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    Having sex with uncles wife

    Are you perchance residing in the state of Kentucky?
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    How to cope with depression after breakup?

    There's no time table. However, the best way to get speeding that time table is to work on yourself. Get to the gym, get social, improve your career. Clean up your diet, find your triggers and find ways to counteract your sadness. Set up daily challenges weekly challenges short term goals...
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    over 40 fitness

    Damn, you guys are killing me. Need to get back into the gym and back to p90x and p90x2
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    Is the term "Game" a myth?

    Skinnyguy, I have to disagree with you. Game isn't about manipulation as it is control. Women want men who exhibit control and who aren't overwhelmed by a woman's looks. Control is a leadership quality. Being able to game a woman has taken on a negative connotation simply by the phrase...
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    marriage is a dying idea?

    It's a dying "institution". It's a completely unfair contract. In the past women were expected to keep the home and so it was semi equitable to enrich a woman as she wasn't able to pursue a career and be a full time mother. However the side benefit is that this kept the social dynamic of male...
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    Happily Married....But unsure...

    Once you start snooping the relationship is over. You can't put that genie back in the bottle. You no longer trust your partner and even if your intuitions were incorrect, she will now have a distrust of you, and will likely cheat anyway. I hate to be the one to say it, but this point it...
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    Is the term "Game" a myth?

    People often confuse game with having desirable qualities in abundance. Being able to attract girls because you look like a male model doesn't mean you have game. Being to attract girls because you are famous or rich mean you have game. Game is about being to create an illusion of...
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    Looking to burn fat!--

    Charismo, The problem is that weight loss for each individual is different as are how your body metabolizes food. (Yes it's obvious) You do need to track your caloric intake so you can see what you are taking in in terms of fats/proteins/carbohydrates/sugars etc. There are several ways to...
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    New here, need some advice how to proceed

    The key is to interact with women as if she's number 209 of 1000. Doesn't mean to depersonalize her but the moment you start planning the wedding in your head you're toast. It's been said million times here approach from a mentality of abundance and accept that you are a prize. The...
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    "Mental Illness" in today's world

    It's a complex discussion. I have ADD so I take medications to help me with to address a synaptic issue. That's purely a logical solution to the problem. It's not the only aspect. Exercise helps me a great deal as does avoiding certain chemicals like red #5 which affect people with ADD more so...
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    Insecure over a dream?!

    Huge red flag, imo. Flipping out over a dream is part of the unofficial BPD playbook, so it's something I'm quite leery of. It's one thing to explore your dream but expressing extreme emotions from a dream tends to signal something deeper going on ...
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    so, i went no contact.. (new member here!)

    The thing of it is that there are gradiations to mental illness and they are all harmful but some can be more overt where as others can be much more subtle but just as damaging if not more so because they are so insidious. You can't save people. You do need to resolve your issues with trying...
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    Girl I'm seeing wants to participate in orgasmic meditation with a 'friend'

    I'd be out the minute she said she had a guy friend that she wanted to do tantic masterbation with ... to me that means she has no fear of losing you. A **** test is one thing but broaching that topic matter should have alarm bells going off in your head telling you to GTFO or at very least, get...
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    so, i went no contact.. (new member here!)

    I'm with Mauser96 here as this is straight out of the BPD handbook. I hesitate to use BPD because ultimately you really can't tell and it's much easier to just acknowledge wack behavior and get as far away from it. You should seek therapy so you can come to terms why you seek out...
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    "Mental Illness" in today's world

    Own your ****, man. You're black. Accept it and deal with it. Complaining about it isn't going to change anything. Why waste your time on something you cannot control. You can't control how people feel or how they respond to the fact that you are black. It's almost like you want us to say to...
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    Persist or pull out?

    Too much effort here. She's telling you she's not right in the head and she's playing games. Drop your emotional attachment and walk away. Sometimes that's all you get from a girl and often it's less. Accept it and move to someone who won't create so much drama.
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    Girl Says No To Condom

    It may even be that women want the risk because it adds to taboo nature of the act. Russian roulette if you will.
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    "Mental Illness" in today's world

    Unfortunately, some doctors and psychiatrists flat out stink. Finding a good therapist, is like looking for a top notch girlfriend. You may find a therapist band they seem to be suited for you, but as you see them you begin to see things you do not like.
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    so, i went no contact.. (new member here!)

    Anytime a woman tells you that you are too good for her it should tell you two things. 1) You are too good for her. Any woman who tells a guy this is basically telling you a) she's broken b) she only attracted to bad boys who treat her poorly c) not relationship material. After all would a...
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