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I am completely amused... and I totally empathize with you guys. It really isn't fair, but I think even less women look for men online, than men who look for women. I think the moral of the story is; if you want to meet people, leave the house! It's been quite successful for thousands of years.

Actually... the less I talk to him, the less interest I have in talking to him. (Igetit - this is what I was talking about regarding what works... I wouldn't think he's doing a very good job if I lose interest and stop talking to him...) At first it made me wonder... "Why didn't he call?" but...

WOW. I am SO glad you posted that thread! Okay, even *I* can see what was going on with this chic... 3 F****** years???? She never really seemed to accept responsibility for her own happiness and her own abilities to change her so-called 'emotionally abusive' situation! Of course, she *said*...

Igetit - I'm not sure what is "working" because I'm just kind of fed up and disinterested anymore... so I'm not sure how that's a good thing. I also haven't been doing a lot of 'complaining' I said I confronted him once or twice about not calling/texting when he said he would, but other than...

Yup, business as usual. It's not like we had specific plans... just plans to make plans to get together tomorrow. I "put up" with it because he's not my boyfriend and I'm in no position to judge anyone. I just let him be. I have confronted him a few times about his 'disappearing' act but...

Well, I don't know about elsewhere, but you can get free testing here in NM for just about anything (STD - wise) at low-income clinics. I had to take that walk of shame when my ex cheated on me. Thank God I didn't have anything. Just tell them you'd like to be tested for STDs. They'll know...

IGetiT - Does this help? No I'm never going to stop typing in pink! I can read it just fine, maybe it's your monitor?? Don't be quite so presumptive... I don't like lollipops. LOL :D I don't think something 'more important' came up... he just has a history of flaking out on occasion...

So, any advice on where I should go from here? I think I have no choice other than to just keep on keeping on. Ya know?

He totally flaked on me. No explanation, but whatever, I don't care. I've even come to expect this from him. I never got the chance to wear that short skirt. His loss. None of the guys here have tried their internet game... they know I'm on to them... jk There are a lot of people who...

Well, considering you won't likely see her again, (or will you?) I wouldn't worry about it. I would assume that she got pretty bored, (or distracted) and lost interest in you. Maybe she was just drunk. Starting off with an insult, even jokingly, probably isn't the best method of getting a...

Sounds like a great job! I hope to read an update soon!

My ex was the cause of his own incarceration, not that it's really relevant to go into detail... but it isn't as if he's spent 8 months in jail being an innocent man. I can't speak for ALL women, but yes, there are those of us out there who have been with enough a**holes to actually...

TLP - I love your tirades. I actually agree with you, now that I have a better sense of what you're talking about. Relationships are complicated, as we all know, and things aren't going to be 100% all of the time, it's just not possible. I do get the feeling that some guys post just their...

The fellas are correct... sometimes being nice DOES equal low self-esteem and chics definitely dig a man with confidence (not ego). Don't feel guilty for a damn thing... it took the actions, flirtations and interests of TWO people to lead up to you asking her out. If she didn't like you she...

So, here's the update. I stopped texting him and DIDN'T cave. Almost a week to the day he called me, all wondering what I've been up to and tellin' me about how he's doing and all. (He was all telling me that he has no privacy there... LOL I think he was throwing out some hints that he's in...

I originally came here FOR advice, but have found myself giving it out, too. Ooops. Disregard all pink posts!! :D

Wow. Astrolocially speaking, (if you're into that kind of thing) a Scorpio man and Pisces woman is the ultimate match, unrivaled by any other two signs. (I'm a Pisces and can't seem to stop attracting Scorpios, I swear!!) LOL That being said, it seems like she definitely wants you, so go for it!

Having committed relationships prepare you for marriage, even if not to that person, you learn, you grow. Who would want to get married without having some first hand experience in a relationship?? I think it would take a real moron to get married without ever having a relationship. Anyhow...

Wow, she is totally using you to fill in the gaps (LOL) in time between bangin other dudes apparently. Don't be so available to her, start seeing other chics, and be "busy" when she calls or comes over. You deserve better, and she's made it clear what she wants, (which apparently isn't the...

Penkitten... good to know I'm not the only woman here! I frequent this site because I want to get a better understanding of the male perspective... Women's sites offer advice that usually isn't as applicable, I've found. :) They tend to focus on communicating with men as WOMEN, but I figure...