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SOZZZ - Yes, I am a girl, although some here don't believe me apparently. =) I am also really shy, downright DORKY in front of guys, but if a guy I like asks for my number or wants to get together I'm not going to NOT give or get something from him! If she is shy to the point where she...

WC2 - Excellent advice. LostAndConfused - She may not answer you truthfully (if she fears judgment), or there is considerable distance (emotionally) between you, but it shows concern that you ask about how she's feeling. I hope she snaps out of it soon. If she does ever decide to tell you...

Warrior74 - Thanks for the correction. I actually like that better. I forget not all women live by the "Golden Rule". I also think your suggestion to create space within the relationship is a good way to gauge how seriously this girl takes her man.

Wow, your negative views on women couldn't possibly be the reason you aren't getting any fish to bite?? Try having a positive mindset and be patient! You want to attract women, not repel them!!

Well, I wouldn't rule anything out just yet. Her mind might have been elsewhere when you put her on the spot and maybe she didn't think before she answered. I've done this a few times, and later thought about it and had the whole "DOH!!" moment, simply because I wasn't expecting to be asked...

Unfortunately, yes. If she really liked you and wanted something more with you, even just a friendship, she might have just asked for your number at the least. Sorry! ETA: I also use my mom's cell for the time being, but if I were interested I would have given out the number, or at least...

live_n_learn - I actually do not think what you did was any worse than what she's doing, and as a woman, I feel that if I were in her situation I would indeed be looking for some other kind of attention. It seems as though whatever subconscious vibe you were getting from her was what prompted...

MagicKarl - LOL I've been stingy for over two months, but we both definitely know the chemistry is there. We've been extremely close to having sex, and been very hands-on, but I am waiting until, yes, I get some sort of exclusive dating arrangement. I'm not asking for marriage here, so what's...

DJDamage - I wouldn't say I necessarily joined for attention, but yes, for the in-your-face advice, which I expect and welcome. =) I can handle it. 1.) I had not intended to use my past abusive relationship as a "crutch" to garner more support. Please. I only wanted to provide a little...

Okay, so you're probably thinking I'm strange for joining a predominantly male forum for dating advice, but Cosmo just doesn't cut it. I'm 29 years old, been single for 7 months, (after sending an abusive ex to jail), and recently met someone I am totally head over heels in love with. I...