't all that great in general. Ever. 5 months sounds about right, but I bet she cheated earlier, and he didn't know about it. Can't trust *****es like that. Sex is all they're good for. These girls are ESPECIALLY experts at manipulating and being deceptive. Their life is just one big shallow game, and everyone is their pawn. Their lifestyle revolves around this player mindset.

yup 100%

this is the casey anthonyfication of the western world...there are literally millions of girls ages 18-40 whose entire lifestyle is based on this.

I don't hate on these chicks i just piss in their mouths...but as far as LTR...fvck naw!...

...d!ckmojo is on point the whole 'relationship' era is pretty much done...we are in the last days of the american empire and all girls want is a fvckfest.

 

[cablecow15]

In any other species, the male would kill the other male for having sex with his female, he would not punish the female.

Females are just property to males of other species. The males fight with each other for the right to own that property, and then the alpha male f*cks all the females, whilst the beta male f*cks none.

Since its not really appropriate to physically assault another man in our society anymore, I don't see value in your analogy.

As for the rest of your comment, you're just rambling nonsense. Alpha males f*ck much younger and hotter women than other men do, that's a fact.

That's just the point alphas in our society either fight other guys like idiots and end up in jail , or there just not in relationships .In our modern society , the truest alphas are the ones in jail because there dumb enough to give into their primal instincts and fight over a B!tch usually if a alpha is in a relationship Its usually because that girl stands out from the rest in some way , be it good or bad , seen a lot of it , guy can get any girl but gets stuck on one girl who doesn't react the same way all the other girls do .

If you got a lot of money and you wanna be a old man banging hot airheads good luck , but that's a path very few men can travel , and guess what there still good looking old men. if you don't age well , have money and good looks, you wont be one of them

If you have to think how Alpha your actions are , your actions will never be Alpha , in order for them to work and appear natural , they have to be natural , you cant tell your self to act or be a cretin way and it work , it just has to come to you or it will never look or sound right to your target.

Either way a man that stays with a woman who is cheating on him has no respect for himself , a real alpha doesn't need that , because he can get a better woman who knows he's the best she will get , if a woman is looking for another D!ck , she clearly doesn't get that message and needs to be replaced .... end of

 

[cablecow15]

I know the path to finding a good relationship is one of dealing with many bad ones along the way , and when it comes time to end them , ill do it swiftly and silently, and you know what ? Ill have a lot of fun along the way , even if its an impossible search , I need a goal to strive for personally.