Your beliefs form the character that will be responsible for every success and every failure you encounter in seduction. Therefore, the importance of having the right beliefs cannot be understated. I'd have to say that someone who has fully internalized a set of the right beliefs is well on his way to achieving everything he's ever wanted in this field. But someone who has internalized the wrong beliefs couldn't be further from his goals, no matter what else he has going for him.
With that said, beliefs are internalized through repetition. Surely you can think of many ways to remind yourself of the way you should think, but here's one that works for me: write down a couple of quick pointers and leave them somewhere you can see. You could use a piece of paper on your desk, but i prefer digital on-screen post-it notes made with AT Notes (google it up).
Here is my list of affirmations. I started it several days ago while experimenting with writing them down on post-its and it has since grown into a longer list that describes a decent chunk of my mindset. I basically added bits and pieces as they came to mind during the last couple of days. This is what it looks like right now, with side brackets to link the affirmations together and make the entire thing easier to memorize.
- girls either love me or simply don't know me [so]
- if a guy like me can't **** her, no one can [therefore]
- i'll talk like she is already my girlfriend [since]
- she craves my affection and approval [because she knows]
- she'll never meet anyone like me again [since]
- i'm rare and there are thousands just like her [plus]
- i've got a lot more to offer her than she can offer me [but in the end]
- my goal is the experience, not the outcome [and]
- rejection feels much better than regret [not to mention]
- crashing is burning is fun and is the only way to learn
Still an early prototype, but you get the idea. This is designed to override negative thought patterns and replace them with positive ones that suit my goals. We have absolute control over our thoughts and can modify them at will. This is one way of doing that.
Feel free to create your own, add, remove or modify however you please. Many of us have already internalized certain beliefs, but not others. For that reason, everyone's list will have to be different. For instance, if you already believe that you're the x (x = funniest, sexiest, smartest, or whatever your strengths are) guy she'll ever meet, there's no point reminding yourself of that. Save your energy by concentrating on beliefs that still need work instead.
With that said, beliefs are internalized through repetition. Surely you can think of many ways to remind yourself of the way you should think, but here's one that works for me: write down a couple of quick pointers and leave them somewhere you can see. You could use a piece of paper on your desk, but i prefer digital on-screen post-it notes made with AT Notes (google it up).
Here is my list of affirmations. I started it several days ago while experimenting with writing them down on post-its and it has since grown into a longer list that describes a decent chunk of my mindset. I basically added bits and pieces as they came to mind during the last couple of days. This is what it looks like right now, with side brackets to link the affirmations together and make the entire thing easier to memorize.
- girls either love me or simply don't know me [so]
- if a guy like me can't **** her, no one can [therefore]
- i'll talk like she is already my girlfriend [since]
- she craves my affection and approval [because she knows]
- she'll never meet anyone like me again [since]
- i'm rare and there are thousands just like her [plus]
- i've got a lot more to offer her than she can offer me [but in the end]
- my goal is the experience, not the outcome [and]
- rejection feels much better than regret [not to mention]
- crashing is burning is fun and is the only way to learn
Still an early prototype, but you get the idea. This is designed to override negative thought patterns and replace them with positive ones that suit my goals. We have absolute control over our thoughts and can modify them at will. This is one way of doing that.
Feel free to create your own, add, remove or modify however you please. Many of us have already internalized certain beliefs, but not others. For that reason, everyone's list will have to be different. For instance, if you already believe that you're the x (x = funniest, sexiest, smartest, or whatever your strengths are) guy she'll ever meet, there's no point reminding yourself of that. Save your energy by concentrating on beliefs that still need work instead.