did u ever pick up a girl via FB?

[pyros]

Just wondering...
I've tried it several times, I dont know how many, let's say around 15 times. Ive sent a friend request to a cute girl and in 90 % of the cases she has either:

a) not accepted it
b) accepted it and deleted me after a few days.
c) accepted it, ignored my message and deleted me after a few days.

Actually I just had success with one girl that I ended up banging, but she was the one to add me actually.
Sometimes I attached a small message either saying that I found her cute, or saying some silly crap, but in all cases no results.

I'm not that ugly, and I have a nice profile so...I think girls think that a guy trying to pick them up on FB is just too lame.


What about you?

 

[Cerwin Vega]

I met 2 of my exes on FB, but that was 4 years ago.
One was a crazy ***** and the latter was (also a crazy stupid ***** but most importantly) the susp. BPD ex of a 4 year old relationship.

Needless to say that if we met on normal occasions where I could observe their behavior and interaction with total strangers, it probably wouldn't worked out.

 

[pyros]

I met 2 of my exes on FB, but that was 4 years ago.
One was a crazy ***** and the latter was (also a crazy stupid ***** but most importantly) the susp. BPD ex of a 4 year old relationship.

Needless to say that if we met on normal occasions where I could observe their behavior and interaction with total strangers, it probably wouldn't worked out.

alright, but I want statistics. How many times you tried it? how many successes?

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Kinda funny actually, both girls I just added without any expectations, started talking to them using an opinion opener and we clicked right away.

Again, mind that it was 4 years ago when Fb was a normal social network and I was 16 (girls were 17 and 15).

Oh, I just remembered I met another girl there 4 years ago, lost contact, met her again on a bus about 5 months ago and we dated for a while. Also crazy

 

[old_skoolr]

I did the fb thing for awhile. I was probably getting 4/10 success rate, which isnt bad. Set up some dates and had a ball. Nothing worthwhile though, nowdays I try it but get lazy since I've been there done that.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

3 of my current plates are FB pickups.

it goes like this:
1. add as friend
2. tease her on a profile image, or compliment her creatively in PM (her cute nose or whatever BS)
3. if she responds, quickly build rapport (1-2 chat sessions)
4. meet with her.

if on one phase i get negative/no feedback, NEXT.

 

[Maximummax]

FB = Bar environment
girls use both in the same way, just for attention whoring not for meting someone. Few yrs ago 4-5 it was diff.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Oh my god, I met a girl I was sure is cute on FB, we continued talking on the phone.
Everything went super smooth, I told her we should meet next week.
I asked her to send me full pictures of herself since the pics on FB only showed her face which was a solid 9

OH MY GOD.
http://cdn.themetapicture.com/media/funny-facebook-fat-cat.jpg

This is so true. She has at least 20kg of excess weight.

 

[Skyline]

Just wondering...
I've tried it several times, I dont know how many, let's say around 15 times. Ive sent a friend request to a cute girl and in 90 % of the cases she has either:

a) not accepted it
b) accepted it and deleted me after a few days.
c) accepted it, ignored my message and deleted me after a few days.

Actually I just had success with one girl that I ended up banging, but she was the one to add me actually.
Sometimes I attached a small message either saying that I found her cute, or saying some silly crap, but in all cases no results.

I'm not that ugly, and I have a nice profile so...I think girls think that a guy trying to pick them up on FB is just too lame.


What about you?

I've done it a few times in my early AFC years of high-school... Not sure if I can do it again seeing how FB is dying out and the Twitter universe is becoming more dominant. I would transfer over to twitter anyway, more hot girls over there- while I typically see more low quality/unattractive people on FB. I know for a fact there is a sh*t ton of creepers on FB compared to twitter as well, I know girls on there whom are attractive and get TONS of messages and friends requests from random ass guys just being creepy.

So if you want to stealth jump into social media poon then I would get into twitter, hands down. FB is like the Tinder of "quality" social media, while FB is the image POF.

 

[jake-a-roo4]

Why is it lame? People get together on FB all the time.

I've done it a few times in my early AFC years of high-school... Not sure if I can do it again seeing how FB is dying out and the Twitter universe is becoming more dominant. I would transfer over to twitter anyway, more hot girls over there- while I typically see more low quality/unattractive people on FB. I know for a fact there is a sh*t ton of creepers on FB compared to twitter as well, I know girls on there whom are attractive and get TONS of messages and friends requests from random ass guys just being creepy.

So if you want to stealth jump into social media poon then I would get into twitter, hands down. FB is like the Tinder of "quality" social media, while FB is the image POF.

What are you smoking? Almost every person has a FB account not just ugly looking people. You're going to have creepy people messaging/requesting on every social media site.

 

[Rainman4707]

Am gonna give this a try. I'll report back with the results.

 

[Skyline]

Why is it lame? People get together on FB all the time.



What are you smoking? Almost every person has a FB account not just ugly looking people. You're going to have creepy people messaging/requesting on every social media site.

Yes, they have one. It does not mean they actively use it, unlike people using Twitter. It just might be my generation though, it may still be more relevant in the older crowds.

 

[Rainman4707]

I sent out four requests....one accepted...after checking out her photos (she didn't have many) I decided to delete her.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I've had some really raunchy sex chats with desperate single mommies, mostly women I knew in high school. None of them were that hot, but they were all very horny.

 

[pete101]

Just wondering...
I've tried it several times, I dont know how many, let's say around 15 times. Ive sent a friend request to a cute girl and in 90 % of the cases she has either:

a) not accepted it
b) accepted it and deleted me after a few days.
c) accepted it, ignored my message and deleted me after a few days.

Actually I just had success with one girl that I ended up banging, but she was the one to add me actually.
Sometimes I attached a small message either saying that I found her cute, or saying some silly crap, but in all cases no results.

I'm not that ugly, and I have a nice profile so...I think girls think that a guy trying to pick them up on FB is just too lame.


What about you?

i'd like to add my 2 cents seeing as you've been so helpful on my other threads

anyway the last 4 women i have met have all been from facebook pickups, i don't do it the way you do i.e. adding people friend requests.

i message them, spam like but change the message by a few words each time, i won't go into what i use. then a follow up which is something funny, then a third asking how close they are to me in different wording (speed pick up so to speak)

in fairness if i sent 100 messages, i'll get about 15 replies, 8 maybe abuse, 4 are attention wh0ring and 3 potential interested and maybe 1 number from that.

if i was better looking, had more game, had more money etc i'd be slaying it more so i can't really complain, my expectations are rather low so if i just get 1-2 to meet i've done well.. the rest is down to me in person to perform.

made out with one 2 weeks ago, she's not speaking to me anymore.. buyers remorse maybe i dont know, doesn't matter i guess. one i met last week, but she's an attention wh0re/c0ck tease (the one i talked about in one of my threads), the one i met on Sat who suddenly has lost interest, and obviously the one who flaked 20 mins beforehand on Sun, also one i was due to meet ages ago but could never really find a suitable day time, also im not really that into her so it's partly my fault we haven't met.

so really it's doable.. but adding them as a friend is not the way forward, you need to send them a message (that they'll see i.e. you need to have a mutual friend so it goes into their inbox)

my secret to finding a huge friends list full of hot women? add a party promoter who has hot chicks on his friends list to come to his nights at a certain club etc. whole friends list are of hot girls who dont know each other and you have excuse of going to one of the promoters parties before.