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    rough sex v gentle sex

    Neither. They want PASSIONATE sex. It isn't gentle and it isn't rough. I suppose it's in between.
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    should i continue?

    Are you a f'ing troll? Sometimes shy people blabber on and on because they don't know what else to do. And she isn't going to open up at school because there are other people around. She feels safer when she is with you. Either kiss her or you will be lamenting this lost opportunity in the...
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    "Communication is very important in a relationship..."

    And you know what, no matter how intelligent, nerdy, or analytical a girl is, she communicates the same way as a girl who isn't geeky or genius. It's just a female thing.
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    should i continue?

    Stop thinking. Kiss her. On the lips. If you need a gimmick try this when you two are standing near each other: Confidently with a little bit of flirting say "I dare you to take one step toward me." If she does, you take her in your arms and kiss her -- she knows exactly what's going to...
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    "Communication is very important in a relationship..."

    I can't tell you how many times I've heard a girl say that as we begin dating. Until recently I always thought it meant that the girl would freely communicate with me in a straight-forward manner and we would always be free to discuss things. How many times have I had that assumption smashed...
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    Jealousy, envy, grudges, insecurity, how does one get rid of this?

    A good way to get rid of those emotions is to focus on accomplishing great things - not to gain the respect or admiration of others, but simply to accomplish them for the sake of living life. Once you push yourself to and beyond limits you thought you had you won't be bogged down with those...
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    3 dates then it all went very wrong?!

    "I know a guy is definitely interested in me if he waits a long time to have sex with me, he basically respects me." What a load of sh*t. Talk about proving the thread on cognitive dissonance. What you know is he has not made a move and therefor might not be interested or is a p*ssy and too...
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    you ever had this happen to you?

    She knows she is good looking. She liked your effort. She realized maybe there is something good between you two. She gave you her number in order to find out if that's the case. Call her Sunday night.
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    3 dates then it all went very wrong?!

    Understand that if you are taking a girl out on a first or second date she is just as likely to be going on a first or second date with someone else too. You don't know it but you are competing against one or more other guys for the girl. In most cases, if the girl wants a BF, the first guy to...
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    I think everybody's problems with women can be boiled down to a simple problem...

    Shoes: a couple weeks ago I was talking with a female acquaintance/colleague. She is mid-40s I would guess; nothing going on between us whatsover. I was wearing a suit and for no reason at all, during a conversation we were having, she commented that my shoes were gorgeous, that she really...
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    Need some advice from someone outside the situation

    I have not and will not delete the texts/emails from my last oneitis. I don't look at them but, for some reason, I like keeping the pieces from my past. My last contact with her was mid/late June. You'll get over it as long as you accept that she does not feel the same way and you let time do...
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    SS is bad for me

    Now this is the key phrase out of all of this (from Sodbuster): "...once she gets emotionally invested in an idea, you can't change it and she won't." A woman will reinvent reality if necessary to justify how she feels about something. It doesn't matter if the facts/reality are false or never...
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    The Answer to "Do You Own or Rent?" is "Goodbye".

    One serious issue with purchasing real estate these days is that, over the next five or ten years, interest rates are more likely to be rising that falling or stable. Mortgage rates move inversely to housing prices because people cannot afford monthly payments at high interest rates and high...
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    SS is bad for me

    I wouldn't call her prude but her demeanor definitely was on the serious, negative side of things. Not much of a sense of humor, never light-hearted or happy-go-lucky about anything.
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    SS is bad for me

    "...women are to be prized, and her intimacy is a rare and precious gift, rewarded to only the man who can prove himself worthy of it." Thanks Rollo: Not too long ago I dated a girl who, if she didn't want me to kiss her, would shove me. I don't mean turn her cheek, or put her arms up, I mean...
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    Female Cognitive Dissonance.

    You need to understand and accept that women alter their view of reality to fit how they feel. It doesn't matter why they feel a certain way, once they feel that way they will alter reality in their mind to fit their feelings. You can argue with this all you want but since what matters...
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    how to resolve low IL ldr/ltr

    You know you're in a relationship when: 1) The girl communicates with you often. 2) You see each other at least twice each week. 3) You have sex with the girl. 4) Your assessment of you and the girl does not involve the words: confusing, vague, erratic, standoffish, etc. 5) The girl smiles when...
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    She is changing!

    "Again, the best way to get back the spark and attraction from a woman who no longer respects you is to get rid of her, and DO NOT contact her for a couple of years. After that, you've pretty much got a clean slate to work with." I agree with this in general (assuming the woman is, at that...
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    Need some advice from someone outside the situation

    Whenever you feel the urge to contact her - STOP. Then think about it from her point of view: she doesn't want to hear from you; she wants nothing to do with you; she wants to f*ck someone else; she will resent any contact from you; she will think less of you if you contact her. So don't do...
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    Why the F*ck are you having problems with women?

    Guys, consider this site to be your coach. Coach can give you advice on your game, what to practice, how to perform, ways to think, etc. but YOU have to be the one who goes out and competes. Consistent coaching + actual effort on your part is = success/eventual success.
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