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Long story short....met a girl online. Cute and had an interesting profile. She also clearly stated that she does not like texting conversations. After I matched with her and a couple brief messages went back and forth...I suggested that it would be better to get to know each other over a...

Just curious... Normally, if I match from someone on Tinder, I delete if there is NO response; the convos don't go anywhere; or she won't give up # to get away from the nonsense texting conversation. When it came to the "normal" way of meeting women, I used to be in the habit of nexting...

Well...as stated earlier...I told her to shoot me her # within a couple messages. nada...she blew by that one, and kept communicating. After that...from advice above...suggested that we get together later this week. nada...same as above...kept communicating In my last message to her, I told...

sounds like a plan... ;)

Hey guys, Well...I don't "usually" use Tinder...but about a week ago, I matched with this gorgeous fitness trainer. Usually I prefer younger women, but she is 43 (same age as me), and we have a lot of similar interests...we are also both vegan. I initiated convo, and messages back and forth...

I wrote about this woman earlier in the year. She is around 10 years older than me...and though we are friends on FB, Instagram, Twitter, etc...I really don't talk or communicate with her. Mainly because though she has shown MEGA interest...my only real interest would be having casual fun with...

I am sooooooooooooooooooooooo going to coin that phrase... :)

Well...quite frankly: "dude...when she was back and forth between here and Australia...she was calling you to hang out multiple times as friends whenever she was here in LA. You hung out with her every time. When she finally moved back permanently to LA only a few months later - SHE DID NOT...

Hahaha....:D:D:D:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

I knew she lived down the street from me. Ran into her a few times here and there...nothing crazy. She is friends with my neighbor...rather than knocking on her door at 3 am...she knocked on mine, thinking it was her friend's place. It was not premeditated. I invited her in, as she seemed...

:D:D:D CSAH - hahaha! have not heard that one before...

Thanks guys, One thing though... I have noticed that situations like this bring up my BIG psychological problems...which is probably what bothers me the most...and why I am so hard on ME. When I was in Jr. High and High school...I had MAJOR falling outs with people who I considered friends...

Very, very true... :)

Very very true. In this specific situation with my friend from Pluto...I have two voices in my head. I have known her for 8 years or so. One voice is saying, 'dude...You should have kept your mouth shut...Been friends...Moved on...Kept the friendship as is...What a joke you are' . She is...

hahaha... yup...lots of friends from Pluto... :) I used to be on my game loooooooooooooooooooooong ago. But lost my mojo somewhere along the way. Been a rough ride the past few years. Feel like I am back to square one with girls. which is a crappy feeling.

Haha... Yes its true. Probably because these are the only types of women I attract. I dunno...Maybe I am the one with the issues....:( I actually moved since she showed up at my door a few months ago...So no worries there.

Well... I complete CONTRADICTION to my AFC post from today... 8 months ago, a girl (40's) stopped by my place at 3:00am. She had 4 dogs with her...and is dressed in only a long T-shirt. Her boyfriend supposedly pulled a knife on her, and threatened her. She mistook my door for someone...

Well... I was frustrated...average...and felt like a chump...so I guess it fits. A girl I really liked came back into my life, after we parted ways quite a few years ago (parted ways as I really liked her...she did not like me). I have a really sh*tty instinct when it comes to girls I like...

Alright... Quick update. Bailed on the fist meeting. She emailed me over FB next day...C&F from my end...flirting back and forth. Went out with her a few days later. When we met, she immediately hugged me...but she held it way too long. I actually pulled away after a "normal" time frame...

mmmmm...I think I should clarify something. I knew her "off and on" for 10 years. We are in no way "good buddies" or anything like that. When she was in town (back and forth between Aussie-land and here), she would always want to "hang"... It actually got quite silly after a while...so I...