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Victory Unlimited, Phyzzle, Elchoclo -> While I don't consider myself to be a DJ, I know how to handle a woman in an LTR & make her happy. I think only a man who has goals & who knows how to make a woman happy in a LTR can understands what this thread is really about, that why the question...

You're basing your accusations on personal opinions about what men need to be happy. There's more to life than sex only as you say. Latinoman didn't wrote anywhere that he left because he wanted sex with somebody else. It's all about respect indeed. Respect is handling people well &...

Who are we to judge what a person does? I feel that the right woman can enhance a man's life. If and only if she is the right woman. Marriage isn't about being selfish, but both partners in a marriage are supposed to be happy. That's life: being happy. If one is not happy and has a...

Good post, Latinoman, couldn't have written it better. We experience, we change. "Much of life is an awakening", A-unit. Perfection does not exist, the one who seeks perfection will end with frustration. We must learn to live with human imperfection. However if her imperfection blocks...

I'm not Latinoman, but I left my ex too. It has mostly to do with change. *Your vision on life can change: you set new goals, you get new hobbies, new habits,... Some women can block you in doing what you need to do to be happy. *She can change: personality changes, her habits changes,...

Nobody can tell you what to do. The only persons that know exactly how things are with your ex & your feelings towards it, is you. Two things: 1. People can only change if they see their errors themselves & want to correct them. 2. You've read the book before, several times from what I've...

I can totally relate to everything you write: emotionally unstable, doesn't mind her own business, dares giving you advice on what you should do with your life/job/carreer,... red flags all over the place. A man can live with this for a while, but eventually it becomes a burden. But you know...

I left my ex 5months ago. Our relationship lasted 1 year. When I left her she was totally into me: I made her happy & brought stability in her life. I was her world. She changed a lot just to please me, sexually, householdery,... did her best she could to make me happy. She changed so...

As a man, you have to be a leader. So you must be the one initiating contact with them. You have the right mentality of not wanting to give it away to just anybody. This is being the prize "I could, but I won't: she doesn't match my standards". Succesful people use mistakes & failure...

Yes, get busy. Concentrate on work, money, your self, your hobbies, your health, your friends, ... Once you've done all that, you'll have your women. peace.

There is some controversy in your post. First you say you can get any women in bed if you talk to her one on one, then you say you can't get laid. What is it now? I remember your posts last summer. After all the sh!t you had with your ex, it is normal that you do not like to settle with...

Life can be funny. When I was 19, I had a good company of ca. 10 friends I got to know during the school years. They were good friends, I had always something to do. Lots of acquintances too, we were invited to multiple places, got to know people through them,... Don't know why, but...

How important are Friends for a Mature Man? Do you choose who you are friends with? Do you have red flags you handle with male friends? Why are friends important for you as a Mature Man? -peace.

I totally agree with everything you wrote. Some addendum regarding the telephone part: they idd have to respond immediately to what you say. This is why women hang up on the phone when manipulation doesn't work: it gives them the time to contact their friends to ask what to do. I'm also...

Using ultimatums is giving your power away: nothing worked so far, so you're using your last option: the ultimatum. That's why, from my experience, women use ultimatums so much in a relationship: to take over power because nothing else worked. Better is to walk away, but walk away should be...

It's indeed funny, because it's true. It's always the same: attention seeking & lack of respect. The first time my ex-gf did this to me, I told her immediately after her call: "Listen when I'm with you, this means I'm freeing time to be with you. You have your gfs & you want to call: no...

You killed me on this one ::D

Got this through e-mail today. ************** The following is from a 1950's home economics textbook intended for high school girls, teaching them how to prepare for married life: 1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal — on time. This is a way...

Totally agree. Women become feminist firstly because of the education they have. For women that reach their 30s and single, their past/experiences must be add to this. It becomes deeply hardcoded. My ex-gf was 26 and I was able to remold her in only one year, but I admit that it was a...

Exactly, AFC generation. This is typical AFC behaviour: no cold approach is needed, as they already know the woman. After having been LJBF, they wait until they get a second chance. The guy leaves, the guys dies, whatever: AFC "friend" takes his chance with this woman & charge on. In...