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Two things here... First of all- Don't get too worked up about what some overbaked chicks in a club said. Most of them go there to feed their already overinflated egos by chopping guys down all night. Eventually they'll get theirs through poetic justice of some sort. Second- Use this as...

Do a forum search... this topic has been beaten to death around here. People have pretty strong feelings on both sides of the issue. Once you've been out there awhile I think you'll see some truth in what she says about what all these "techniques" can and cannot really do based on a chicks...

The only thing you can do is tell her where you stand and then go ahead and give her some space. These situations happen all the time, and unfortunately most of them don't work out very well. You gotta remember, dude, you started dating this girl when she was 14, and it's pretty rare for...

You can get really hot chicks if they're into you... that's all there is to it. It's no different than getting average chicks, except that their standards are probably higher and your margin of error is a lot smaller. If you're barely getting a chance to say hello, then they're not into...

does that make sense on ANY level? yeah I may be wrong, but some random girl kissing you is DEFINITELY a sign of Interest I think you're wrong. If she's totally random then how in the world can she have a chance to be interested in you? More likely than not they're doing that...

At this point you're forcing it, and any of them that you actually manage to talk to will sense that anyways. Start out by making small talk, etc. with no intention of closing them to practice relaxing... or just do the actual bootcamp. Eventually you'll just learn to live your life as you...

MOTU- It's not AFC at all to be having these feelings now. Actually, I'm a little surprised that someone with your knowledge would even think such things, but then again you're in a bad spot right now and that can make us not ourselves. AFC would be if you ignored clear and repeated signs of...

You have to get it in your mind that there's no quick fix... Like the other guy said, set personal goals and don't expect any of them to start paying off for like a year or so. First step is to get a better job and get your own place.

Stop. This is as far as you needed to go. At this point it should have been game over. But no... you decided to convince yourself that flirting with this women had some sort of value. You say you just wanted to practice, but that's wrong. If that's all it was then you wouldn't have been...

I know certain people who I can count on to basically disappear while they're dating someone and then they show up more once it's over. I make sure that I never act that way, and I don't really respect that sort of behavior because I don't think that's what being a friend is really about...

Bringing this subject up every two weeks is pointless... of course looks matter to women. The good news is that HOW MUCH that matter does vary a little bit- and the fact that different chicks have different tastes. So all you can do is make the best of yourself and get out there. The...

Don't do anything, but if she ever asks you out on a date tell her to grow up and come back once she's dumped that boyfriend because until then you're not interested in stroking her ego and being a band-aid for her screwed up relationship.

Depends on what you mean exactly by cold approach... walking straight up to chicks who are obviously busy is a bad strategy. But, making conversations with chicks you see every day by going about your everyday routine (rather than just saying nothing and ignoring them) works just fine once...

Waste of time. You'll spend weeks sending emails, talking a couple times on the phone, etc. etc. just to meet some chick who either put up a really old picture, is just doing it to feed her ego, or ends up not digging you. It's a lot more efficient just to get out there in the real world.

The secret is more about those 5-10 minutes you spent talking to them than the first thing you said in your approach. If a chick's not into you, it does give them a good chance to really slam you. Situational observations are still the best bet.

Frank- There's a pretty high noise level on this forum sometimes- but if you can cut through it, there's some great advice and information.... and this long post is full of great stuff. Just because some of it doesn't sound easy or doesn't sound like what you WANT to hear at this moment- it's...

Completely normal... changing your ways doesn't happen overnight. Eventually you'll have enough regrets and doing the right thing will become automatic. Accept the fact that you're gonna lose a lot of chicks during this time. Eventually stuff will start to stick.

No, but what does it matter what we think? Just call her up again and ask her out.

I couldn't possibly agree with this more. Get off the silly chat program and go find a new girl to approach.

If this site has opened a whole new world for you, we wouldn't know it. Step one is confidence and being direct about what you want when it comes to getting a number and asking someone out. If you try to ask this girl out now using this email you chances of success are pretty small, and it...