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Re: I'd say a 'market' so-to-speak does exist on this topic. Because we men know there exist girls who give into sex easily and freely, what reason do you settle down? Most of us guys living on our own have our own defined lifestyle, can cook, clean, shave, shower, do laundry, fix our...

Re: Idealism is the downfall of many of us. An "ideal" ascribes that perfection exists. Well, is not what we teach that there exist not perfect method? Does a perfect body exist? Maybe. You can develop your BEST body, but you certainly won't be perfect, and you might not be perfect for the...

Upon waking, I generally check the boards for any interesting topics of discussion or posts that I have insight on. As of late, though, I have become incredibly dismayed at the degradation of topics and posts. Not that we all don't have concerns, issues, or worries, but that it seems too many...

Ways to Handle it. Pretty good, though you seemed a little tense or anxious at points. In a hot, heavy moment, a quick way to deflate it is to ask semi-serious questions. Don't know if I'd have gone that route either, because it generally implies 'player.' Might have been smarter to...

Re: While the base thought might work, in the long wrong, it will hinder your ultimate goals. I'll first start by saying... Anything you acquire can be taken away. Your house, it can burn down. Your car, it can break down, get stolen, or just get old. Your girl, she can leave you...

The Subconscious. To get to the core, we must first KNOW a core exists, and FEEL what's inside already. Second, we must talk to ourselves with respect, confidence, and love. Yes, corny, but true. Ever done any self-hypnosis? I have. The conscious brain is a GATEKEEPER for the...

Spirituality and Yoga. I had a client who is VERY into YOGA (Power stuff, very difficult) sit across of me and talk about 'his' experiences. He had a hard life, was an alchy (to my knowledge) and changed his name to 1 word. For nearly 10 years, he's been on a spirtual path, seeing very...

Giving you the idea. A follow-up... In some regards, people will view us as multi-dimensional. Some days, we'll appear happy, fun, and light-hearted. Some days, we're on point, witty, cynical, and humorous. Some days, we're true pimps, where we can easily approach any girl. And some days we...

Now, I will first state I ascribe to no set religion yet, so please do not miscontrue what I say as being of some religious sect. However, what I did realize I found in the bible, and it made a strong impact on me and how I view life. Concurrently, I found similar information, non-religious...

Generalities. Perusing the post I noticed "alot" of generalities, that is frightful how some of you men feel. Whether you're successful or not, all that matters is you bring to yourself what you want. However, how can you honestly go out into the world with such negative roadmaps? It's...

Re: Confidence isn't based on what you've done or what you have. It's BELIEF. That's it. Pure and simple. Some presents a problem. W/out fail, you accept the challenge to fix it. It's time wasteful to think you need to learn EVERYTHING to be confident. Hardly. I work with fat guys who...

Re: People will be as they will be. One cannot help another person until they're read to help themselves. In the meantime, countless people who want help, go unnoticed because they're not stepping up and crying every day. Rule 1: Anytime an issue as trifling as dates, or lines...

Re: Seabreeze, Why are you thinking so much and not just enjoying it? It's life. Go with the flow. I'm 24.5 dating a 27 year old and a 34 year old. Women tend to mature PROFESSIONALLY much later in life. They don't take up easy to talk about topics on dates, nor do some become as mature...

Re: Good adages. Philosophy is a must, that's an underpinning of who you are. It's an internal make-up mechanism. Your philosophy on life makes you or breaks you. Is it necessary to study Philosophy from a Historical perspective? No. To better yourself, yes. Don't confuse the...

If you work on your job, you'll make a living, if you work on yourself, you'll make a fortune. ~ Jim Rohn. True words, too true. And this, my friends, is where school, colleges, and general public education misses the point. For those younger guys not sure what to do with life, in terms of...

Re: FM 3321, I don't hear it, nor would I expect to hear it to my face. But guess what? I WOULD LOVE FOR A WOMAN TO DO SUCH A THING. ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT. Because it would demonstrate what a down right empty person she is. It would pain her too much to be that vindictive in person, so a...

Re: diplomatic_lie, See also Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn, and Earl Nightingale. The Premise is as such...and I'll use an example to demonstrate. When you're in sales, you're goal is to generate the MOST income possibly for your UNIT of time. Getting the most sales DOESN'T necessarily give...

Thanks Man. dearsappho, Glad you saw what I see. More often than not, life is not logical. Yes, there's cause and effect, but little of it do we actually see, because there's too much mental clutter. I, like you, and other's do often get dejected from time to time when things don't workout...

When talking with a buddy of mine, K, I recalled how over the years, the women who retained my number recircled around for a second or third go at me. Why? I remarked how many people are like beaten-down dogs, wearing a badge of scars, almost proudly. They get to a certain point based on...

Definitions. A woman said to me: I'm sick and tired of being duped by guys. I want a niiiice guy. This girl I met online. We met briefly for a short date, and upon finishing, I barfed up all the food ate, literally. I got food poisoning. BUT! What did she really say? Follow along and...