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Most of the veterans of these boards have, at some point, discussed "passion" and how it is necessary for a man to find his, and to use it in order to accomplish things. Unfortunately, I find the fact that one's passion(s) must be found more than a little disturbing, since this implies that a...

The only reason anyone here should act gay is if they want to. If you're doing it just to get women, then your priorities are all screwed up. I would want to be manly enough to sweat pure testosterone, and if I could, I would do it even if every woman in the world HATED it. Why? Because...

Being yourself only works if "yourself" is what every other man on the planet wishes he was and what every woman on the planet would fvck right now. From where I'm standing, the DJ, alpha male, real man, or whatever it's called nowadays, has absolutely nothing in common with who and what I am...

You may not like weaning, coddling, or offering sympathy, A-Unit, but remember, you are dealing with pvssies who haven't a chance in Hell any other way. Improving ourselves and our lives and becoming DJs is, believe it or not, a CHOICE. There is no pressure, no obligation on our part to do...

IMO, not having your game on 24/7 is probably another reason, missing opportunities by not having your eyes and ears (and d!ck) open. This is probably why most guys go to specific places to meet women; it doesn't occur to them to approach anywhere else. And probably a normal work/school...

First of all, give yourself some credit for what you've accomplished. You're leaps and bounds ahead of most guys here. If you have approaching and attracting women licked, then start escalating things with them. Don't worry about relapsing so much; you know what the symptoms are so you should...

That is EXACTLY what I've been asking this whole time! I guess it has to do with embracing your power to act in the world, a healthy dose of arrogance and selfishness. Self-esteem - "You may..." Self-confidence - "You can..." Testosterone - "You will..." Ask yourself what is stopping...

Fender: It's definitely possible. I got hooked when I was young and I can still fall back in pretty deep. Your mind visualizes/fantasizes FIRST, before you even think to actually DO something, and if you don't snap out of it, you'll forget that what you see, hear, and do in your mind isn't real...

When Nature strengthens the strong and weakens the weak, it's no wonder that AFC-dom is so difficult to break out of. Not only are you swimming against the current, but you're probably also in the wrong river.

I guess it surprises me that all the sh!t a woman puts a man through doesn't diminish her in his eyes. If a woman is a b!tch, then it really doesn't matter to me how hot she is; she can go crying home to her vibrator for all I care.

I've always wondered why women seem stuck with interest signals that are too subtle for most men to pick up on, or else they don't give any signals at all. Does their desire to avoid being seen as a slut really extend that far beyond sex?

Women want everything on your terms, not theirs - all that they want, in their predictably backward and indirect fashion, is for your terms to be exciting and pleasurable for them as well. It really is as simple as being enough of a man to just take what you want - all the seduction...

If you can't deal with it then don't walk on eggshells around her. Seriously, if she's the kind of girl that you'd have to walk on eggshells with, then chances are you wouldn't want her even for an ONS. If anything, she should have to walk on eggshells around you, going out of her way to...

So it has been written, so it shall be done ... interesting idea. Just make sure it doesn't turn into some kind of fantasy, where you compensate for your lack of action by writing about all the things you wish you'd do. Visualization can become addictive; I should know as I'm in the middle...

If they truly don't give a fvck, then what causes them to do it at all, or anything else for that matter? What, besides obligation, gets you out of bed in the morning if you don't give a fvck?

Then how can us haters use our hatred to make progress rather than just passively wallowing in it? I don't care if I'm only motivated by raw seething hatred for guys who do better than I, just as long as it gets me off my ass and has me trying to beat them.

Now if only I had some impulses . . . Seriously though, I have always wondered what separates a man who would make use of that extra time and money from a guy like me - what internal "thing" makes him able to do more with himself than I can with myself?

I can relate to this - I've never been inspired or motivated by the success of others, only depressed and discouraged. I asked my psychologist about it once, and he said that it had to do with self-esteem (of course :rolleyes: ), that someone in this position doesn't value themselves enough...

Wow ... I almost thought you were talking about me instead of about your friends :D Technically, you're not a hedonist. A hedonist is someone who would seek pleasure at the expense of all else. That you could choose to and then suffer through what was necessary to transform yourself and your...

IMO, the logical, analytical way these men think and live is a symptom as much as a problem in and of itself - a self-perpetuating rut. Think of it in terms of the "ivory tower" - these men are so insulated from life by their knowledge and/or intellect that life is robbed of much of its...