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Firstly, I suggest you read the DJ Bible - all the answers to your questions are there. Secondly - and it's a difficult idea to grasp - you need to do the exact opposite of what your doing. You've not yet indicated in any way that your interested in her - and in fact you are acting like...

There is really nothing you can do about it - you observe it, realizse it's there, then use it to your advantage whenever you can..... I've never bough into this "Society expects you to..." BS. you need to live your life the way you want to - and do what's right for you....

This could be very true given the facts. In fact, her friend (the reliable source) may not even know this is a lie. Your GF might just have told her "XXX doesn't want to talk to me anymore because he says I keep talking to Slickaz - can you believe that?".... But the point is valid.

Because she's done it once and didn't like it???

Don't back off over it - in fact I would go on the attack.... You need to break it off with her, and tell her it's because she's trying to control you - which in fact she is. If you back down now, it will only get worse. I know it's tough to do - but you need to do it for the long term...

I beleive there are a few schools of thought here - and you can use any - depending on the situation: 1) Low key/low expense Keep the budget amnd acitivty low dollars. If she's into you and not the date/activity, then she'll agree and you have a barometer with which to gauge her interest...

Why not forget all the BS right now and concentrate on the immediate. Zen it my friend - just be. Focus on the now and yourself - you've enough timne in the future to start worrying about goals and all of that BS...

What are you doing here really? Seems like you are just hanging on, for the sake of hanging on. I believe, you know deep down that this girl is not the one. Your looking for excuses and reasons to stall.... Dude, your not ready to get married - bottom line. You know what you need to...

Ignorance is bliss my friend. Do you believe these people are happy - really happy? maybe 15% of them - tops. Your on a journey - and need to enjoy the ride. On the up days - you should bask in the glory - on the down days - you should learn and remember those feelings. The Zen way...

Some good advice here. The bottom line though - LL will not break it off with her. He knows deep down inside he should - but he's being to emotional. This will ontinue for another couple of months until the resentment builds to much. So, LL, you all cool with her going to Italy with her...

It have have both effects. I think the more important point - is how you react to it. Do you flaunt the fact that you are banging these women? or do you keep tight lipped? i think the later will get you further. My buddy did the former - and his well dried.

It just seems like you've taken so lomng to get to this point. You've been blinded by "love" - and hopefully you've learned from it. Don't postpone it - not even for work. just rip it off like a band aid and move on. The longer you leave it, the more time she will have to sow doubts into...

Get the fork out of your mouth.

Advice is spot on here - you know what to do (if you want your GF) or what not to do (if you don't).

This is the key - if they have had one, they'll have another. Not worth the risk.

Good job - stay the course.

I think those 3 points are enough to tip the scale by itself.

This is a totally different angle - I really have no experience with it, but I can understand it is a great method of comm. if you are deaf. Power to you. I use a Blackberry as well. I use it for work email. i do not use it for text purposes. One of the huge reasons I do not text, is...

It's not about resistance to change, It's about the fact that picking up the phone IS NEVER WRONG. Would you ask a girl out over email? Could you sned the same message over email that you can voice to voice? communication is key - and avoiding miss communication by not sending emails and...

I am at work - and I want to avoid wasting my time by not sending her a BS message because: 1) it's impersonal 2) I'm not going to be able to engage her with my whit and charm 3) I want to meet her face to face. therefore, I will refrain from texting her (I don't have text turned on...