harrison9876
Don Juan
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Well...
I complete CONTRADICTION to my AFC post from today...
8 months ago, a girl (40's) stopped by my place at 3:00am. She had 4 dogs with her...and is dressed in only a long T-shirt.
Her boyfriend supposedly pulled a knife on her, and threatened her.
She mistook my door for someone else's.
I let her in...we chatted for an hour or so.
When she left, she wanted my number (in-case she needed to call me that night)...so I gave it to her. She called me up the next day to see if I wanted to hang out.
With my really sh*itty read on women...I really did not know what she wanted...so I passed.
I dunno...something about the violent BF bothered me, I guess.
We connected over Facebook a couple months later.
A few days ago, we had an interesting FB convo.
I was feeling ****ty about the girl I mentioned in my other post from today...so I started chatting with her about that...
As the convo progressed...she revealed that the night she came over, she was really into me...which I had no clue. Told me she thought I was mega hot - great body, eyes, smile, etc...and she wanted to do something that night, but thought it would have been difficult with the dogs being there.
I joked around about the fact that she has a BF...and she replied, "I'm not married"...she then further to tell me that he is 24, and she feels she needs an older guy...a lover.
The convo got fairly sexual, with her and I realizing our sexual wants/needs/turn-ons are the same.
She is very sexually aggressive....and there is a very open invitation to hook-up. She would be AMAZINGLY FUN...but I hesitate for a couple of reasons:
1) the violent BF
2) my current lack of self-confidence due to my recent fvck up with a girl I really liked
Also feeling like I am in a sh*tty, low, crappy, hard on myself, feeling like garbage mood...
Thoughts on who would pull the trigger in this situation?
I complete CONTRADICTION to my AFC post from today...
8 months ago, a girl (40's) stopped by my place at 3:00am. She had 4 dogs with her...and is dressed in only a long T-shirt.
Her boyfriend supposedly pulled a knife on her, and threatened her.
She mistook my door for someone else's.
I let her in...we chatted for an hour or so.
When she left, she wanted my number (in-case she needed to call me that night)...so I gave it to her. She called me up the next day to see if I wanted to hang out.
With my really sh*itty read on women...I really did not know what she wanted...so I passed.
I dunno...something about the violent BF bothered me, I guess.
We connected over Facebook a couple months later.
A few days ago, we had an interesting FB convo.
I was feeling ****ty about the girl I mentioned in my other post from today...so I started chatting with her about that...
As the convo progressed...she revealed that the night she came over, she was really into me...which I had no clue. Told me she thought I was mega hot - great body, eyes, smile, etc...and she wanted to do something that night, but thought it would have been difficult with the dogs being there.
I joked around about the fact that she has a BF...and she replied, "I'm not married"...she then further to tell me that he is 24, and she feels she needs an older guy...a lover.
The convo got fairly sexual, with her and I realizing our sexual wants/needs/turn-ons are the same.
She is very sexually aggressive....and there is a very open invitation to hook-up. She would be AMAZINGLY FUN...but I hesitate for a couple of reasons:
1) the violent BF
2) my current lack of self-confidence due to my recent fvck up with a girl I really liked
Also feeling like I am in a sh*tty, low, crappy, hard on myself, feeling like garbage mood...
Thoughts on who would pull the trigger in this situation?
