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Fun - only three letters, but a very complex word. Right now, I'm sitting home on a Friday night posting here and watching Stargate SG-1 and having as much "fun" as I've ever had in my life :rolleyes: If I'm ever going to get out there, I'm going to have to make it more fun than what my...

If Anti-Dump can tell that quickly if a woman is worth pursuing or not then he'd be a fool not to take advantage of that skill. Wasting time on women with low to no interest level doesn't make sense no matter what your goals are, be they ONS or LTR.

Because when you first start out, it is a struggle, but a struggle with yourself. You see, we probably know everything we would ever need to know about all this, but actually getting off our asses, going out of our comfort zone, risking our egos, is not pleasant, both because of itself and...

Living for the moment is a two-way street. It is entirely possible to become so wrapped up in the here-and-now, that you cannot see anything beyond it. If you are more focused on what is than what could be, if you are more focused on who you are than who you could be, you'll never go...

How exactly is the belief part of affirmations done? Do you pretend that what you're saying is true by trying to make yourself feel as you would if it were true? Do you try to consciously trigger or duplicate a feeling of confidence, action, sexual desire, or whatever it is you're trying...

What I read in "Tips" is a lot more informative than the minutiae in "Discussion".

I'm one of those guys who freckles instead of tanning evenly, is there anything I can do to get around this?

Wow, I wouldn't have thought people would take the title so seriously ... sorry for deceiving everyone. What I should have said that I'm coming from a background as sedentary as humanly possible, perhaps even more so. Every ounce of muscle that I have and every pound I can lift I owe to my...

Both Nature and Nurture conspire to create AFCs, or men who fail to be masculine in all aspects of life, not just in getting laid. Inferior (i.e. unmasculine) genes definitely contribute to it: small, weak, low test levels, aesthetically deficient, etc. And since genes also have an effect on...

Women aren't the problem; after reading (and thinking) so much, I feel I understand how they work and know what I need to do to handle them. Building a great body isn't the problem: I probably already know everything I would need to know about building muscle and increasing strength. Hell...

It is very difficult to shut down the internal monologues, dialogues, and fantasies; I know because I've tried. On good days, I can shut it all down for a few seconds, and the words and images will stay off for a while (unless I fvck up), but I can't stop the classical music. It's like...

I think I'm starting to see why so few make it in this and other journeys - they never make it far enough to not need to force themselves. The joy they should feel from becoming better men is tainted by the pain, fear, and difficulty of the necessary steps - they begin to lose either their...

Krassus, what is your take on things like pain and difficulty? Is their power to stop a man merely based on his fear of them, which must be overcome by facing it through sheer willpower? Or could it be more complex, since they seem to have more to do with the thing itself than how someone...

What do I do if fighting fear takes strength that I don't have?

Now I understand ... what you're talking about is how guys like me wish they could live, work, and approach in a world where they are alone, because they don't like being (and sometimes just feeling like they are) on the spot, with everyone watching and judging them. Yes, I would love to have...

No, your eyes are not playing tricks on you; that is indeed my current level of fitness and muscular development. In the last month and a half, I've tried probably all the beginner workout routines out there, everything from HST, through all the 3-way 3x8 splits, to the super short hardgainer...

The opinions of strangers matter because a person's opinion [of you] invariably determines how they treat you and act around you. Someone with a low or negative opinion will be either distant and unresponsive or an ill-tempered b!tch/b@stard. Someone with a high or positive opinion can end...

I agree with you about passion; without that, there truly is nothing, just miles and miles of entropy - your body lying there metabolizing, your brain devoid of thought, your heart devoid of feeling, all accomplishing nothing. Everything you see and hear is dutifully filed away into your...

Even taking into consideration the difference between DJs and players, there are still a lot of people that wouldn't like DJs. Few people like themselves enough just to live on the same planet as a successful, happy, fun, outgoing, and smart guy with a great body who has sex every other day.

OK, I checked, and I do indeed have a pair down there. Any other ideas for what would cause what you describe?