I LMR'ed after we went out and bought condoms

[Boilermaker]

Could easily sleep with her. She had been into me for so long, finally found an excuse to invite me over.

Sort of a b-face, but looks good. 27-y-o with a good-to-go body. Any straight guy under normal circumstances wouldn't pass it up, NSA.

We almost started doing it, but I am strict with protection (for first timers, and when I don't know the girl well); and I am not that much of a

beginner to get caught up in it and give up.

Told her, it's either a trip to the store or I pass.

Came back, and we talk some more. Looks like she was very recently in a very serious LTR. Somewhat dubious ... Who is he?

He put up with this woman's sh!t for 4 years, still in love with her. He cheated on her and she broke up with him. Looks like he still wants her badly.

Details are not clear. I have a bad feeling, don't know what I am getting myself into. Looks like there's some continuity. They spoke 3 days ago.

She begs me to stay. She's ready to do anything. Her clingy attitude doesn't help.

No. Admittedly, part of the hard reality is, she's not that pretty for me to walk over my principles.

4 years of LTR still deserves some extended respect in my book and I can hold myself now. Plus; I have no intention of being somebody's

rebound or revenge.

Zarky may laugh; but I traded a notch for some integrity last night. Didn't feel so bad, actually

 

[The Gambler]

Getting laid isn't the point here, so they say, but it's all about the self-improvement. You have much to be proud of.

Post of the week!

The Gambler

 

[AW1983]

A chance to exercise your self-discipline (whatever your motivating principles may be) is far more of a success than an easy lay in my book.

 

[The Bat]

Strong work! I honestly appreciate guys who have standards and won't put their d1ck in any wet hole that opens up.

I passed up a sure FWB opportunity recently with a 6/10 because of her clingy attitude and general ball-buster attitude. I don't need any drama in my life no matter how easy the lay is.

Funny thing, 5+ years ago, I would have put up with all of it just a chance to get laid on a consistent basis. But not anymore.

 

[DonJuanabe]

Sounds as thought she is someone with whom you'd ideally want a relationship -- if so you are smart in protecting your heart. There are definite issues with her from her prior relationship and she might not truly be over it; just confused, angry, and needing someone to make her feel good. If you go that route do not become attached anytime soon or you're facing some major disappointment.

 

[Itsjustme]

Having integrity surely feels better in the long run than a lay anyway. Grats man.

 

[Boilermaker]

Thanks everyone for the positive notes. Feels much better when guys like you with a good dose of common sense and experience chip in and agree.

Honestly, I was a little scared when I first made the admission that I could be labeled as an idiot for not being a man and banging her for whatever reason.

I appreciate it guys.

 

[Warrior74]

Good on ya man. Every man has a line that can't be crossed just for some pleasure.

 

[HalfAddict]

Indeed, this move does not reek of desperation. I believe it will benefit you in the future.