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KontrollerX, there is some great Post-BPD knowledge and wisdom in your life. Your posts has helped me the most. I read about one thing you say (or anyone smart here and many ppl here are well respected in my eyes) and it some time I accept the idea intelectually, and after more time the thing...

I am on antidepressants now. Things starting to get better in my mind, even though I only took a few pills by now. I am more time now with friends, my family now understands me why so much problems with me in the past.. And I am chatting now on msn with some other girl, that, unfortunately...

Yesterday I saw beautiful woman that I believe has very good character. Not attention *****/clusterB/whatever beauty, But a girl with a class, great take care of herself and down-to-earth. But since we only walked by it might be just a false assumption and first impression. I believe small...

read this. It might be very helpful. http://sharischreiber.com/anycost.html I'm just wondering where u stand. Am I far behind because I got so messed in this bpd wacko sh*t for 4 years or I am in front of you because I'm slowly realizing what sh*t I am dealing with and that I have to care of...

I am in no position to give advice. Only can share own experience (dealing with BPD). Anyway. After visiting my psychiatrist she told me there must be reason why I was attracted to my ex in the first place. That there must have been something missing about myself so I let myself get involved...

the problem with BPD chick is that they accuse you of something they are actually doing. So if she is in Vegas with friends and drunk and saying that you are cheating her.... it is a good chance she is cheating on you.from what you say she has totally wrapped you around her finger. It is not...

if you would like to enter my messed mind after dealing with BPD chick for 4 years, after 1 week of no contact. I am really messed up. I need help. I am obsessed with her and I believe I could make it work if I get myself out of depression and PTSD or whatever I got. The best way to describe...

Is she taking any BPD pills? Oh, forgot, no pills for BPD ;)

Good post and good response STR8UP. It got me thinking myself about the issue. Today I came across very good, for myself great article about how memory works and managing the moods etc. its actually alot of how our mind actually works. The link could very useful for those who think they are...

Don't get emotional with her. Use her for sex and do the nastiest things in sex u have ever done with girl and do things you wanted to try with girls and you never did. Then dump her like the worst piece of sh*t. Or just dump her and never look back. These girls can make such mess in your...

thank you for support. of course, I got grounded again. I was at her house wanting to clear things up (which obviously won't get cleared up) and she said that I must go home because she will go sleep. She was dressed sexy and I was pretty sure she will go out with the "boyfriend that she left...

She hoovered me back since I am not strong at all. Then more drama, more sh*t. I told her about BPD and we had many strong arguing etc. She even said that will call police because i make her so much emotional damage.. i did some stupid things as well. she called me 15 times after 1 week of no...

Cluster B is group of Personality disorders - serious mental illness. "Borderline Personality Disorder is marked by instability. The patient is a roller-coaster of emotions (this is called emotional lability). She (most Borderlines are women) fails to maintain stable relationships and...

this sounds so clusterB to me (but every woman crap sounds very clusterB to myself lately hehe). yeah she want to f*** with your mind to steal some self esteem from you. no contact is the way to go. keep your emotions safe for yourself and those that deserve them.

thank you very much for your reply, KontrollerX. Beating at their own game would result in suicide of theirselves. Taking revenge at her would mean pushing their worst button, messing and destroying their relationships with their new targets which would make them alone in their loneliness...

I've been with BPD girl for 4 years. 2,5 years we were officially together, last 1.5yr I was like her puppy dog doing everything she wanted and she never doing what I wanted. Just sex few times and I was hooked. This summer we had sex more often, like 10 times or so, then she started behaving...

giving her orgasm of her life would definitely work.

maybe you just don't make good sex with women u sleep with?? if u **** them good they will want you more than just a few times

yes, been there.... and it is ****. Had LTR with her 2.5yrs and she ended it half year ago (I treated her bad in relationship) and im still miserable as **** now .. grrrr

yeah that's great you got expirience. for the next time you have to know that if you are making out and you don't make love to her (sex) she might find you weak. when I was younger I gone pretty far with some girl. I did everything (lick) but didn't penetrate. Anyway that girl dumped me soon...