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You can be laid back but still be assertive and take action. Being laid back is defined by your attitude more than your behavior per se. Being laid back would mean you ask a girl out and if she says no you are cool with it and look for another girl. Not being laid back would mean you ask a...

Competition. You are competing against any number of other guys. Sure, maybe it's 0. But maybe it's 1. Or 10. Or 100. You don't know. All you know is that women are approached constantly. Maybe the one you like has been approached. Maybe she will be tomorrow. So you have a first...

Hey GP - maybe I suppose, but I've always thought of NYE as a time to hang out with your friends not strangers (at least that's how it was before everyone got married). But I'm not foreclosing things quite so early!

Talking with her will get you nowhere. She'll either try to be nice and lie to you so as not to hurt your feelings, or she'll lie to herself and change facts and reality to suit her own feelings, in which case you'll just end up arguing because most of what she says won't make sense or have...

"I'm tired of texting; come over tonight and I'll serve you breakfast in the morning."

Fall will soon be here and it's time for DJB to reflect on himself as the seasons have passed by this year. No serious girlfriend since March 2010 when his seven year LTR ended (mutually). Prior to splitting up, his then GF said DJB would never date another girl as pretty as her, but DJB...

"Pick a lane.." You drive; they ride shotgun - if they don't like where you're going just hit the ejector seat button.

There was no sh*t test. She just wasn't interested. I think, also, that when she mentioned having a learning disability you should not play it down like it's not a big deal and is thus resolved -- she is telling you it is a big deal, therefore it is a big deal. You are basically telling her...

Sounds as thought she is someone with whom you'd ideally want a relationship -- if so you are smart in protecting your heart. There are definite issues with her from her prior relationship and she might not truly be over it; just confused, angry, and needing someone to make her feel good. If...

"However, it does make her feel appreciated for the hard work she puts into looking good for you." I failed miserably in that area with my oneitis in the spring. Even though I feel she was way overdressed for things we had planned to do the point is she was making a major effort to do so for...

I think she is going (flying) to a wedding this weekend but am not sure, so to be safe I think Sunday night would be the best/soonest night to ask her out, and would be one week from our first date. My plan is to wait until Tuesday (thus two days from the date) and text her an invitation "How...

Thanks, Meast. "Also never act or portray that your time with her was not a "real" date. She is going to think you are not taking her serious. Was it a "friendly" hangout?? What the fvck were you trying to accomplish???" It was sushi at a little Japanese restaurant. She originally said she'd...

Had a date tonight. Convo flowed well, funny, good time. Walked her back and mentioned going out again (in general, not a specific date) - she was up for it but not enthusiastic so I said hey if you're not interested that's cool - she responded that she is up for going out again. The entire...

A friend of mine is married to a women he admits is out of his league physically. What attracted her to him was the way he thinks; he is both analytical and able to take disparate pieces of information and put them together in ways that aren't obvious at first. She knew on their first date...

Stickman - NO. NOOOOO. Got it? Wait a couple days then INVITE HER OUT. Do not send her some weak crap like what you just posted. You are the man; you invite her to do something, you don't leave it open ended like that as though you are waiting for her to take initiative.

Attraction for a woman can be very different than for a man. It is more than physical. Three examples: Some 10 years ago I went to a gym to apply for a front desk job. When I walked in I noticed the HB 9 who worked at the front. Wow. 5'9, C-cups, long blond hair, 20 yrs old, beautiful...

By the way, as far as kissing and then that being one and done, often a girl isn't really all that attracted to a guy but she enjoyed hanging out with him. In that case she will make out with him to see if doing so does anything special for her -- if it does then she'll see him again. If not...

Elaborate on what she is doing?

Marrying a 23 year old (next year) will only add to the number of divorcees in the future.

Holy crap I am laughing so damn hard right now. No need for further ANALysis...