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    How to get out of thought / attitude of "chasing"?

    okay... Well...go figure she messaged me yet again (today)...asking if I would help her with an audition. This was her message: "Yo yo. How are you. Hope you had a good week. I have another very very short tape to do for a film tomorrow. Its literally just an action sequence and the tiniest...
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    How to get out of thought / attitude of "chasing"?

    Hey all... Well...I have not initiated any phone calls or texts. She called me up again a few days ago, and asked me if I would help her with an audition (this is probably the 4th time since I have known her). I agreed...but had a voice at the back of my head saying, "mmmmm...is she just...
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    How to get out of thought / attitude of "chasing"?

    Well... She did not give me a chance to text her back...as she took it upon herself to call me 15 minutes ago. She apologized for being a "shyt"...said she has been crazy busy. Wanted to chat, catch up, etc. I kept it very friendly, and I DID NOT attempt to make any type of plans with her...
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    How to get out of thought / attitude of "chasing"?

    Thanks guys... Well...after ghosting her, I tossed her number. Been about 2 weeks. Go figure she messaged me today...apologized for not responding sooner, as she has been crazy busy...asking how I've been...how class is, what has been going on, etc. Nothing really personal I wrote her off...
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    How to get out of thought / attitude of "chasing"?

    Hey guys, Girl - 37 years old. Ended a relationship with her Fiance 12 months ago (bad break-up)...and moved to LA to get away from it. Met her on an online Zoom class (acting) last month. She asked me if I would help her with a scene she needed to film for an audition, and we exchanged...
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    Online Bumble Message/Date Advice needed...

    Honestly...I don't even know where my concern is. :oops: Kino felt like it was near impossible (and I also didn't even feel like attempting), as she seemed very guarded. Maybe I wasn't attempting, as I was not that into her... My mind also went into overdrive for a couple of things. 1) she...
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    Online Bumble Message/Date Advice needed...

    Okay...well this went.....odd. She basically took control and kept if VERY safe. I know...I am going to get FlaK from everyone for not taking control...but this whole online dating thing is really odd for me. Normally when I am out with a girl...I already have a rapport. In this case, there...
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    Online Bumble Message/Date Advice needed...

    Hey guys... Thanks for the replies... Soooooooooo...I am meeting this girl today...but she wants to keep it to a day date. Basically meeting her for a coffee this afternoon. Not really what I am used to...
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    Online Bumble Message/Date Advice needed...

    So...to keep it short... Matched with a really cool girl...athletic, rock climber, artist...veeeeeerry interesting. The past few matches I have had, after a few humorous/C&F messages back and forth, I have always casually told them to shoot me their number, and I'll hit them up. However...in...
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    My mental issues and inability to read women are driving me INSANE

    Completely agree... Haha...though she has never mentioned it (always talks about her roommate)...found out today that it turns out gymnast has a BF...so time to walk away on that one anyway.
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    My mental issues and inability to read women are driving me INSANE

    Last night was "okay"... Some kino from my end...nothing crazy. But I did comment on her body. "So...you still training?" "No...not really..." Making a point to look at her up and down...not in a creepy way... "You serious? You look amazing..." She gave me a shy smile, and a very quite...
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    My mental issues and inability to read women are driving me INSANE

    Hey samspade... I hear ya man... Part of my issue is that the 10 year relationship dragged me waaaaaaaaaaaaaay down. Very happy to be out of it, but quite honestly now that it is over, apart from the gym, and 1 day a week in class, I have very limited social interaction (quite the opposite...
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    My mental issues and inability to read women are driving me INSANE

    Hey guys... Soooooooooooooooo...I increased the flirting a bit. She is a smoking hot Asian Gymnast...so I ended up throwing a neg hit or two in there....but I "think" they come off a bit bad (like I was being a bit mean, maybe). Most of our interactions all already tend to be very...
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    My mental issues and inability to read women are driving me INSANE

    Film/Drama School...only 1 day a week, though.
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    My mental issues and inability to read women are driving me INSANE

    Hey guys... So I am finding myself STILL not being able to pull myself out if whatever BS rut I am in. Since ending an LTR a year ago...I find myself: 1) wanting to be around women...but feeling like I couldn't to bothered 2) totally cool being single...but at times lonley as fvck 3)...
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    Having social issues - how do I get out of it?

    yup...agree with you there. I think because I am sooooooooo damn tired at end of class due to my regular day (class ends 1030pm or so), that I don't even think about it. Obviously my own issue... Time to re-group and re-focus my own life come Jan 1...
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    Having social issues - how do I get out of it?

    Hey guys... Sooooo this is probably going to sound a bit pathetic. Many years ago (before I got married), I was constantly social. Had a lot of friends, was invited to many parties, hangouts, get-togethers, etc. I FELT amazing. Dated some really hot women, and truly felt my groove. After I...
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    Not meeting a girl's HEIGHT expectations...

    Sorry R.U.G. ..but though I understand your comments, I disagree. I also really don't care if I "blew it"...as "blowing it" does not really matter to me. ;) I think The Prospect has it right. I personally like women who work out, and take care of themselves. I also HATE the fake lip shyt...
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    Not meeting a girl's HEIGHT expectations...

    okay...so I know I messed up on this one. Been doing the online dating thing. Mtched wtih a really cute girl who very CLEARLY wrote in her profile, "I am 5'9", so please be over 6' " Based on on other things she wrote in her profile...she knows EXACTLY what she wants. But...I really did not...
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