When to contact?

[Lostsoul85]

So i was at Barnes and Noble Tuesday and this cute brunette hipster chick came and sat near me on the Bench.

Two mins later i said to her I am not really good with words but i thought you were cute and wanted to say Hi.

She smiled and said thanks.

Small Talk for a little bit.She doesn't say much but i tell her jokingly so who is the lucky guy?.She says i don't have a man...well its complicated and then back off.I Say i find it hard to believe a woman as gorgeous as you is single.
She mentions something about All guys are players.I don't say anything to this.

As she gets ready to leave she says it was nice meeting you but then i stick my phone out and she walks over to enter her digits.She smiles and says see you around.She entered her last name into the phone without me asking

She is 19 and about to start college here in Georgia and probably either lives in the dorms or with her parents.I am 28 and stay with my parents.

I was thinking either
A)Call her up tonight and try to have a conversation if she picks up and try to tell her how i would love to her ***** and talk sexual(This is a risk)
B)Wait till Monday and try to set up a coffee date and go that route.

Couple of Variables.She is either living in dorms or with parents.I stay with my parents.Which one of the options would be best in this situation?

 

[mangotot]

Yeah you don't want to waste time to do the deed.

 

[Lostsoul85]

Yeah I met her Yesterday and she was looking very sexy.Thick thighs thick legs.

the option are to either

A)call her up Tonight(Its 9:30 here in the east coast) and try to transition into sex talk.

or

b)wait till early next week try to set up a coffee meetup and gradually try to escalate from there.

experienced guys let me get some direction.

If she doesn't answer tonight...i run the risk of looking too eager

If she answers..amd i am able to talk fluff and then transition into sex talk(lol i am horny as **** while typing this) it would be like hitting a homing run.Id still have to find a place for tonight assuming everything goes well over the phone.

I dont want to jump the gun and do something that would be needy and stupid.

Before i number close i did ask her if you would like to meetup with Coffee.So option A would be a change of what i said.Is that still ok?

 

[The_411]

If there was a rule I could implement for every question a guys asks about when to contact I'd simply say approach as enough women to get five more numbers and then you are ready to call her.

You are oozing neediness and she'll sense it within two seconds and that will be that and you'll act all confused as to why she flaked/wasn't interested.

Pay attention to what info she gave you ...

She says i don't have a man...well its complicated What does this tell you? It means that there's a guy involved somehow who she still has feelings, but she's looking for either validation attention/someone took make him jealous or a combination of all of the above. It means the most you can get out of the situation is a few lays before she'll try to suck you into her love triangle.

She mentions something about All guys are players Another clue that she probably makes poor decisions and is easily charmed into bed and despite her protestation she'll only respond to player charms, which means being elusive, slick, non-committal etc.

I'd go to her dorm if you can work it because you may see other opportunities arise and you can certainly use jealousy to your advantage and you might need it. Plus I'm guessing she's looking to use an older guy as validation to her friends and the other dude(s) in the picture

 

[Lostsoul85]

I texted her about about an hour ago
Me:Hey xxxx it's Lostsoul from barnes and Noble.How is your week going?

I got her number two days ago and i don't want to play games
She hasn't replied yet

 

[The Duke]

Send her a cahk shot! she'll probably want to take a ride in your '74 Chevy Van and check out the love couch.

 

[Lostsoul85]

Send her a cahk shot! she'll probably want to take a ride in your '74 Chevy Van and check out the love couch.

Seriously?

 

[Krueg]

The one mistake you made was taking her number. Girls give out their numbers for millions of reasons, your just a willing victim to her now. Either ask her out on a date or run away! Next time, you have to ask for the number, that way you know if she actually is interested in you.

 

[Lostsoul85]

Thanks guys