What does it mean when you're at the movies with a girl and she...

[alpha_ash]

Okay, I know, I know. Never make the mistake of taking a girl to the movies. I actually never do that, but I made an exception about a month ago. I rushed in late, met up with her at the gate, then we walked to the actual screen. She said along the way, she will have to step out for a couple mins to go to the bathroom. I told her to go right now, it will be fine if we walk in late. She said she would go during the movie.

Anyway, she goes after about 20 minutes and then comes back.

We didn't really do anything because it was a horror movie and I was very into it. She kept asking me questions but I would tell her to pretty much shut up and watch lol...

Hindsight tells me she had some sinister intentions on her mind haha. Am I right? or what was happening?


EDIT: Thought I would add the answers to below questions up here to make it easier to read.

Depends on what she said and her non-verbals. Give us more detailed information for an accurate response, bud.

She would lean in to me and ask questions. When she came back, she looked like she had redone make-up etc but I can't be sure because I was focused on the movie. Then about an 45 mins after returning from the bathroom, she said I could put the popcorn between us, possibly giving up on the idea of doing anything.

ONE THING THOUGH: There was one time, she leaned in, asked a question, and I turned around to the left to answer her question and we almost kissed lol.. because she didn't move her head as I was whispering the answers into her ear to not disturb others around us.

I have no idea what you are talking about. However, I think you did the right thing by focusing on the movie and making her 2nd priority.

Thanks. She wouldn't shut up and kept trying to talk during the movie which wasn't full of people, but there were a couple people sitting in front of and behind us.

Was this a first date?

This was not a first date. The first date went very well and we were planning to meet up something else the following Friday but couldn't due to scheduling on both our parts so instead we met up that Sunday for a movie that I had told her about.

Completely unrelated: And I have a bro for movies, we literally go every week (sometimes twice LOL) because we love movies so much. Unfortunately he is in Florida working from now until Christmas vacation. Any idea on what I can do to find another movie buddy (guy or girl)? hahaha

 

[Masculinity]

Depends on what she said and her non-verbals. Give us more detailed information for an accurate response, bud.

 

[dap]

I have no idea what you are talking about. However, I think you did the right thing by focusing on the movie and making her 2nd priority.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Was this a first date?

 

[alpha_ash]

Depends on what she said and her non-verbals. Give us more detailed information for an accurate response, bud.

She would lean in to me and ask questions. When she came back, she looked like she had redone make-up etc but I can't be sure because I was focused on the movie. Then about an 45 mins after returning from the bathroom, she said I could put the popcorn between us, possibly giving up on the idea of doing anything.

ONE THING THOUGH: There was one time, she leaned in, asked a question, and I turned around to the left to answer her question and we almost kissed lol.. because she didn't move her head as I was whispering the answers into her ear to not disturb others around us.

I have no idea what you are talking about. However, I think you did the right thing by focusing on the movie and making her 2nd priority.

Thanks. She wouldn't shut up and kept trying to talk during the movie which wasn't full of people, but there were a couple people sitting in front of and behind us.

Was this a first date?

This was not a first date. The first date went very well and we were planning to meet up something else the following Friday but couldn't due to scheduling on both our parts so instead we met up that Sunday for a movie that I had told her about.

Completely unrelated: And I have a bro for movies, we literally go every week (sometimes twice LOL) because we love movies so much. Unfortunately he is in Florida working from now until Christmas vacation. Any idea on what I can do to find another movie buddy (guy or girl)? hahaha

 

[Leopold]

I'm going to tell you something based on personal experience.

ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD.

Simply, go have fun (which you did) and expect nothing nor try use logic and read her mind through her actions.

 

[omega05]

yea i dont see the need to overanalyze going to a movie with a girl. What did y'all do after?

 

[alpha_ash]

I'm going to tell you something based on personal experience.

ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD.

Simply, go have fun (which you did) and expect nothing nor try use logic and read her mind through her actions.

haha okay! I had a blast with that movie even though this was the second time I was seeing it and it had nearly the same effect. The movie was called Sinister and it was mad scary, even my buddy who used to be a football player and his bigger and stronger was cowering in his seat while we were at the movies together the 1st time around.

yea i dont see the need to overanalyze going to a movie with a girl. What did y'all do after?

We just talked for a bit outside the theater and went our separate ways.

How could I have escalated it after exiting the theater? For future reference

 

[NewAndImproved]

OP is this a joke post???

You demand that the girl go to the bathroom before the movie but she wants to go later b/c she's actually putting up makeup to look better for when you guys kiss.

She tries to get to know you better by talking to you and you tell her to STFU because the movie is just so damned interesting.

She puts the popcorn between you guys so that there's a chance for handholding and other ways to physically escalate and you actually take it as an IOD.

This has to be a joke.

 

[alpha_ash]

OP is this a joke post???

You demand that the girl go to the bathroom before the movie but she wants to go later b/c she's actually putting up makeup to look better for when you guys kiss.

She tries to get to know you better by talking to you and you tell her to STFU because the movie is just so damned interesting.

This has to be a joke.

LOL, no I suppose it sounds super pathetic when I write about it. We had talked for 2 hours the first date when I tried to cut it off 2 times and then finally on 3rd try I walked us both to our cars hahaha.

During the movie, she was asking questions about the movie, not about me.

Also, I didn't read into this until later when I thought about it. I wasn't thinking she wanted to talk, do make-up, etc.

 

[NewAndImproved]

It's all right man. Sorry for coming across harsh. I forgot for a moment how I used to be.

Reminds me of a time when I liked this girl at camp. We went to the movies as a group but she made sure to sit next to me. It wasn't a particularly scary movie but she spent most of the time squeezing my arms and pinching them.

It got to the point where she pinched me really hard and I actually yelled at her. Stupid me didn't put it together that she liked me.

Just learn from it!

 

[alpha_ash]

It's all right man. Sorry for coming across harsh. I forgot for a moment how I used to be.

Reminds me of a time when I liked this girl at camp. We went to the movies as a group but she made sure to sit next to me. It wasn't a particularly scary movie but she spent most of the time squeezing my arms and pinching them.

It got to the point where she pinched me really hard and I actually yelled at her. Stupid me didn't put it together that she liked me.

Just learn from it!

Haha, yeah exact same thing may have happened.

Btw, can you guys help me out with my current situation:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=199897

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

This was not a first date. The first date went very well and we were planning to meet up something else the following Friday but couldn't due to scheduling on both our parts so instead we met up that Sunday for a movie that I had told her about.

I was going to say that maybe she was making a call to her bail out buddy to let him/her know that everything is cool.

I guess that doesn't make sense if it is not a first date.