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Good for you! Stick with that mentality and I'm sure you'll find success. I've been down and moping around, too, so maybe I should try this as well and see where it takes me. :)

I can relate to you, FreeMan1971, on many levels, (similar background, similar relationship problems, etc.). I recently met a man who was emotionally healthy and am realizing I must not be completely over my past, (as he is hesitant to enter into a relationship with me). :trouble: JK LoL...

I think you should compliment her when she does something worth complimenting. Compliments regarding appearences are nice, but don't forget to compliment other things, too. For instance, like handling an awkward or difficult situation with tactility, etc. You are right in that too many...

If she wants to get more serious and you're not ready then I think you're making the right move by breaking up with her. I just hope you do so in a gentle manner, even though you and she are clearly frustrated with each other. Do you ever watch Caesar Milan? (The Dog Whisperer)? So many...

Well, do you want someone who plays games? I think if a woman is interested in meeting people she will make herself approachable. If she's going to make you jump through hoops just to talk to her and get her number, imagine how much of a PITA getting anything else will be? I know some guys...

Well, I have a few questions for you, because what kind of girl you're looking for depends heavily on where you might find her. For instance if you want a girl that takes care of herself, going to parks, jogging trails, gyms, etc. would be good places to look. If you want an animal...

Yeah, don't come off desperate, hun. I'm sure the guys here will give you better advice, but maybe do the small talk... intrigue them, then go for a, "Hey what do you say we grab lunch?" type of line. Girls who just meet a guy and (he) doesn't want to do the small talk before asking them out...

Oops. :whistle: I think a lot of women would find it endearing. :) Besides, who cares what they think??

KRUT - The few guys I have dated have all waited for me to be ready, and I was ready and comfortable within a relationship situation before anything happened. So worrying about a relationship after the fact is something new to me. DJDamage - We didn't have sex because I wasn't ready. He...

Wolf - Thanks for your thoughts. :) He has seen me topless, LOL I believe he liked what he saw. My issues: I don't know if he is waiting for ME to be ready for a relationship, or if HE is the one who's waiting to be ready. We aren't boyfriend/girlfriend yet. I am confused because for...

Seriously, GROW UP! A lot of people feel frustrated with their lives and have anxieties, but instead of taking all of that out on your wife, why don't you sit down and talk to her about how you feel? In most cases I see this as an opportunity to feel closer to my SO, and possibly get more...

Try rejecting her advances and see what happens. It's nice that she's comfortable with you, and good for you because you're getting laid. But try wrapping her mind around this: Next time she wants to hook up, politely decline and say, "No, we're just friends, remember?" If you want more from...

I totally agree with you guys! It doesn't work! When women are upset they are seeking understanding and support, not solutions. Most women are big girls and can handle their own problems. They just want you to be able to listen and relate to what they are saying. =)

Could not have said it better. I am a big believer in the self-fulfilling prophecy. The past rejections that have left you vulnerable, anxious, even upset could manifest themselves in many ways, such as coming off as desperate and/or creepy. Of course, you're not consciously aware of these...

Seriously, get over it. 69 is over-rated anyways. It probably turns her off that you're preoccupied with it. Like it's some sort of sick fetish or something. Concentrate on finding out what she likes and what's enjoyable before she loses interest.

Wolf, thanks for your response. I am back to pink now ;) If guys turned into puddles when a girl they liked walked by, interpreting their every word wouldn't be necessary. ;) I was thrown off by all the "some day" BS too, and for the record, I want it just as bad, if not worse then he does...

How important are the 6's to women... in what way? Sexual attraction? I can honestly say NONE of those things affects who I am or am not attracted to. It's all about a man being comfortable in his own skin and not worrying about crap like this. =D I've actually never even heard of the 6's...

Well said, KontrollerX. I wasn't going to touch this topic, being a very loyal and trustworthy woman. I have seen many women play suitable, if not desirable guys... for their own lack of esteem, I presume. Trust your gut and keep your eyes peeled for signs that she may or may not be worth...

I agree with the bedhead look. It's so hot, and I can imagine it on you:) You look good:) Stubble is always something that rocks my world, but not so sure about other women. Earings may be pushing it, but let's see updated pix with the suggestions and go from there. P.S. Why do you want to...

Okay so I professed my feelings through an e-mail and got this in return. Opinions, guys? Was I gently turned down?? "Hey well im really glad you sent me the e-mail:) Because i was feeling the same way. But i would have never told you for i fear it would have changed our relationship we have...