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OP is this a joke post??? You demand that the girl go to the bathroom before the movie but she wants to go later b/c she's actually putting up makeup to look better for when you guys kiss. She tries to get to know you better by talking to you and you tell her to STFU because the movie is just...

Going off of Vlad, not to be petty but you also lost the Words with Friends game and had to cook her dinner. I think the playful bet was a good instinct, but in the beginning I like to bet something that is a WIN WIN for me.

Good question. I generally burn a lot of bridges, too. My natural friends, on the other hand, seem to keep up contact with all of their exes. They might not talk a lot with them, but every once in a while. I don't have time to write a longer post but for now I'll say I think there's a...

If you're "trying to be straight forward", ask her in person. Not saying I had the balls to back in the days when I went to formals, but I wish I started pushing my comfort zone back then.

Also just noticed this, but can you go into detail of what your first interaction and texts were when you cold approached her??? Namely clear up: 1) At the time you first met and you # closed her, she didn't mention any boyfriend then, right? 2) Somehow after the texts and your asking her...

Sounds like my first "relationship". My only reference point was movies ("romantic movies") as opposed to how attraction really works. I'm sure someone here can parse out the individual mistakes better than I can. For now I'll just say you scared her off from the start by confessing that you...

Whoa, you did it! I'm surprised. Sure others are too. LOL, good stuff.

1. I'm glad I have a life -- or rather got one -- and have a lot of things going for me. 2. It's better to be judged on having a life/having a lot of things going for you than on something that will eventually fade... looks in a woman.

Good post man. I did something similar when Facebook switched to timeline and I saw old wall posts and PMs... Went all the way back to 2005 when I was about to start college. Realized I was never as bad as I thought I was with girls. Sure a lot of neediness in some of my messages, failed ****...

Avoid friends if you can. When I started game, it was all about going into different kinds of sets and dealing with a multitude of dynamics. It's possible to succeed there. However, even if a girl has come with friends, those that are down at some point will drift away from them. I've gotten...

Oh, to add, just remembered your original story about driving all the way to her apartment only to have her give you that BS about her ex. Man, if she does show, she better really make it up to you. I'm not even sure I'd give her another chance after that.

Let's see what happens. Don't get your hopes up. I've had girls do the whole "how can I make it up to you" too. Quite a few have shown, but it's only delaying the inevitable. Meaning, we might mess around a bit and things are good for a while but then she starts flaking again. Basically, it's...

I like this handhold technique. Not sure if I could pull it off from the jump in day game, but I've been using it with success during the night.

This has happened to me a few times and for my friends too. However, I think sometimes it's better to just lay low and go NC. Sometimes we think pursuing will get the girl to "change her mind" and "see the light." Really, often, it's just the opposite, assuming there's a sufficient connection...

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Definitely guilty of this one a lot. I play it too cool/overgame/make things too complicated. No need for jealousy plot lines when the girl is already down. Why leave?! It's like you want them to be attracted to you by 1 more percentage point because then and only then will they sleep with you. lol

This is just straight self-rationalization here. It's JUST asking for her number.... it's JUST taking her on a date. Nothing to do with whether you're in college or in a retirement home, whether the girl is in your social circle or a random bar. If she rejects you, sure it might be a...

Ah, another racial thread. Been a while. Funny how people label women who find black men attractive to be "brainwashed by the media" as if the prior state of things from 1776 to (meh) 1965 wasn't "brainwashing" either. Seems to me that if black dudes were just "worthless" you'd not say...

It's interesting, spiegel, that you sound angrier in this post than you did in person at the time. At least you're saying things like "she @$()%ing texted me" in this post, realizing what a blatant sign of disrespect this was. In person, in real time, you actually responded to her texts...

Had a funny experience recently where this girl (friend of a friend) went on a long rant about how a friend of mine (pretty boy looks) was "too pretty" and maybe even gay. When we got to the party, she proceeded to pounce on me. Beard and build. Ever since I've put on 15 pounds and grown...