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    being a friend isn't always bad!

    It's a problem if you're hanging around with the girl with th solo hope that maybe one day she'll fall for you, obviously that's bad and it usually means you'll pass up opportunities with other girls in the process. But I genuinely do not see the problem with just enjoying someone's company in...
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    being a friend isn't always bad!

    It's a problem if you're hanging around with the girl with th solo hope that maybe one day she'll fall for you, obviously that's bad and it usually means you'll pass up opportunities with other girls in the process. But I genuinely do not see the problem with just enjoying someone's company in...
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    being a friend isn't always bad!

    It's a problem if you're hanging around with the girl with th solo hope that maybe one day she'll fall for you, obviously that's bad and it usually means you'll pass up opportunities with other girls in the process. But I genuinely do not see the problem with just enjoying someone's company in...
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    being a friend isn't always bad!

    I don't understand what's wrong with being friends with a girl? I have lots of friends, most male, some female. What's the problem? They're just people, if you like them then why not hang out? There is a girl I've known for about 6 months or so, she always seemed potentially dateable, nice...
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    I wish I could go back...

    Really?! When i was in my AFC days I was fat, subservent, a wimp, and absolutely awful with women to the point where I'd lay in bed crying about some girl that couldn't care less about me. Now I'm in great shape, practice martial arts, very confident and am good with meeting and pulling girls-...
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    What is SELF-RESPECT?

    For me, learning to always do your 100% best I'm everything you do, be it work, sports, relationships or anything else, will give you all the self respect you need. Starting martial arts was the catalyst for me to do that, a lot has changed in the last 6 months!
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    Shot down 6 - 7 times tonight

    rejection is the only way to success. to me a failure is not apppmaaggmg. rather than being shot down. last night I got rejected loads of times, mostly by average looking girls. then I got talking to one French girl. hotter than any of the girls I'd been talking to and went home with her...
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    The common case of calling and her not picking up !!

    The mistake here isn't how many times you called her, or what message you didn't leave, or how long you waited to call her etc etc. It's the fact that you care THIS MUCH about a girl you have NEVER EVEN MET!!! Ask yourself, honestly, do you think that your focus is reciprocated by her? No, if...
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    Girlfriend doesn't want a relationship, her feelings all over the place, advice?

    The poster saying improve yourself is absolutely spot on. At the end of the day, do you want to be in this position again? Because unless you do something to change yourself, it's more than likely you will be. There is no shame in this happening to you, in fact I'd say you need to be very lucky...
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    the problem of being average looks on POF

    I'm currently dieting, getting down to a lean physique with a 6 pack etc, when I achieve that maybe I'll use POF as additional way to meet women, but until then real life is far better!
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    Should I call/text this girl again or wait things out?

    My two cents worth. Try to avoid directly asking girls out, especially if they're giving conflicting IOI. I met a girl on Saturday, made out a lot, then sent her this text, "im going to be out the country for a few days from tomorrow, so opportunities to spill a drink on your sexy self will...
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    Unsure what to do about this...

    This is a joke surely? Mate she has changed her number to get rid of you! If you continue to pursue her it could he bordering on harassment! Move on and find another girl, believe it or not, girls don't respond very positively to harrasment.
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    I HATE Oneitis!

    This is like reading somebody describing my life! About 6 months ago I met a girl, out of the blue I fell for her, slept with her a few times then she "wasn't sure about her feelings," suddenly became really busy, unavailable, yet still did enough to keep me hooked! She also had lots of male...
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    Girls are weird!

    Don't get me wrong, I very much do take stuff like this in my stride! At the end of the day I'd rather be getting make outs, invited back to girls' houses etc and then have them play games/ go cold, as apposed to the position i was in not so long ago where even getting a number was a rarity...
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    Girls are weird!

    Honestly, women are nuts! Met a girl on saturday night, number closed, make out, eventually she invited me back to hers, shared a bed but no sex, gave me the usual about how guys only want to f*ck her etc etc. I left in the morning, she openly went in for a kiss, long make out then i leav...
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    Looks Matter

    Ok; firstly, of course looks matter, anyone who thinks otherwise is absolutely deluded. Now you can either use that as an excuse and resign yourself to a lifetime of ugly girls, or you can get off your ass and do something about it. Like the OP I've been on two, quite extreme ends of this...
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    British accent

    Random question here! I'm English and going to Orlando for a holiday next week! Heard lots of stereotypes that American girls love the British accent! Just wondered how true that was?! I'm 24 years old, I'd consider mused quite good looking (get my arse pinched by girls in nightclubs Quite a...
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    "If someone better came along, ide leave you"

    To be fair to her at least she's being honest! Almost a year ago to the day a girlfriend dumped me as she "needed to be single" and was then with a black belt kick boxer within a couple of weeks! It's obviously the right decision to dump her but she's only saying what 90% of girls are...
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    ok i got dumped by text, anyway to salvage this?

    I would honestly just not call her, cancel on meeting her and go find a new girl, just let it go she's not interested.
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    kinda confused as to what she wants

    She's doing enough to keep you interested without having to commit anything on her part. Just ignore her.
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