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    on plus side my facebook date on Sat went well but now low IL?

    in fairness i just go for whoever bites, like i dont have a ton of options so i can't really be that picky until i start getting some plates, i dont discriminate on age so i'll easily date someon 10 years younger or 10 years older as long as i find them physically attractive enough to have sex...
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    Do you have to accept that some women are just realistically out of your league?

    tbh, you can't really generalize about white british women, you have to segment it into upper/middle/lower class, and also from london or outside of london i.e. northerners.. in london you see lots of white women with black guys BUT they're not really from affluent backgrounds, normally middle...
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    I like this. but does it not come across as a bit pushy? I can see how it would work, you pre call them out on flaking to prevent them from flaking.. the bit of 'if so, i'd rather you just not waste my time' sounds a bit bitter and tells them you get emotionally affected by their flaking, not...
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    on plus side my facebook date on Sat went well but now low IL?

    ironically i did sit with her waiting for her food to be made, i think she wanted me to sit and eat with her she asked me again 'you sure you dont want anything?' i said 'no, im full, i ate earlier with my sis' wasn't too convincing with my reply.. then the food was made we got up and went to...
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    on plus side my facebook date on Sat went well but now low IL?

    i agree, the thing is, she's local (huge selling point) so i can go over for a lot of sex during the week and just take her out on weekends if need be. her daughter is leaving for college in a few weeks so she'll be lonley with her dog and needs company. admittedly she's not hot like her...
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    Do you have to accept that some women are just realistically out of your league?

    but isn't that just really for who they get married to or settle down with? it's logical when they get a little bit older they go for the guy who has money can provide etc.. it's the whole lover/provider bracket.. they prob want tom brady to f their brains out but to settle down they'll go...
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    Do you have to accept that some women are just realistically out of your league?

    i think he has a point though, i mean the one thing i can say definitively is that if you're white caucasian from a western country you have NO idea what it is like for someone who's an ethnic minority trying to game women of any colour or white. Those who are caucasian and preach 'oh race does...
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    on plus side my facebook date on Sat went well but now low IL?

    i should have been more clear, every time i offered she was busy and every time she offered i was busy. she counter offered 2-3 times it just happened to be that week and a bit she had plans and i had plans so we eventually settled on the Sat. she was into me the date reciprocating my...
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    Do you have to accept that some women are just realistically out of your league?

    I don't think it's un-doable, even for a middle eastern guy, in europe and london in fact you'd do very well but at the same time may attract a lot of hot gold diggers as they assume all middle eastern guys have paper. with the hot girl in the mercedes tbh, you're right she will take one look...
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    on plus side my facebook date on Sat went well but now low IL?

    tbh it was only like a 2 hour date thing, met at 9.45pm, 45 mins later she says she hasn't eaten and suggests going to chinese restaurant down the road, i say get food at the bar, kitchen was closed, 5 mins before 11pm waitress tells us the pub is closing, i drive her back to the road, chiense...
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    i like older and younger women, and she's hot, granted there's something def wrong with her if she's 40+ and still partying all the time like she's 18, no surprise no kids and no surprise she has pets, no cats but couple dogs.. they all seem carbon copies of one another (older women that is).
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    absolutely nothing. no reply, no abuse nothing. don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing she upset me. silence is the way forward. i already stated my case that i don't meet women who cancel 10 mins beforehand and that she has to make it up to me (she already said she'd make it up to...
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    i don't appear to be able to edit my original post so i'll write it here, the last message i officially sent her on sunday telling her to make it up to me was: 'you need to make it up to me BIG time. ;) i have a rule: i dont meet women who cancel 10mins before meeting. that's a big no-no and...
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    it wasn't so much an argument more so trying to persuade her to come which i accept is wrong thing to do.. should have gone silent not responded, it's because i was already there walking to the place dressed up so i felt i needed a return on my investment but really i should have more self...
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    technically speaking she pre flaked at 2pm when she confirmed '5pm would be better.. i'm shy blah blah' not sure if that makes a difference or makes it worse? i.e. semi-confirms 3 hours earlier then flakes 20 mins before meeting
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    haha can you believe this sh1t?? not only is she not sorry she's tryna make excuses as to why cancelling on me 20 mins before was not disrespectful.. she texts me just now at 6pm here's what she said: hi so where were we... ah i did tell u i was not easy, but i would like to let u know it was...
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    on plus side my facebook date on Sat went well but now low IL?

    i dont think that was the case, she said she hadn't eaten all day cos she was at work, this was half way during the date suggesting to go for dinner.. i was perfectly happy where i was.. if she wanted food she could have got me to pay for it. i suggested we go somewhere else after but she had...
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    flakes 10 mins before we're supposed to meet i can't give her another chance can i?

    it's not so much the effort in trying to get her out, it's the bit prior i.e. sending 100s of messages on facebook, getting one to bite the bait.. like fishing so builds up effort over time. i dont like going bars and it's always too loud and never had any success picking up there so i don't...
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    on plus side my facebook date on Sat went well but now low IL?

    it wasn't as straight forward as that, i drove her back to her place and she got out while i was still in the car, there was no parking on her road and there were cars coming from behind so i had to move. i didn't walk her to the door, i was going to but as i couldn't find parking she was like...
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    did u ever pick up a girl via FB?

    i'd like to add my 2 cents seeing as you've been so helpful on my other threads :) anyway the last 4 women i have met have all been from facebook pickups, i don't do it the way you do i.e. adding people friend requests. i message them, spam like but change the message by a few words each...
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