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i still would like to know the $ value of the short change check. Are we talking $10, $200 or $600.

I can't imagine that this is all about money. There's no way the OP has been with this girl for 6 yrs, without money situations coming up previously. So, either this is a one off situation re:money - or this is a continuation of a regular pattern. If it's a regular pattern, then you should...

I've been in a similar situation for the last 12 months - double knee surgery put me out and I gained 20lbs in all. I pretty much got myself into the right mental state - yes it sucked not being able to go to the gym, but long term health is more important to me. I used the time to put...

Sh1tt1ng where you eat si a bad idea. Let her down genetly unless you want drama to ensue.

How many dates have you been on? Who pays? Who makes all the calls? All of the above are important points. If you've yet to esculate and AT LEAST make out with her, chances are she's just keeping you around. As stated above, you need to esculate and stop beating around the bush.

Stay in the picture until she has her period. You don't have to see her, just keep in contact. Tell her your busy with work, you need to go away for a week or so with work - whatever - but I'd keep tabs on her until you know she's on the rag. If you disapear now, it could lead to some "I think...

It's your son's play, not yours. Unless your girl knows your Son well, I would not even consider it.

7 yrs ago I was living with what I thought was the most amazing woman. Long story short, we broke up (i didn't want to buy the ring) - she got married 12 months later. 7 yrs on, she has a kid and still is calling me - but apparently is very happy. Yeah, I dodged a bullet.

I say take advantage of the situation. As long as you are clear going into it, then you will be fine. Just don't get emotional about it. I hate to be so cinical as the original poster, but fact is fact. Women follow the trend - the economy is big news now, and there's lots of rumors abound...

I think 'MATTS" is the friend

You did play with fire, and now your dealing with the consequences. Well my friend, there is not much that you can do here. Learn your lesson. Put it down to alcohol. If I were you, I'd go on the trip, and not worry about it - you can't do anything about it now. Make sure you don't go...

These are the best!!!!

Just pumping away doesn't (usually) get the job done. If she can come by herself, you can make it happen when banging her. Just be creative.

Thats my point - you don't need to 'give her time to get over your age'. She knows your older, you know your older. Let's not beat around the bush, for women, age is a big deal.

Somewhat true. You should not have played the guessing game with her in regards to age. It is obvious to her that you are old (old in her sense). You played a game, but to her it's an important issue, and because you came accross as weak (you played the guessing game) it became more of...

Do you think your standards are to high? Or that you are looking for something thats no there? To picky?

I'd like to chime in. To me, this behaviour would have been disrespectful if you had been dating a while. But quite frankly, she owes you nothing at this stage. You went out once, and the world doesn't revolve around you. Perhaps she just didn't want you to know where she lived? Perhaps...

fair enough - maybe it was DJ Damage.

The "I don't think" is the key word here. Were you not the one who posted a while back and said that you would have no problem banging a buddy's ex?

Was she around the kids when you had them? how often? did you do things together? Doesn't matter if she did or didn't go out - the fact is she could if she wanted to. This screams to me of: 1) she's been living with you and your kids and realises how much work is involved and how time...