Got my ass in a LTR.

playerone

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Alright this may be a little lengthy due to the amazing turn of events that happened to me today.

Well, 2 friends of mine are a couple, and they told me their friend wanted to go swimming, so they asked me along. Let's call their friend, Stacy.

We met up at the swimming complex. Stacy saw my friends and talked to them. She didn't give me any good eye contact or try to talk to me. Well, i opened her up by splashing water at her while her body was still dry. We went into the pool, and my 2 friends started to cuddle. I talked to Stacy, also teasing the couple whenever they are doing something funny.

Then, i used light kino to guide her to less crowded waters. She kino'ed me back, wrapped her legs around me, and we ended up being intimate. We continued for a few more minutes, before I let go and went back to tease the couple.

Later, she was stuck on me like glue again. I kissed her cheek gently. I went for her lips but she refrained, so i kept doing my thing. She ended up kissing me on the cheek 3 times before it was time to leave the pool.

While we were walking out of the complex, i put my arm around her shoulder, and i kissed her lips. We followed on to make out at a park. We were kissing and my hands went for her tits, but she refrained like twice. But in the end, I got through and later i found out she was a little wet.

Afterwards, we went back home. I did not send her home, but we talked on the phone later in the night. She was asking me if i smoke or drink, had any girlfriends, etc. She told me she likes me a lot, and i said, "I know." I teased her a lot, and she was like totally attracted to me. While we were making out earlier, she asked if i was a virgin. I said maybe, and asked her. She said she is, and i told her the same. Anyway, i asked if her place is available in the day, and she said not really. Her father is against the idea of her having a boyfriend, while her mom is totally cool with it and even reminds her to use protection. :p

She said if i went to her house, it would lead to us doing something wrong (having sex). Well i said okay, then somewhere later in the conversation, i was being ****y & funny, and said, "You're my b*tch. You can do anything you want to me, except sex." She went like "Huh? Why can't we have sex?" I just said no, and how some girls are constantly trying to get me into my pants, etc, and she laughed.

I kept the conversation sexual, and she was saying she has some parts of her body which are especially sensitive. I asked her and she wouldn't tell me. I said i would figure it out on her next time, and she said okay. :up:

All this happened in less than a day.
 

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so let me get this straight...u just met this girl and u two started kissing each other and stuff. DANG!

any pointers on how I can escalate that fast lol
 

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coolness89: Yes i just met her, she's not exactly a stunning chick, just a 5 or a 6, but with big firm tits. A pointer for you from the Tao of Steve.

"Both men and women want to have sex, it's natural, except that we're on different timetables. Women want to have sex like 15 minutes after us. So, alright, if you hold out for 20, she'll be chasing you for 5."




Kal0051: I told her she's my b*tch, and girl.
 

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It's not an LTR she's just your girlfriend.

LTR is a long time relationship. Sounds like you just met the b1tch.
 
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no, you don't need to disqualify yourself from banging other girls by SUICIDE JUMPING into some random "serious committed relationship". What in the world is wrong with you?? Play around with her and have fun, you have NO business attempting to force a LTR at the age of 18. You can lie to her and tell her you are her boyfriend if that's what she wants to hear, but you absolutely NEED to have multiple women right now, you are at the perfect age to start growing into a player

I've already gone over why a young man like yourself has no benefits in randomly committing to a girl that you are 100% NOT GOING TO MARRY - why commit to the b1tch?
 

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The Logical Player said:
no, you don't need to disqualify yourself from banging other girls by SUICIDE JUMPING into some random "serious committed relationship". What in the world is wrong with you?? Play around with her and have fun, you have NO business attempting to force a LTR at the age of 18. You can lie to her and tell her you are her boyfriend if that's what she wants to hear, but you absolutely NEED to have multiple women right now, you are at the perfect age to start growing into a player

I've already gone over why a young man like yourself has no benefits in randomly committing to a girl that you are 100% NOT GOING TO MARRY - why commit to the b1tch?
hate to burst your bubble but not everyone wants to become a player. Some guys just want to become better with women and have fun doing it. If this guy wants to commit to this girl then let him, though he shouldn't decide to commit to a girl he hardly knows.
 
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ItsTheAttitude said:
Lol. Things don't work over here that way.

Anyway, i want to commit to her, it's my decision.

I'm not a player, just being a man.

where is the law written that a man needs to chump himself out to just ONE girl, who he is not even going to marry? Or are you going to commit because "its the right thing to do" according to how society has brainwashed you?

tell me the benefit of doing that.

You, just like EVERY EVERY read very carefully..........EVERY 18 YEAR OLD GUY WHO HAS RANDOMLY COMMITTED HIMSELF TO SOME GIRL HAS ENDED UP GETTING HURT. Prove me wrong, find me some 18 year old guy who decided to hand away his balls who is now lets say 30 years old, and is with the same girl and is happy.

Argue with me using logic, and not your chump tactics of how its the right thing to do. Why commit to something that is guaranteed to not last, if you can still get everything you want without commitment (if you have game that is).

And where are you from? I cannot teach men game if they are religious nuts or come from a ridiculously different culture.

P.S. - you are a MORON for actually wanting to commit to some random ho at the age of 18, you want to learn the hard way that you shouldn't take young girls seriously??
 

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The Logical Player said:
Prove me wrong, find me some 18 year old guy who decided to hand away his balls who is now lets say 30 years old, and is with the same girl and is happy.
My uncle Ray got married at 16 is now 40 and wouldn't have it any other way. He lives life to the fullest, and is anything but a chump. His balls are still very much his, and are very much in tact. In fact, my aunt will be the first to tell you that she is totally ****-whipped. The man gets what he wants when he wants it and by all accounts it has been that way for the last 24 years.

If Ray wants to go out and drink, Ray goes out and drinks.
If Ray wants to jet-set to Vegas for the weekend, Ray dips out to Vegas

PROVEN WRONG


Why commit to something that is guaranteed to not last, if you can still get everything you want without commitment (if you have game that is).
Anybody can go clubbing and trick a skank into hopping in bed with him. What takes TRUE GAME is to get the woman so addicted to you that she will wait hand and foot on you for the rest of her life.

While I acknowledge the importance of playing the field, and not settling for the first piece of action that comes your way, I refuse to support a claim that there is no use in an LTR. Just like any date, it's all a learning experience. Is the OP going to settle down and have kids with this girl? Probably not. But being in an LTR with her will help teach him about relationships in general -- how they work, how to keep a woman's interest balanced, what he truly wants and doesn't want in a woman, and many other things.

Logical Player, you are forgetting the FIRST rule of being a DJ -- DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. ItsTheAttitude wants to see if he can make a relationship work. Attempts and failures are paramount to development. Who are you to discourage this established process? Especially with a name like "logical player"

The "logical" advice to give the man would be to get all that he can from the experience. Observe how the girl acts and reacts to different things. Learn from it.

If you want to swing for the rest of your life, more power to you. Don't **** on someone elses desires though. Whats more than that is that you shouldn't try to push your beliefs on other people either. There was a guy who did that before. His name was Hitler. Nazi.
 
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magickarl said:
My uncle Ray got married at 16 is now 40 and wouldn't have it any other way. He lives life to the fullest, and is anything but a chump. His balls are still very much his, and are very much in tact. In fact, my aunt will be the first to tell you that she is totally ****-whipped. The man gets what he wants when he wants it and by all accounts it has been that way for the last 24 years.

If Ray wants to go out and drink, Ray goes out and drinks.
If Ray wants to jet-set to Vegas for the weekend, Ray dips out to Vegas

PROVEN WRONG

good im glad you did that

you found the exception to the rule, and him getting married in the early 80's is MUCH different than dating some 16 year old little hor in 2009 - I think you would be smart enough to know that times have changed

feel free to take the risk of being a p*ssy by using a 1/10000 exception to prove your chumpish point, as opposed to using the obvious logical rule
 

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ItsTheAttitude, good for you man! All that in a day, you must know what you're doing. As for now though, you are not committed and in a LTR. Enjoy it! Still have fun with this girl if she's worth it. Do not say anything about moving forward into a relationship. All you should do is worry about advancing things sexually (which you seem to be doing very well). Go for other girls if you want, but I usually feel guilty doing stuff with two girls at once. Its all what makes you feel good about yourself.

In time stacy will want to be exclusive and in a LTR if things go well. Think this out ahead of time of what you will want. If you wanna spend the next few months with her then go ahead and say yes. There's nothing wrong with being committed to someone (you'll still be a man), and you can always get out of it. Well except for marriage...

If you wanna keep this girl, try to always have one foot out the door...keep questioning whether you want to date her. After a few months, really evaluate whether you see yourself spending the rest of your life with her or not. If not, break up with her...you're wasting your time, might as well have fun being single instead.
 

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She's already telling me how much she loves me, how much she'll miss me, how she wants to have a long term relationship with me, how she likes me to kiss her, the way i look at her, all in a day's work.

She told our mutual friends that she doesn't do this to every guy. At first i thought she did, so i played along. Then she was asking them if i was a player or something, LOL. Well of course my buddies said they don't know. :p

Umm. Right now i just wanna hang out with Stacy more, and just have fun.

I know i'm having fun. Although i say i'm "committed", it's not so much of emotionally. More like a, "I want her, but i don't need her".

So i'll just hang around and see how things work out. It's just a girlfriend anyway, not someone i'm marrying next week.

Thanks to those in favour of my decision, though. Glad to see some support.
 

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Having committed relationships prepare you for marriage, even if not to that person, you learn, you grow. Who would want to get married without having some first hand experience in a relationship?? I think it would take a real moron to get married without ever having a relationship.

Anyhow, back to the subject at hand. ItsTheAttitude, I am glad you and this girl like each other. Having a committed relationship can be both rewarding and sometimes painful, but the lessons you learn are priceless. I wish you both lots of luck and fun! :)
 

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ItsTheAttitude said:
Anyway, i want to commit to her, it's my decision.

I'm not a player, just being a man.
No you are acting like a lovestruck boy not a man by thinking like that.

You barley know this girl and you are already thinking commitment to her!?, at your age (18) commitment is a waste of time. You shouldn't be thinking about commitment right now, you should be experiencing personal growth and having fun out there and nothing hinders a man's development more then being in a committed relationship from a very young age.

Good luck to you and hopefully you are going to lose your virginity to this broad, but be careful of oneitis.
 

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If you make this decision after at least a few months dating her, then maybe it could be a sound one, but you only just met, held hands and kissed this chick. WAAAAAY too early to commit, kiddo.
 

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The Logical Player said:
good im glad you did that

you found the exception to the rule, and him getting married in the early 80's is MUCH different than dating some 16 year old little hor in 2009 - I think you would be smart enough to know that times have changed

feel free to take the risk of being a p*ssy by using a 1/10000 exception to prove your chumpish point, as opposed to using the obvious logical rule
If you were going to be such a little ***** about it, then why did you ask to hear about that exception?

On the real, there was nothing "chumpish" about my point. You ASKED to hear an exception, and went as far as to say that there were NO EXCEPTIONS. You were practically begging for it. And then you go and whine about it? That, my friend, is past being a chump. You are a *****. As much as I hate internet arguments, I would be willing to bet that YOU are the biggest chump posting on the forum. Something has got you bitter. I don't know if you got your heart broken at a junior high dance or what, but for all the ****ty advice you give, I wouldn't be surprised if you were still in junior high.

Seriously. Not two weeks ago you were encouraging people to go out and bang underage girls. It's all starting to add up now. You mack on little girls. It's cool though -- Someday when you are 40 trying to get some 15 year old poon and get caught up then maybe big bubba will mack on your butthole.

How does it make you feel to know that a forum full of primarily virgins does not take you seriously? I could be going overboard here but I really don't care because I'm fed up with hearing the **** that comes off your keyboard. YOU ARE ENTIRELY WORTHLESS. IN THE ENTIRE TIME THAT YOU HAVE BEEN ON THESE FORUMS YOU HAVE NOT GIVEN A SINGLE PIECE OF USEFUL ADVICE. IF YOU HUNG YOURSELF TOMORROW, NOT A SOUL WOULD MISS YOU.

Seriously, I feel sorry for you. I don't know what happened to you, or what female mistreated you, or how pathetic of a person you are or whatever your problem is, but it truly does show. All you do is *****, whine, and give stupid ass advice that nobody takes seriously.

I don't even buy that you are 25 years old. You talk like you are a ****ing 14 year old. And if you are 25, then you are the biggest loser on the planet. What kind of stupid ass name is "the logical player" anyway? If you ever introduced yourself to a female as the logical player, you would be promptly called a douchebag and laughed at. There is not an iota of logic behind any of your posts. When proven wrong, you resort to petty name calling. Even if you are 14, 3rd grade ended a LONG time ago.

FOR FUTURE REFERENCE: DISREGARD EVERYTHING THE LOGICAL PLAYER SAYS FROM HERE ON OUT. I KNOW A DOUCHEBAG WHEN I SEE ONE, AND I AM CALLING THIS ONE. A SHINY NICKEL SAYS THAT THIS GUY IS PROBABLY STILL A VIRGIN. SORRY IF I WENT ON A RANT, BUT I CANT KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT ON THIS ONE ANY LONGER. START MARKING THIS GUYS POSTS AS BAD POSTS. DO SOMETHING. GET THIS WORTHLESS PIECE OF **** OF OF SS. I REPEAT: THE LOGICAL PLAYER IS A ****ING LOSER.

Peace.


P.S. I like how you ignored the entire second half of my original post. The part where I broke it down and explained why you are wrong. ****ing idiot. Choke on a **** and die. Faggot.
 

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magickarl said:
If you were going to be such a little ***** about it, then why did you ask to hear about that exception?

On the real, there was nothing "chumpish" about my point. You ASKED to hear an exception, and went as far as to say that there were NO EXCEPTIONS. You were practically begging for it. And then you go and whine about it? That, my friend, is past being a chump. You are a *****. As much as I hate internet arguments, I would be willing to bet that YOU are the biggest chump posting on the forum. Something has got you bitter. I don't know if you got your heart broken at a junior high dance or what, but for all the ****ty advice you give, I wouldn't be surprised if you were still in junior high.

Seriously. Not two weeks ago you were encouraging people to go out and bang underage girls. It's all starting to add up now. You mack on little girls. It's cool though -- Someday when you are 40 trying to get some 15 year old poon and get caught up then maybe big bubba will mack on your butthole.

How does it make you feel to know that a forum full of primarily virgins does not take you seriously? I could be going overboard here but I really don't care because I'm fed up with hearing the **** that comes off your keyboard. YOU ARE ENTIRELY WORTHLESS. IN THE ENTIRE TIME THAT YOU HAVE BEEN ON THESE FORUMS YOU HAVE NOT GIVEN A SINGLE PIECE OF USEFUL ADVICE. IF YOU HUNG YOURSELF TOMORROW, NOT A SOUL WOULD MISS YOU.

Seriously, I feel sorry for you. I don't know what happened to you, or what female mistreated you, or how pathetic of a person you are or whatever your problem is, but it truly does show. All you do is *****, whine, and give stupid ass advice that nobody takes seriously.

I don't even buy that you are 25 years old. You talk like you are a ****ing 14 year old. And if you are 25, then you are the biggest loser on the planet. What kind of stupid ass name is "the logical player" anyway? If you ever introduced yourself to a female as the logical player, you would be promptly called a douchebag and laughed at. There is not an iota of logic behind any of your posts. When proven wrong, you resort to petty name calling. Even if you are 14, 3rd grade ended a LONG time ago.

FOR FUTURE REFERENCE: DISREGARD EVERYTHING THE LOGICAL PLAYER SAYS FROM HERE ON OUT. I KNOW A DOUCHEBAG WHEN I SEE ONE, AND I AM CALLING THIS ONE. A SHINY NICKEL SAYS THAT THIS GUY IS PROBABLY STILL A VIRGIN. SORRY IF I WENT ON A RANT, BUT I CANT KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT ON THIS ONE ANY LONGER. START MARKING THIS GUYS POSTS AS BAD POSTS. DO SOMETHING. GET THIS WORTHLESS PIECE OF **** OF OF SS. I REPEAT: THE LOGICAL PLAYER IS A ****ING LOSER.

Peace.


P.S. I like how you ignored the entire second half of my original post. The part where I broke it down and explained why you are wrong. ****ing idiot. Choke on a **** and die. Faggot.
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