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Alright guys I'd really appreciate some help here! I've recently been drawn to POF again as I'm in a new job working 60 hour weeks, and it's live in, so I'm struggling to get out as much to meet girls. Now, you can judge for yourselves in a bit but I don't think I'm bad looking, but I get...

In regard to the final point... I agree with you, when it comes to actually dating girls it's difficult to find the right circumstances, IE she's single, doesn't have her eye on someone else, you actually like her enough to date, she isn't still in love with her ex, etc etc etc. it really is...

It's like talking to a brick ****ing wall. I politely explained that I didn't think hanging out as friends would be sensible, best we have some space, but her reasons for dumping me were because she "wasn't in a position to do this properly, but she does like me" so I left it on the note of...

The girl id been dating showed signs of using Facebook to provoke jealousy, only early stages so I deleted her. Her friend had tagged her in some post saying "out on the prowl" which she commented on "a little too much :p" This like a day after she dumped me, at best it's thoughtless, but I do...

I handled it calmly, told her if that's how she feels fair enough, I'm disappointed. But that's life. Waited a couple data, deleted her Facebook "without the pointless message telling her im deleting her" Feel a million times better for it, happen to have got a new phone recently so no texts...

Thanks for taking the time to reply. You guys are mosty spot on, I worry about the relationship ending and, as a result cause it to end. I'm aware how perceptive girls are, it's just become an almost natural cycle which I'm finding tricky to break. Relationships are far from the only...

Ok, I'm going to avoid giving you guys my life story but a little background info helps me explain my situation. Until I was about 21 I'd never even made out with a girl, I was overweight, and due to my lack of success with girls I was really bad at talking to girls in a romantic way, I was...

She's given you her number and agreed to a date because she doesn't want to say no to your face. Girls give out their number like confetti, I have had literally hundreds of numbers from girls I've met, and at least 60% of them haven't even responded to my first text message. It's a numbers...

Through a combination of this website and my own personal experiences, I've learnt a lot about dating and dealing with girls. Several lesssons I now hold close to me and observe them like the bible, but if I had to pick one key piece of advice it would be this; "Girls will almost always lose...

A couple years back I was dating a girl that lived about 60 miles away and she used to come to mine every weekend, and after a while I paid towards her petrol, not all of it, think I paid about half. But to be fair, she made te effort to drive 60 miles every weekend, if it wasn't for my job id...

Depends doesn't it. I had a date with a girl on Wednesday, set up a second date with her last night which is for next week. But I work a lot and when I'm working I'm not around, I can only see her on my days off and she knows this, therefore it stands to reason that I'll make plans for my days...

My worry is that you're already this attached to a girl that you barely know! You've been out for a coffee with her and spoken with her a few times, that's all. To be describing her as oneitis suggests to me that you rarely get dates, in which case you're probably coming off as quite desperate...

The key here is learning to tell the difference between a girl that's jealous of you being with other girls, or a girl that's jealous that she's not the one getting the attention. I've been LJBF by girls who haven't liked me talking about other girls, it's not because they want you for...

Ok, firstly I'm gonna say I have nothing against sex with hookers, did it myself when I was 18 in Amsterdam, didn't enjoy it though but that's beside the point. However, the problem you have isnt that you'l haven't had sex, it's that you have no idea how to go about getting it, banging a hooker...

What I do is just not care, and if it does annoy me, I never let the girl know that! Just reply politely, "hey no worries that's fine," and then dont ask her out again, or at least leave it a while before you do. If. Girl is genuinely interested, she'll make sure you're aware that the reason she...

I have got realistic expectations. I work hard to have a good body, I'm no cover model (yet) but I look good, I work hard in my job and I've got a lot of talent, the fact my job is a chef makes me a little more appealing to women maybe.... I dress well, look after myself and do my best in...

Right, look, I don't care what the context of the conversation is, there are a bunch of men discussing Titanic on a forum. Man the **** up! It's a ****ing movie, it's not real life! New levels of stupidity have been reached here.

This has got to be a joke?! You're asking for advice on a forum about a girl you've never met?! Has it actually come to this?! Man the f*ck up, go meet some girls in real life and stop wasting your time with Internet girls. Unbelievable

This has got to be a joke?! You're asking for advice on a forum about a girl you've never met?! Has it actually come to this?! Man the f*ck up, go meet some girls in real life and stop wasting your time with Internet girls. Unbelievable

If a girl did that to me I wouldn't even text her, just ignore her and only reply if she contacts you with a very good explanation.