I think culture is enabling hypergamy. I think part of the issue comes down the fact that divorce almost always unfairly punishes the man so there is no punitive consequence for cheating if you are a woman.
Cheat get 50% keep the kids get child support assert that you are accustomed to a...
The reason it gets better for men is that a man around 40 knows himself he's been around enough and has seen most everything so he's able to cut the BS and doesn't need to pose. He figures either you're in or out. Don't have time for maybe or possibly.
Of course there's always the father angle...
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Who the hell knows why she got upset. To me that's not something I would tolerate in a relationship because I been there done and I decided that I don't want a woman who is going to be so inflexible that on my birthday she can't handle a venue change because you were...
Some really bad advice in this thread. There are attractive women at every school. Now ASU and those directional Florida schools have some lots of amazing tail but are you really going to go to ASU over say UC Santa Barbara because ASU has the highest number of easy sloots per capita? Foolhardy...
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Your story is the classic case two people meeting at the wrong time. It sounds like she was willing to bend over backwards to make it work but you weren't on board. The problem is that you were fighting about it instead of being calm lettering her go and moving on with your life...
Iron Triangle represent! It's not equal, but you can either gripe about it not being equal or you can accept it and raise your middle finger to the societal cliques.
Why would you want to be around a woman who dislikes you simply because you're not white?
You can't control it so it's not...
Ok dude, hugs and cuddles aren't sexy unless you're that little bear in the Snuggle commercials.
"I love you too much to have sex?" = I'm turn off by your behavior and I want you to be my orbiter and plaything because you're too much of pvssy to dominate me like I really want to be...
The future stuff is a trap as well to see how overeager/needy is .. I understand you weren't bringing it up, but if the future comes up either move to a new topic or make absurd jokes like you two growing old watching your red ant farm business flourish.
At this point there's nothing to do...
Fair enough.
I would put it on post pub food interaction. For 19 year old it wouldn't matter but for a woman at 39 eating food with a date can certainly be an intimate activity. I don't think you even needed to get something but if you had sat down with her and bantered and kinoed I think...
Rule #1 never talk about the future and future dates while on a date unless done in a joking manner such as joking about marriage or adopting some weird animal etc. Doing so gives off a vibe of neediness. She already knows that could be interested but that's all she should know otherwise you...
If there was a rule I could implement for every question a guys asks about when to contact I'd simply say approach as enough women to get five more numbers and then you are ready to call her.
You are oozing neediness and she'll sense it within two seconds and that will be that and you'll act...
I think that you may be suffering from your own suppositions and self-limiting beliefs. You made an assumption that the woman would automatically disqualify you simply because of your race. While that could be the case there's no way to know until you approach.
I'm not going to sit here and...
It's true there have been plenty of studies done illustrating that height is highly correlative towards success.
The point isn't to act delusional but rather to try not let biases shape and cloud your reality.
Think about every great athlete, innovator etc. Every single one of them have...
You don't have to be rude or super masculine. Girls just want to be treated like anyone else. The problem happens when you start treating them as if they are made out of porcelain and treat them with kid gloves. They know that's not real behavior and that's why it turns them off.
Women...
Rep to Trump.
We came here because somehow we were deficient in our interactions with women.
For most men, they are fine around people but once an attractive women gets close by it's like they turn into nice guys who think women are butterflies and they need to tip toe around them as to not...
And they say women are crazy.... pffft!
Take this as a valuable lesson learned and you can run to the nearest church and say 20 hail marys as penance for your transgressions. Or bet yet swear on the DJ Bible I will always wear a condom and avoid any relationships with attachments to any crazy...
You got a lesson on one of key rules of women: Judge a woman by her actions not her words. She may have said she was ok with it but she really wasn't. Or maybe there was another guy in the picture or maybe she was in a bad mood.
You can't assume anything, but clearly what she said didn't...
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