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Iirc the optimal ratio is 1.09 for a man’s height to a woman’s height in terms of greatest relationship success. 6ft guy is best off with a 5’6 girl as an example,

Ultimately it doesn’t matter. The BPD discussion is to alert guys what is happening when they cannot understand the behaviors so that they can get informed and understand the gravity of the situation. BPD or no, getting away from a toxic relationship is paramount.

Older women can be fun to gain experience but dating an older woman is imo a beta move.

Is this Melrose Place IRL? Sure, it can be fun to **** stir but the headaches aren’t worth it. It’s why men should be above drama. It’s clear that these girls are fighting over you, which is fine when you can be away from the drama. However, the big mistake is getting involved with a roommate.

Atom Ego is not your friend. You chase women who are not interested because your ego tells you that if you try hard enough the girl will fall in love with you, but the reality is that your son of a ***** stubborn ego is what keeps you from realizing that if a woman isn’t interested then she’s...

The real question is why align with a group for groupthink at all. It’s similar to religion. Once you are secure in your own thought the idea of MGTOW or any other group is harmless. Sadly the advent of social media has had severe effects on socialization. That being said it’s one thing to...

There are a lot of ****ty women out there. IDAGF is different than getting rid of outcome dependency. The problem here is that by assuming that your date will suck because women are ****ty is still being outcome dependent because you are assuming a negative outcome. The purpose of not being...

Yeah, that’s not how mental illness works. Sure having money and fame hot chicks etc sounds great for most but when comes to depression your brain pulls the strings.

What you need to hear is that you dodged a massive bullet. Notice how cheating is a central theme. Any time you get nostalgic just tell yourself she would have cheated on you. Her sweetness is a facade. She knows that you appreciate that quality in a woman so she exploits it. I hate to throw...

Women say they want a guy to be funny it means they want a guy who isn’t afraid of saying things to offend her. Everyone’s interpreatation if funny is different. Each person has a varying ability to convey humor toward others. Some people are hilarious and some aren’t. Do not try to amuse or...

It is mostly theory but it does have practical application. The archetypes are the key concept. Understanding how each works is important as is knowing your audience. The message is knowing how to adjust your game to adapt to the type you are trying to seduce. Identify how you interact with...

There are the obvious examples when a woman is telling you but giving you a wild grin or pushing/play fighting. The less obvious situations require understanding of nuance. (Aka reading the tea leaves so to speak). The key consideration is that your effort level needs to drop to near...

College gives you unfettered access to women. The key is listening, smiling, having fun, and do things. Social networking is key. Meet up with lots of different people make friends and just put yourself in places where you have to talk with women.

Memorize this quote: “Desparation is a stinky cologne” Women can smell desparation from a mile away. Desparation along with neediness are the fastest relationship killers. Attraction is based upon unpredictability and mystery. You like this girl a lot but you are not calibrating to her level...

There’s a reason why a lot of attractive women are in sales. They can influence men and other women just by being sexy. Every single hetero guy at one time or another has probably bought something because the woman selling it was eye candy. However, hiring a stripper seems like bad way to go...

This one is fairly simple. When you first meet a girl, do you want to hear about her problems? Nope. For casual dating the goal is to stay away from problems by changing the subject and creating positive experiences. Hell, you can use sec to make her feel better. Just don’t try to have de sexy...

Naturals are not a myth. The problem is that being a natural has different interpretations to different people hence the confusion. As mentioned in this thread being a natural is like leadership you are born with a certain skill range and you can improve but only to top of the range. I’ve...

Who cares. Can’t control their behaviors only yours. Any guy who is chasing after these women is one less chasing after higher quality women.

Frankly, I would not recommend hooking up with a drunk woman in today’s society. Society has becoming overly involved in adjudging actions and it is far too easy to levy blame when someone’s feeling are hurt. Mixing a woman’s response with accountability is a Molotov ****tail. An accusation...

The key comes with understanding that you cannot give up on things that make you attractive to women. So yes keeping up value in all areas is necessary including your game. You can still talk to people so you use that to work on your game.