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    Another Motivating Article To Change.

    Women like bad boys. Are you a "nice" guy? How many times have you been passed over for someone who treats women like garbage? Never fear. When women are ready to settle down, chances are they'll pick a nice guy who can provide stability and a pleasant environment. The bad boys have a shelf...
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    Let's talk about EGO

    Another Comment. Something I want to point is the existence of the EGO. It's quite relative to a Matrix type concept, in that it predisposes us to certain actions. Consider all the people walking around each and everyday, clouded by their mentals thoughts, assumptions, suppositions and so...
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    Let's talk about EGO

    Re: I've posted much the same, squirrels, so I *get* what you're saying. Many guys hang their hats on a woman, period. Their sense of masculinity is defined by: *Whether they've banged a girl. *How many they've dated. *How many numbers they get. *How hot she is relative to past dates...
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    "...like a date?" she asks

    Sense of Purpose. One thing to keep in mind that some might let slip... You're finding the woman for YOU. FOR YOU. You're not pacifying her needs or trying to bridge her desire and your's (that's for later on when you're more involved and in love, then you compromise; see Anti-Dump)...
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    The REAL Reason For Waiting Four Days To Call

    Thoughts. To me, after years of doing this pick-up thing.... All waiting does for the regular guy is DELAY the inevitable. A girl who HAS NO INTEREST in you will only tell you 4 days later, or ignore your phone call. And a girl who HAS interest in you, won't care. My friend, Mike, put it...
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    "...like a date?" she asks

    Re: From Van Wilder... Ok, it's a date. It's not a date. It's an interview. First dates ARE interviews. What you're saying is all semantics. Whether it's a date or not, in your reality it was 'fun', in her's, it was a date. Just learn for next time. Or call her back and...
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    How was your New Year Celebration?

    The Boston New Year's. Started out a mess. My buddy booked a VIP room at Gypsy in Boston for $300. After we had it, people began backing out because the cost per head not including booze was $250, included. 10 passenger Stratech Caddy. VIP room with Champange toast. Suites at a Local Hotel...
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    do you plan on staying single or marrying some day?

    Re: Life Rewards What You Put Into It. I've seen the light at the end of the tunnel for some grown friends; it isn't pretty. Then again, if it's your life, and you're gonna pass of this dimension, might as well go how you want it. Every guy wants the ONE, but that means taking as many...
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    Is David D'Angelo's book really worth it??

    Re: Wrong Book http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0679723005/qid=1104434115/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/102-7942841-3233725?v=glance&s=books This is the book. By Alan Watts. It started out confusing, but once he pointed out concepts, they began to tie together. I can't place the theme...
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    Is David D'Angelo's book really worth it??

    On DYD. David D organizes the best points of what's been said here, logically. He references a good # of books, many I've bought, and just hearing about them changed alot for me personally. I bought the E-book first, then the CD series of Advanced Comm and Sexual Comm. I often play them...
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    Hardest thing for AFC's

    Rollo's statement is dead on. Very rarely do people accept fault or responsibility. Why? Generally speaking EVERYBODY sees themselves as good under their own CONTEXT of what is good. A girl who is a slut, will associate with other sluts and see her behavior as normal. A guy who plays...
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    New Years Party (Calling ALL MDJs)

    Re: Stop going with so much intention and enjoy the night for what it is, New Year's. I find the less you push, the easier things flow to you. And I've known a fair amount of guys who got some great azz, just by enjoying the time, getting a good buzz, and be in the right place at the...
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    Hardest thing for AFC's

    One of the things... ...I did to fix things was to stop fixing them. I dropped the whole "pacifying my demons." Why? Because they were false anyway. The perfect environment to create a super-human-male that would be: *Alpha (I hate the term anyway) *Business-minded *Seductive...
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    Hardest thing for AFC's

    Re: The hardest thing I see on behalf of those guys too timid to realize their hopes and dreams is that their underlying philosophy is out of whack. They go to work on 1 aspect of their life, to the negation of all other elements. It's much like working out. If you workout your chest, your...
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    Quick question about "Think & Grow Rich"

    Re: Not quite sure what hippie crap you're referring to. A few of my friends are hippies and some wear the drug rugs, but few have religious ties or care less about religion right now. Infinite intelligence is that component of our psyche that's a "gut feeling". It's the "I know something is...
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    How we all view relationships differently

    Re: Francisco, I dig the name, because I enjoyed the book. But frankly, your statement is a given. If she doesn't have a like-minded outlet at some point in the relationship, it will be found out. AND, do you want to even waste the time on her? Ever feel the difference between prodding...
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    Is it possible to get back with exes?

    Re: Would you want to get back with an X? Have some self-respect man. If she isn't PLEASING you in the way you desire to live life, move on. P-S is right. Too many men have fallen under the rapture of a false belief that "one" exists. Or even that fairy tails happen. Because men are so...
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    Advice To Chancer357

    Thoughts. First off, if you didn't want help from motivated people here or attention, don't initiate a post on how poorly you feel about your life. Cause ~~~~~~~~> Effect. Posting brought the ends of assistance from SOME members to your aid. NOW, at a point in your life when NO ONE...
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    Age Difference -- Whats biggest difference you've had?

    Re: Me 24, Her 17.5 Me 24, Her going on 34 (1 month) A-Unit
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    You want to be a Player - Why?

    Re: Personally, I don't give a shyt what ya'll do to get women, or get ya rox off. What it does come down to, in any realm, is having a sense of control over our lives. We want to be able to land women. To land a job/career. To land sex. To feel comfortable in our skin. To not feel...
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