Hey guys...
So I got out of an extremely destructive on and off 8 year relationship just before covid started.
Really glad to be out of it, but when I reflect back on how I was before I met her... I feel that now... like I'm just completely withdrawn from women in general.
I enjoy my life. I...
Yup!
Funny you say that...
My very short profile clearly states that "I am Canadian, living in LA"...after 3 or 4 messages she said, "so.....I know you are American...but where are you from?"
ummmmmmmmmmmm...okay, so someone clearly did not read my profile...hahahaha...
I hear yeah...there is the old saying, "No reply...is still a reply." :)
Sure it was a "smiley face"...but that is basically her replying with "no reply"...
I would have come to the same conclusion as you did on that one.
Funny...always easier to see things clearly when it is NOT about...
alright...well...
I think one of my problems is though I have very limited experience with online dating...those I have matched with, I have always gotten a phone number quite quickly. I would call...we would chat...and then set something up. I should have maybe changed my approach on this one...
Thanks guys....yeah...I hear ya.
Good point on the stalker thing. Supposedly these were also men who she never even slept with. Giving creadance to the "she probably leads men on" comment.
Well...when I got up this morning...i saw a message from her. Appears she messaged me last night...
So...I generally have one rule when it comes to online dating: If I don't get a number within the first few messages, I assume interest is extremely low and I'll generally just move on.
I'm also not big on online dating... And for sure I don't have a lot of experience with it as most of the...
My question would be what is your definition of FRIEND? A girl you talk to like a guy friend...hang out with...let her call you and talk about her problems...you call her to see what is up...blah blah blah...? In short, you being her GIRLfriend?
OR
An acquaintance type friend?
I am...
I appreciate the comments...but...
Huh?
ummmmmmmmmmmmmm...this has NOTHING to do with religion...so not really sure how you are coming to that conclusion?
Okay...so...backstory.
I was on the forum 12 years ago (another username), with around 3000+posts. Knew the bible inside and out...and was VERY successful with my energy around women, to the point where everyone noticed. I remember guys in school saying, "how do you do it man?" This forum...
Did not ask her out when I first saw her, as I was with my REALTOR, and this was a business meeting.
I was not that info her.
She had a BF when I met her. She revealed she got rid of her BF around Jan or so.
This situation went on for a few months...and ended about 3 months ago...just wanted another take on it
Met a hot girl (slightly older) when looking for a townhouse. She was actually one of the owners selling, planning on moving out in May 2020 (this was back in October)
I ended up not buying...
In all male/female friendships there is always a mutual attraction...I am not saying a mutual SEXUAL attraction, but an attraction nonetheless. Otherwise you would not be friends at all. This attraction can always lead to sex, given the circumstances.
Sure, I can be friends with a girl who is...
I was friends with an HB9 many years ago. GORGEOUS. 5'10", looked like Halle Berry...
I used to get her to drive me home from school once a week. She was hot...but I did not go for her. I basically had my pick of any girl I wanted at the school at that time. I was INDIFFERENT without a DOUBT...
Well....I tossed her number a few weeks ago. Not calling her again, not asking her to do anything. BUT...it is a foregone conclusion that she will be initiating a text or calling me again within the next week or two. Probably for EXACTLY the same thing - helping her with an audition.
That...
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