A note to the high schoolers on this forum

[skinnyguy]

Don't make the same mistake I did!!

I went to a top-20 university thinking I'd be better off in life. The whole time there, I was studying my azz off just to keep up with the Asian kids and there were practically no cute girls. Now, I have a decent job, but I don't have the player lifestyle. I work, sometimes go to the gym, and come home. This is not attractive to women.

If I had the chance to go back, I would have gone to SDSU or ASU, both of which are flooded with white sorority girls/HB's. I would have taken the easiest classes, worked out like a mad man, joined a frat, and gone to parties. At my college I probably went to 5 or 6 parties the ENTIRE time.

So guys, don't be stupid like me. Go out and have the TIME OF YOUR LIFE in college. Don't listen to what your parents have to say. The truth is, if you're motivated you can be successful anywhere. You don't have to go to Harvard to be successful. I would have probably been at the same place in life that I am right now had I gone to University of Central Florida. Actually, I'd be better off b/c not only would I have a great job, I'd probably have more friends and maybe even more plates.

Going to a party school doesn't guarantee success with women, but it does guarantee you'll be better with people in general. Just don't stay in your dorm room the whole time. Hit the parties, hit the tailgates, drink, and just keep a positive attitude. Gravitate to the popular people (esp. the guys cause they are your ticket to the parties) and make them feel special.

Academics is like 1/5 of what college is supposed to be. College is supposed to be about expanding your social circle and setting you up for a lifetime of amazing sexual experiences.

 

[str8-2-BONEzone]

bro u got it all rite there is NO need 4 alpha warior to do fancy college stuff all u gotta do is work on ur game take her str8 2 GUN SHOW if u no what i meen :box:

some afcs just want $$ they throw at hb8 but i no the secret u can make hb8 and beta looser chumps give u the $$$ thats the life of a alpha warior! u gotta bone bang get 3in1nite

u get no game if ur just hiting the books all the time u gotta show the alpha get the gun show goin

 

[mangotot]

My advice is go to college, get drunk, have lots of sex and stay in bed till noon. Its no point throwing yourself into books and being the teachers pet.

 

[El Payaso]

...then get kicked out of school and become a bum...

 

[Beta_Agonist]

I disagree... partly.

Choose your school only on the basis of its ability to help you move forward in your chosen career. Study your ass off and become great at something. Bang as many chicks as you can, even though it may be less than if that was all you did. Go to parties, drink, and do all the drugs you want on the weekend -- but get what you came for. Women come second.

Treat your career the same way. Put yourself first. Be successful. Live in a huge house, drive nice cars, and buy whatever toys catch your interest that week... but keep improving yourself the entire time. Meet, date and pound every good looking chick you can, but remember -- they still come second.

The alpha man does what he wants, when he wants, and has other things to do besides work on some girl. Live by that, and it'll leak out -- they'll be able to see it, and it will be irresistable.

Dedicate your college years to the girls instead of yourself, and you'll wind up making less than half what you could have, with crippling debt... same effect as marriage, but by a different mechanism.

I guess I should point out -- I had a very similar experience in college to the first post... almost didn't get laid at all (I could have.. but had no game then). However, in exchange for putting my education / career first, I now get to be someone that's got companies constantly after me... it's kind of like being the hot girl at the club dishing out rejections one after another, but my wall comes a lot later than hers! And to this day, I happily tell chicks to fvck off when I've gotta travel or something...

 

[skinnyguy]

I disagree... partly.

Choose your school only on the basis of its ability to help you move forward in your chosen career. Study your ass off and become great at something. Bang as many chicks as you can, even though it may be less than if that was all you did. Go to parties, drink, and do all the drugs you want on the weekend -- but get what you came for. Women come second.

Treat your career the same way. Put yourself first. Be successful. Live in a huge house, drive nice cars, and buy whatever toys catch your interest that week... but keep improving yourself the entire time. Meet, date and pound every good looking chick you can, but remember -- they still come second.

The alpha man does what he wants, when he wants, and has other things to do besides work on some girl. Live by that, and it'll leak out -- they'll be able to see it, and it will be irresistable.

Dedicate your college years to the girls instead of yourself, and you'll wind up making less than half what you could have, with crippling debt... same effect as marriage, but by a different mechanism.

I guess I should point out -- I had a very similar experience in college to the first post... almost didn't get laid at all (I could have.. but had no game then). However, in exchange for putting my education / career first, I now get to be someone that's got companies constantly after me... it's kind of like being the hot girl at the club dishing out rejections one after another, but my wall comes a lot later than hers! And to this day, I happily tell chicks to fvck off when I've gotta travel or something...

You're replying under the assumption that money makes you happy.

I can give you dozens of examples of guys who are successful in their careers but miserable. Mostly because of lack of puss and a boring job. The "work hard play hard" paradigm of corporate america is a huge strain on one's inner peace with themselves because they have nothing to look forward to.

Meanwhile, the guys who partied in college aren't miserable at all. They're smoking weed and crushing puss.

Going to a party school and becoming a Kingpin can make you more successful because you'll be more of a people person; studying doesn't do this. Do you really think that you need an education to be successful in America?

My advice stands. Go to school to PARTY. The social contacts you make there will set you up for a great life.

 

[backbreaker]

you know what pisses me the **** off? Then, skinnyguy will come on the forum, and be the guy spooting off reports about the media telling people that men graduate at a lesser clip then women and how "the media is out to get him" when in reality, it's ****less, spineess asshats like the OP who tell people to throw away an education t go party and chase skanks.


dont' EVER make a financial decision based off a woman, let alone..ON THE POSIBLITY of ****ing women. Mother****er if you have an ivy league education a good job and you are miserable, then you are the ****ing problem you spoiled ****ing brat.


I know people that would kill to have a job, or to be in a position to go to college at all, let alone a top tier one and you are sitting her eon a ****ing internet forum crying like the ****ing ***** that you are. Yes i'm ****ing hot. ; and drunk, but mostly hot, at the gaul of a guy, telling antoher guy to forgo your own future in the pursuit of *****.

There is a time and a place to get laid.

I can give you dozens of examples of guys who are successful in their careers but miserable. Mostly because of lack of puss and a boring job. The "work hard play hard" paradigm of corporate america is a huge strain on one's inner peace with themselves because they have nothing to look forward to.

i can give you even more examples of people who are working 2 **** jobs and are working so much they can't kick it, knowing that they will never be able to save money, have insurance,e have a half decent car, afford to raise a family the right way, no paid vacation, no nothing.

****, my own ****ing dad gets up at 4am every morning, works utnil 3, then goes to work at his janitorial business from 4pm until about 9pm every night, 5-6 nights a week and he will be 54 in 1 month. do you want to be living like this, working 16-18 hours a day when you are 54? But my dad gets laid though, that he does, but at what cost?

My dad has NO savings, no retirement money, he's in debt, he couldn't afford to put me, or my 2 brothers through college.


My own barber, gets laid, probably more than most peoople on this forum, but gets up at 3 in the orning to go open up at mcdonalds, then when he's done with that changes cothes, and goes to work at burger king, and on his off days he cuts hair. 34 years old and has NO money. But yeah, chase ***** and smoke weed. And on top of that, he's on parole, so he can't even do that lol.


You.. you just shut the **** up. I'm so pissed off reading your damn post because you don't' have a ****ing clue about life. You just sit the **** down and go in the AFC I suck at life time out corner and think about your life.


****ing idiot siting here telling people to not study and to not make **** out of themsleves beucse other dudes got laid in college,, ***** sit down.

 

[Hmm]

Since when does not going to school automatically mean being a bum?

Most people would be better off not going to high school/college and instead and working or starting some type of business.

...then get kicked out of school and become a bum...

 

[backbreaker]

Since when does not going to school automatically mean being a bum?

Most people would be better off not going to high school/college and instead and working or starting some type of business.

i make more moneyt han probably anyone on this forum and i never stepped foot in college.



I would still advise most people to go to college.


You young dudes are going to read this thread in 10 years and cry. The game out here is real, it's cut throat. If you are avg at your job today, people are shipping your job overseas to get it done at 1/2 the price. Yeah I didn't go to college, but there are very, very few people that have my work ethic. I didn't get where I am by working 9-5.


Every 22 year old thinks they are the unique mother****er that can figure out a way to get through life without working only to figure out when they are 32, that they wasted 10 years of their lives.


I'm beating my head up against the wall you mother****ers don't ccare about **** like, having kids and 401K's and having a 6 month nest egg, you are about getting skanks to have sex with you and that's it.


It's a ****ing sad state of affairs. You kids / do not understand that these are skills and decisions that are going to affect you for THE REST OF YOUR ****ING LIFE. you don't get a do over in 4 years. You will always be that guy that dropped out of college, or partied your way to a **** degree, when you are 25, when you are 30, 40, 50. That **** effects every aspect of your life, where you live, how much spending money you have, how much you can save, how you can raise your kids, can you take care of your parents when you get older, can you take vacations and where, etc. It affects job security. You know what they call a guy who has a **** degree who is a computer programmer at a boutique web development company making 45k a year? Expendable

 

[foreverAFC]

has skinnyguy even kissed a girl yet? why is he giving advice?

most of the frat guys i knew were disgusting losers who were date raping wh0res that were getting black out drunk at their house, and they are all out of shape with kids and shtty mortgages now.

my advice is if you are going to college, try to play a sport so that you will get to meet and interact with the attractive female athletes that are in awesome shape, and workout with them and whatnot.

 

[El Payaso]

Since when does not going to school automatically mean being a bum?

Most people would be better off not going to high school/college and instead and working or starting some type of business.

But the OP isn't talking about not going to school and starting a business or working. He's talking about taking thousands of dollars in loans and going to school to smoke weed and party. You'll become a bum when you're kicked out and you suddenly have to Dave the harsh thing called reality.

Choosing not to go to school because you want to work or start a business is something entirely different and much more commendable.

 

[Beta_Agonist]

You're replying under the assumption that money makes you happy.

I grew up really poor, and now I'm doing pretty well (making well above the average household income, but living alone). I'm here to tell you that the difference between the two is night and day. Being poor means being shat on by employers, banks, landlords and everyone else -- having money / valuable skills means you're the one that gets to sh1t on them... it's like the difference between being a beta orbiter and the guy she whines to him about.

 

[narcissist]

go to university to ignite your inner intellectual hunger.

Go there to become a smarter HUMAN being.

Dont live your life chasing a "player" lifestyle to fvck chicks, thats just whack.

Live for a bigger cause. Becoming the best you you can possibly be. And part of that is realizing that fvcking chicks is side thing. Not the main focus.

bro you went to school for all the wrong reasons. You went to get a job that pays money. WRONG. You went to get a job to live a player lifestyle. WRONG. You went so you could have money to fvck women. SUPER WRONG.

Should of went to ignite an inner passion to which you never grow tired of. Then you wouldn't be the miserable bitter dude you are today, because you'd be too busy being unabashedly happy and ecstatic to continue your passion and path to excellence. I would rather be happy doing what I love, then rich doing what I hate. Or fvck women by selling my soul to capitalism. (fart noise) fvck that.



NEVER live life for money or women. Its wasted time my friend. Take the advice from alan watts, one of the greatest contemporary minds:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=khOaAHK7efc

^ watch that.

 

[narcissist]

Academics is like 1/5 of what college is supposed to be. College is supposed to be about expanding your social circle and setting you up for a lifetime of amazing sexual experiences.

Just read this part and I have to disagree with you.


If you want to do this don't even go to college or university. Just go out to bars or clubs every night where college students go, or crash the college parties. lol Why pay thousands of dollars to expand your social circle when you can go downtown for free and do it. I got to say that I believe you don't have a clue about what you are talking about, and you are putting WAY to much emphasis on chasing pvssy and partying as the be all and end all goal in life.

Why do I have the feeling that you just got dumped by one of your plates or something and you're just trying to find a justification for it, and your using your less than stellar college experience as just that?

 

[narcissist]

I'm beating my head up against the wall you mother****ers don't ccare about **** like, having kids and 401K's and having a 6 month nest egg, you are about getting skanks to have sex with you and that's it.

It is the saddest thing to think that all these dudes are wasting there apprenticeship years to chasing pvssy.

When the fvck are dudes going to realize. PVSSY ISNT EVERYTHING. Its so sad to see people throw their life away to such a fruitless endeavour.

Like how much pvssy does it take for you all to just go "okay, ive had my fair share, time to move on to bigger better things"

 

[POFNinja]

Don't make the same mistake I did!!

I went to a top-20 university thinking I'd be better off in life. The whole time there, I was studying my azz off just to keep up with the Asian kids and there were practically no cute girls. Now, I have a decent job, but I don't have the player lifestyle. I work, sometimes go to the gym, and come home. This is not attractive to women.

If I had the chance to go back, I would have gone to SDSU or ASU, both of which are flooded with white sorority girls/HB's. I would have taken the easiest classes, worked out like a mad man, joined a frat, and gone to parties. At my college I probably went to 5 or 6 parties the ENTIRE time.

So guys, don't be stupid like me. Go out and have the TIME OF YOUR LIFE in college. Don't listen to what your parents have to say. The truth is, if you're motivated you can be successful anywhere. You don't have to go to Harvard to be successful. I would have probably been at the same place in life that I am right now had I gone to University of Central Florida. Actually, I'd be better off b/c not only would I have a great job, I'd probably have more friends and maybe even more plates.

Going to a party school doesn't guarantee success with women, but it does guarantee you'll be better with people in general. Just don't stay in your dorm room the whole time. Hit the parties, hit the tailgates, drink, and just keep a positive attitude. Gravitate to the popular people (esp. the guys cause they are your ticket to the parties) and make them feel special.

Academics is like 1/5 of what college is supposed to be. College is supposed to be about expanding your social circle and setting you up for a lifetime of amazing sexual experiences.

Planning on quitting your job to live in the clubs too Skinny? I mean you'll at least have a lot more time to build a social circle and have some amazing sexual experiences with all those hot chicks whom will magically be attracted to you.

Use your upper head kids. Don't beat your "skinny" to college porn fantasies like O.P does when he watches them on tube sites.

 

[Mr Wright]

I've just left university. You can go out 3-4 nights a week and still end up with a good degree, if you want a top degree, yeah you will probably have to cut down your drinking and socialising. It really depends on what you want out of life. Just work yourself into the ground partying and studying all week then sleep all day on Sunday, that's what I did.

I saw many guys end up having to drop out because of poor grades, having to retake and being left behind by their friends. For some girls? Nah, definitely not worth it. Whilst I wouldn't say don't give up the girls because most guys want to have the "college experience", which you can have if you work for it. I know I've left with great memories that I will have for life, friends and a good degree. Done. Next step thank you.

 

[The_411]

Some really bad advice in this thread. There are attractive women at every school. Now ASU and those directional Florida schools have some lots of amazing tail but are you really going to go to ASU over say UC Santa Barbara because ASU has the highest number of easy sloots per capita? Foolhardy at best.

Going to school even a highly rated one guarantees a person zilch. Pick schools that will help you further your goals, get you internships, and provide you with connections. That's the best way to get ahead.

I went to a top notch school but I spent way too much time partying and not enough time looking at the future and as a result I put myself in a less than desirable station when I had a silver platter laid out for me had I been able to just pick something and apply myself.

Doesn't mean you can do something at ASU, but if you can get into much better schools that are in an area you want to be or can help you get the internships you want and the contact you need. You'll be a lot happier down the road.

Now if you are picking between schools like ASU and those of similar quality then sure pick ASU.

My biggest regret before college was not apply to enough top schools and settling for an excellent school instead of one of the best.

 

[skinnyguy]

Just read this part and I have to disagree with you.


If you want to do this don't even go to college or university. Just go out to bars or clubs every night where college students go, or crash the college parties. lol Why pay thousands of dollars to expand your social circle when you can go downtown for free and do it. I got to say that I believe you don't have a clue about what you are talking about, and you are putting WAY to much emphasis on chasing pvssy and partying as the be all and end all goal in life.

Why do I have the feeling that you just got dumped by one of your plates or something and you're just trying to find a justification for it, and your using your less than stellar college experience as just that?

Come on man. Did you really think through that post?

College gives you access to women through classes, frats, football games, etc. At a club you're just some random guy. if you're in a frat you're a fvcking pvssy slaver. Status is everything in college. No one cares if you have a 4.0.

The collegiate experience separates men from AFC's. It's a crucial time in a man's life. Most AFC's who had a sh*t time in college will never recover.

 

[El Suave]

Skinny, no offence man. You don't know what you're talking about. I'm just now finishing my BS at a University.(look at my age) I had pvssy all over this country and I plan having more here, and all over the place. Nevertheless, I'm at the University for my education and a better job. And yes, GPA is important! Not to these college slvts, but to me.

That's why I'm here.