Should I confront my girlfriend?

[LostAndConfused]

My girlfriend has been showing pretty low interest these past couple of days. should I tell her I'm aware of it?

 

[Alle_Gory]

Let me save you the trouble.

You: "Hey you're got low interest in me"

Her:

 

[Captain]

My girlfriend has been showing pretty low interest these past couple of days. should I tell her I'm aware of it?

Don't tell her. You should know how to act to attract girls from reading this site, do that, don't get complacent. If you can't get her more attracted to you in the next day or two, leave her.

 

[LostAndConfused]

We've been dating for some time I can't just "leave her."

We're past "attraction" too.

 

[Raikojo17]

find out what's wrong then

something bothering her????

 

[LostAndConfused]

find out what's wrong then

something bothering her????

Yes she's had a couple of things that legitimately would bother her (in perspective its not that big a deal) but even after she says she's over with it she acts different....

she called me three times just now trying to tell me that she didn't want me to worry about her, so she didnt tell me whats wrong initially.

 

[WC2]

find out what's wrong then

something bothering her????

I hate to be a downer, but there's really no sense in finding out what's 'wrong'.

Sadly, these are things a man puts himself at risk for when he enters a monogamous relationship.

There's also really no sense in asking her. She won't tell you what's really up.
The most you'll get out of her is "I've just been feeling different lately."

Give it another day or two.

If it continues, start opening up your options and prepare for departure.
Start distancing yourself.
If at this point she's still not upping her interest in you, it's time to leave.
Don't be rash about it. Don't fight about it. Be polite and simple.

 

[LostAndConfused]

I hate to be a downer, but there's really no sense in finding out what's 'wrong'.

Sadly, these are things a man puts himself at risk for when he enters a monogamous relationship.

There's also really no sense in asking her. She won't tell you what's really up.
The most you'll get out of her is "I've just been feeling different lately."

Give it another day or two.

If it continues, start opening up your options and prepare for departure.
Start distancing yourself.
If at this point she's still not upping her interest in you, it's time to leave.
Don't be rash about it. Don't fight about it. Be polite and simple.

Thanks bro, very sound advice.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

WC2 - Excellent advice.

LostAndConfused - She may not answer you truthfully (if she fears judgment), or there is considerable distance (emotionally) between you, but it shows concern that you ask about how she's feeling. I hope she snaps out of it soon. If she does ever decide to tell you something's wrong/bothering her, JUST LISTEN and ask appropriate questions at appropriate times. This makes women want to be closer to their SO's. =)