Is this disrespect?

[TRSX]

A girl invites you on a date.

She wants to take you to dinner (cool.) and drive you there (even better.).

Then asks all her friends on if they want to do something that night and meetup without asking you (its in an area thats not exactly close to home.) - I don't care about meeting up with her friends, but is this disrespect?

 

[pdx1138]

hell yes.

any girl I've dated, who was into me, would never pull that during the
"getting to know you" stage.

 

[TRSX]

what do? also this is a girl that we've been on a few dates already - i just for some reason still think its disrespectful

 

[betheman]

first date yes, 3+ ?? she wants you and her friends to meet, how can that be disrespectful?

 

[perseverance]

first date yes, 3+ ?? she wants you and her friends to meet, how can that be disrespectful?

Precisely! She wants you to meet her friends, what's wrong with that?

 

[pdx1138]

oh. you didn't mention you'd already been out a few times.

not disrespectful, she wants to show you off to her friends.

thats a good thing.

 

[DonJuanabe]

It is always a positive sign when a girl shows you off to her friends -- she is boasting.

 

[Zerro]

what do? also this is a girl that we've been on a few dates already - i just for some reason still think its disrespectful

That changes everything, she wants to show you off. That's a good thing.